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@ace-big-brother
Hey!
I'm remaking this account, as those of you who follow my main may know, and I'm in the process of moving blogs!
This blog will still bee up, though, so don't worry! This will remain as an archive of sorts
It hurts my heart when I see pre-t trans boys hate themselves for being gay because they’re “still girls” I want to hug everyone of them and tell them they are valid and loved. If you are a trans boy you are a boy, it doesn’t matter if you are pre or post t. You are all valid and loved and you will find someone that loves you.
We really have harmed a whole generation of trans and gnc children by failing to communicate how serious a decision binding actually is, how there’s no ACTUALLY safe way to bind, how it permeneantly damages the body, how it can make top surgery more difficult in the future. I don’t think we should be keeping trans kids from binding (we let kids do all sorts of things they’re really not old enough to understand the potential consequences of) but we owe them the ability to make informed decisions at LEAST
So this is definitely an important conversation to have, but can you point me at some reading about “permanent damage”? I might just be lucky, but I had zero lasting effects from binding. I’d like to at least read up on it so I can have this conversation and be more specific than “be careful.”
Of course! I can’t easily source right now but I am more than happy to provide further info when I am not at work and on mobile. Unfortunately, like a lot of trans healthcare, a lot of what we know about binding is anecdotal and word of mouth. BUT permeneant damage can include:
-Musculoskeletal damage. Binders are indiscriminate compression tools; they can’t flatten the chest without applying pressure every other anatomical structure underneath including the spine, ribs, lungs and heart. Many people who bind experience chronic back pain, shoulder pain, sharp stabbing chest pains, permeneantly decreased lung capacity, literal spine deformation, etc etc.
-A continuation of the above but the ribs are actually jointed bones. Their ability to flex is absolutely vital to their ability to withstand trauma and protect your vital organs. Imagine the damage that would be done to your elbow if your bent your arm to full flexion and then tightly bound it closed like that, for six, eight, twelve hours per day, every day, for weeks or months or years. And you don’t NEED a functioning arm to live!
-Tissue atrophy. Forcing chest tissue to lay in an unnatural way can and will change the way that tissue looks, even to risk of atrophy. Some people who bind and only moderately dislike the way their chest looks find that they HATE the way it looks after binding for a period of time. Tissue atrophy can also make top surgery more difficult in the future, and increase the risk of complications like nerve damage.
-Worsened dysphoria. Once someone starts binding and becomes accustomed to seeing themselves with a flat chest, it can be much more difficult to see yourself without one, and dysphoria that much more intolerable. You can imagine the psychological feedback loop of binding more in response.
The typical safety measures passed around about binding are harm REDUCTION measures and should not be advertised as making binding “safe.” Binding is not safe. It is a very serious health decision with long term consequences and should be treated as such. That doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision, but it should not be considered the DEFAULT decision for chest dysphoria which is frankly how it’s currently treated.
gonna drop some links to read more:
Health impact of chest binding among transgender adults: a community-engaged, cross-sectional study Inside the Landmark, Long Overdue Study on Chest Binding
Binding FAQ
Health Consequences of Chest Binding
@pooflyperfectprincess
Holy shit
I went to the Philadelphia Trans Health Conference and went to a workshop held by a chiropractor who works with trans men (as well as being a trans man himself), so I’m going to pass on his advice to people who bind:
Stretch your chest, shoulders, and back everyday (at least)
This is a passive stretch where you place a foam roller at the bottom of your spine (to support your hips and lower back), and lifts your shoulders off of the ground, with your arms on the ground to balance you.
This stretch is meant to be held for a few minutes, open up your chest, and aid your everyday posture.
You probably don’t own a foam roller, he advised to wrap a towel or blanket very tightly and tied as a substitute. I use a layer of bed foam rolled up with two belts to keep it rolled. Whatever you use, it ought to have a bit of give and it needs to lift your shoulders off the ground.
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This is an active stretch. Stand in front of a doorway with your feet together (if the door way was not there, your toes would be touching the wall, not crossing through it). When you lift your arms up and put them against the wall, your feet, hips, and arms should all be in line with each other (your arms should not be behind you with your feet and hips in the doorway).
Make a “W” shape with your arms against the wall so that your elbows are the closest part of your arm to the ground, and take one small step forward.
You should feel a pull in your lower shoulders, but it should be comfortable to hold. Do not over stretch, you shouldn’t be leaning your weight into your arms to balance, your weight should be balanced by your legs. Do not judge yourself and think you are doing yourself a favor by thinking that you ought to have a bigger step. Sure, you could overstretch today, but you need to be able to do this tomorrow too! Hold this for 10-15 seconds. (Yet again. Do. Not. Overstretch.)
Bring your feet back together, and do it the other foot. There will probably be one foot that is easier than the other, stretch that step more often than the less difficult step.
Bring your feet together and bring your elbows up so that your upper arms are parallel to the ground and your elbow forms a 90° angle with your forearms. Take your small step forward and hold for 10-15 seconds and switch feet.
Now reach your arms up as high as you can. It doesn’t have to be much higher than the last stretch, if that is as high as you can go, then that’s it. If you can’t reach higher than the last stretch, put your arms down at your sides and then lift your arms up from your sides and put them against the wall (sorry he didn’t include a picture of this one in the slides, message me if this is unclear.)
Your goal is to be able to reach your arms up like in the picture so that you form a Y shape. Step forward and hold for 10-15 seconds, then switch feet.
His advice was to do this stretch as often as you use the bathroom at home (shoot for 3-5 times a day).
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The next two stretchs don’t have pictures! If you can do these stretches with ease and want a more intense version, try using dumbbells and incorporating it into your workouts.
If you’ve ever done snow angels? Put your heels, butt, shoulders, and arms up against a wall (as much of your body as you possibly can should be touching the wall) and lift your arms up as high as you can go like you are making a snow angel.
Alternatively, lay down on the ground instead of up against a wall if you need to work your way up to lifting your arms above your head.
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Again, with your body up against the wall, but this time with your arms in front of you, bring your arms up like Frankenstein’s monster, so that they are as high as your shoulders. Hold this for a few seconds.
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After trying these stretchs, it’ll probably be clear where your range of motion is most limited. For me, the most useful stretches are the W and 90° angle doorway stretch and foam roller stretch, bc I have the most trouble with my lower shoulders and chest. Try to maintain your range of motion where you have it, and use these stretches to improve your range of motion where you are limited.
For all my binding buddies.
shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.
Native/Cherokee lesbian flags (as I’m sure some of you know,I’m of native American ancestry,along with my other family members)
These flags are inclusive of all native/Cherokee lesbians regardless of skin tone,and the first one’s colors do not represent all native skin tones,but are rather a sample of native skin tones.
Non natives can not use this flag for themselves,but can make icons of native/Cherokee characters and reblog for natives to see!
Some Fun Facts
Trans men are men
Trans women are women
Enbys are real
There's more than 2 genders, and the idea that theres only 2 genders is an entirely western idea
You dont need dysphoria to be trans
Non-dysphoric trans people aren't cis
It's okay to experiment with labels
If it turns out that you're not LGBT+ that's okay! You figured yourself out, and thats perfectly healthy
Pronouns do not equal gender
Gender is a spectrum
Being trans isn't a mental illness
Pedophiles/MAPs aren't welcome in the LGBT+ community
K!nks aren't LGBT+
Hey guys! Here's someone for the blocklist @/know/that/there/are/only/2/genders (without the slashes). They're just generally transphobic, and thought sending hate mail to a minor would be a fun way to spend their Wesnesday evening
“Pronouns do not equal gender” =/= “pronouns don’t matter”
You’re entitled to the pronouns you want to be called. You’re allowed to be uncomfortable when someone calls you by the wrong pronouns.
You’re not allowed to police what pronouns other people want to be called. You’re not allowed to misgender someone because you think they’re using the wrong pronouns.
Respect my existence or expect my resistance.
@ every person who’s ever made a comment about how ‘that’s called friendship’ when aro people talk about QPRs
shut up and listen for once in your life.
Would you combine your finances with a friend?
Would you adopt (or have) kids with your friend?
Would you plan to live your entire life with your friend?
Would you get pets with your friend?
Would you set up your entire life around spending all your down time with your friend?
Would you spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed as your friend?
No. You wouldn’t. You would do those things and more with your sexual and romantic partner.
A QPR is not a friendship.
I have a best friend, we’ve known eachother since we were 5 and nobody else will ever be my best friend.
I have a QPP, we met in high school and she’s not my best friend because she’s me QPP and that’s a different kind of relationship.
I would never consider planning the rest of my life around my best friend. If we have to be far away then so be it, it wold suck but we’d keep in touch.
If I had a choice between a job far away and staying with my QPP then it probably wouldn’t be a choice.
I’d never consider asking my best friend to come with me if I moved away for work for good. I’d only move if my QPP was coming with me.
When my best friend and I share a bed on sleepovers we barely touch.
The one night I got to spend with my QPP we cuddled all night.
My QPP and I walked through the mall holding hands. My friend and I wouldn’t do that because that’s not how friends are once you’re more than about 10 years old. Not here at least.
When my best friend comes over we sit on different chairs and talk and share memes and play games.
When I have time with my QPP we’re right next to eachother and only let go if we have to.
When my best friend has to go home it’s a wave and a ‘seeya’ and we’re good.
When my QPP has to go home it’s a five minute hug with foreheads and noses touching and we’ve gone down the driveway together to the car.
My best friend and my QPP are equally important to me because I don’t view any one kind of relationship as being superior to another. They’re different.
Best friends expect eachother to have their own families and their own lives. QPPs hope to be able to share their entire lives.
If, after reading all of that at least twice you still want to invalidate QPRs and say that we’re just friends then I invite you to kindly go fuck yourself.
"Being aromantic is not in any way a moral trait, nor is it a mental illness."
I was one of the people interviewed for this.
Lesbian is such a beautiful word. Never let anyone tell you that you should identify with something less “forceful” or “exclusive”. Take pride in who you are and how you choice to identify. We are beautiful, handsome, and all around stunning!
To my trans/nb lesbians, this post is, of course, for you as well. This community flourishes because you are in it, never let anyone tell you differently.
Wow. Religious LGBTQ+ are just so wonderful.
Pagans? They’re stars
Muslims? They’re the greatest™
Christians? They’re heckin rad
Jews? They deserve ice cream and warm hugs
Sikhs? They raised my GPA and cured my asthma
Buddhists? They bless this world with their very presence
Hindus? Can’t get better than these guys
Shintoists? They’re A+++ human beings
Taoists? They’re about as wonderful as kittens
LGBTQ+ who religiously cover their heads (especially trans boys and nb ppl)? It makes me so happy knowing they exist
In conclusion, LGBTQIA+ people who are religious are great and deserving of so many good things. Be kind to them.
I haven’t seen any terms like stag/doe for aromantics so I decided to come up with a few, and they’re based on flowers!
Poppy aro - aromantic person that presents femininely, regardless of gender
Dietes aro - aromantic person that present androgynously, regardless of gender
Scilla aro - aromantic person that presents as masculine, regardless of gender
I hope everybody like these 💙
Guys please boost this @transmasc-sylveon @coyotecourse @queer-experiences
Oh and everyone don’t you DARE say “aromantic people don’t need that” or “it’s …..phobic” I will personally remove your toes
amazing post op….
Lesbian flag survey part two!!
Welcome back folks, sorry for leaving you hanging for so long!
Here’s is the link to the second survey
Please choose your favourite out of these five!!
This survey closes on the 20th of this month
That’s 20/9/18 (or 9/20/18)
Please get the word out!!
Hey guys, please vote!
@fuckyeahasexual @ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity because I know a lot of lesbian aces follow you and sadlesbiandisaster is extremely aphobic, and as a result her flag would be forever alienating towards those of us who are aspec lesbians so I feel they should at least be aware this vote is happening, and be aware that sadlesbiandisasters flag is made by… who it is.
Mood board and aesthetic requests are open, every one!!!
plz reblog if your page is a safe space for all asexual spectrum and trans people!!!!
i need some good ass accounts to follow that are open for my cousin (trans) and i (asexual) :^)