Positivity is still here

This blog is a positivity blog for all the queer/trans/intersex peoples. Ace/aro people are queer, trans people are the gender they tell you they are, there are more than two genders, we don't support Mr. Trump, all people deserve equality, we support religion, but not hate that uses religion as an excuse. MAPs are not welcome. Languages we offer are Español, Français, Latin, Esperanto and very very bad Dutch.

[lgbtqiapositivity]

Hi. Sorry to bother you but is it possible that you could give my pinned post a boost ?

Sure thing!

[lgbtqiapositivity]

You don’t have a pinned post anymore 🥲

[lgbtqiapositivity]

Hi. Sorry to bother you but is it possible that you could give my pinned post a boost ?

Sure thing!

[thepeacefulgarden]

[fluteenthusiast]

a truly enjoyable part of the tumblr experience is not being a supernatural fan and trying to decipher the spn post-finale fandom drama that stirs up every week or so like an immersive horror puzzle game

[shimmerpuppy-deactivated2022110]

please boost to help a struggling autistic 18 year old transmasc person

please i really need help, i havent had anything substantial to eat in days now and i’m having brain fog. i need just a couple dollars and i can eat. i haven’t been able to get my medication or HRT for months now and i feel miserable. i got my car totaled in a head on collision by a speeding driver in February of this year that left me in debt and permanently with chronic pain + being a really, really traumatic experience. i live alone and i’m very, very behind on rent and i have nowhere to go since my parents kicked me out when they found out i was trans. i’m honestly really, really scared and i don’t know how stuff is going to work out for me here.

my paypal is @skyve please if you cant give a couple dollars just boost.

if you can’t donate and want to help besides reblogging if you message me and try to talk to me that would make me really happy i’m just feeling really scared and alone right now. if you need proof you can also dm

Pay Katherine Veith using PayPal.Me

Go to paypal.me/skyve and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

heres the link https://www.paypal.me/skyve

[crossdreamers]

Transgender lesbian woman tears gender stereotypes apart in viral video

You have probably heard it before: “Wearing a dress does not make you a woman!”

Over at twitter, Eva, a lesbian transgender woman, published this amazing video in response, showing the world what kind of stupid stereotype this is (embedded above).

Eva writes:

Jokes aside, early on in transition I would worry so much about if I wasn’t trans enough because I genuinely enjoyed some of the ways I was masculine before I came out.

Re-contextualizing that through the frame of lesbian masculinity has made me feel so much more at ease, and it’s made me so much more comfortable with those parts of myself than as I ever did trying to express them as a man.

I love my shoulders. I love my arms, my muscles. I love wearing suits. I love being tall. I love having a deeper voice. I love having a strong jawline. I also love having long hair, gentle curves, and painting inch long wings over my eyes. I love being trans 

Via LGBTQ Nation.

[lgbtqiapositivity]

Falling

                                      PLEASE READ/SIGNAL BOOST*   Hey guys,  I am asking for help getting through this month and I despera

[mueritos]

hiya! I figured id make an informational post about the little things ive noticed about being on testosterone that I found weren’t talked about a lot when I was starting my transition and even before when I was doing my research. I think that trans sexual health is an extremely important part of trans peoples lives (and that doesnt necessarily mean sex) seeing as the physical changes that happen during transition are often foreign to us. Sexual health keeps us healthy and comfortable in our bodies, so do your best to stay attentive to your body’s changes! As always, consult your doctor if you feel the need to. These are only tips ive learned from transitioning myself and from my doctor when I asked about certain things.

PATREON

[frompawntoqueen]

Fucking tumblr our here really trying to teach the world things

[maggot-withanf]

Hey this isn’t necessarily something for HRT. But rather for top surgery for those considering it, most every surgeon and endocrinologist I’ve met (save for the ones I’m working with currently) doesn’t mention this and trans dudes who have gone through top surgery sometimes don’t even know about it, but your ti🅱️🅱️ies? They make hormones. Lots of them. When you get top surgery you’re removing a primary maker of hormones from your body and it’ll throw you through a loop, and for anywhere from a few days to a couple months after the surgery your hormones are gonna be WACK. This will usually cause a post-surgery depression that a lot of trans men sometimes confuse with regret for taking this step in their transition and it’ll throw them into an identity crisis, so for those planning on taking that step, just remember that weird ass sadness you’re gonna feel is just your hormones being like “hey wHAT the FUCK” and you made the right decision for you!!

[aevios]

Can confirm that bottom growth is a real and painful thing. If you’re the kind of person who wears skinny jeans regularly (looking at u fashionable goth/punk trans ppl), here’s a tip for your first few months of T: don’t.

Bottom growth will be overly sensitive and stick out of the hood more than usual, and anytime the inside of ur jeans rubs against it it will a) hurt and b) make u horny.

This can be a problem in general, but especially if u have bottom dysphoria and being reminded of ur junk can make u dysphoric, and/or if ur ace like me and being horny can be a very confusing and annoying experience (I know this is not every aces experience but I had never really had a sex drive or arousal before T and it was very distressing at first. Still ace tho)

Also re: top surgery, the first time I saw my chest post-op my brain flipped and I got so dizzy I nearly passed out. This is also relatively normal and okay. I think my brain just kind of freaked out seeing my body so different from what we were used to and also oh yeah with a big scar running across it. Its okay, that doesn’t mean you regret it either. I think sometimes ur brain just needs a minute to catch up and realize ‘oh wait this isn’t a traumatic injury this is what my chest is supposed to look like’. Once I had seen my chest a few times and let my brain get used to it I was absolutely thrilled and loved it (and still do). I also had a panic attack the night before my surgery because I was afraid of the anesthesia. Again, doesnt mean I made the wrong decision.

I think a lot of trans ppl don’t know that surgery can just be an emotionally intense experience, and yeah can also mess with ur hormones a bit (another consequence of both hormonal stuff and the stress of surgery is I got really bad acne for awhile after surgery) and so you might feel all kinds of weird or stressed directly before or after. It’s okay. Make sure u have supportive ppl around u to take care of u, and wait until ur body has had a bit of time to heal and renormalize before u start panicing over if u made the right choice or not. You’ll probably be sleeping for most of the first week anyway. Give ur body and ur nerves a break for a bit.

[roboticwheelchair-deactivated20]

URGENT HELP NEEDED

I am really struggling to buy food and stay afloat this month. We have barely no food in our fridge and we’ve exhausted all the food banks in our area. We are really stuck & even one dollar would help.

Click here to donate to my PayPal. We’d be forever grateful to you all.

[jaxuhmillion]

Important Information For My Guise & NB People Who Bind

[transofi]

Excellent advice! Passing it along~

[frxnk-castle]

In case y'all didn’t know.

[girls-can-get-married]

Ecuador just legalized same-sex marriages 🏳️‍🌈

Ecuador just legalized same-sex marriages

Ecuador joins Argentina, Uruguay, Colombia, and Brazil in legalizing marriage equality in South America...

The case was brought by two gay couples. One of them, Efraín Soria and Javier Benalcázar, has been together for 12 years.

“I want to say hello to Javier, who is in Guayaquil: ‘Honey, I love you,‘” Soria said, in Quito to hear the ruling.

Ecuador 🇪🇨 joins Argentina, Uruguay, Colombia, and Brazil in legalizing marriage equality in South America.

🏳️‍🌈Happy pride and congratulations friends🏳️‍🌈💪🥂👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[tanrak]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[captainlordauditor]

For all your Jewish-Pride needs. Reblog to make a goy angry :)

[witchofeindor]

@theirdarkreturning

[queerenbian-deactivated20190515]

@wetwareproblem @vaspider @mistresskabooms

[ayellowbirds]

Can anyone do one with the Philly version of the rainbow, with the added brown and black?

[captainlordauditor]

Here you go!

[photosynthesisprototype]

Can we get an aroace flag?

[captainlordauditor]

Hey, I’m familiar with the ace and aro flags separately, but not the aroace one! IF you give me a picture I can definitely make one though!

[schwartzbrodt]

HEY :) got the chance to do promo art for the AMAZING @loveshoregame, an LGBT+ Cyberpunk VN that looks absolutely incredible so far! If you care a lot about narratives featuring qpoc done by actual qpoc or hell, just good ol scifi/cyberpunk in gen absolutely do check out the demo and consider supporting the kickstarter!! There’s about 14 days to go and although there’s loads of lovely supporters already, there’s still a bunch of ground to cover and any kind of support would go a long way!  Play the demo here! Kickstarter Twitter

[perfectgarbagestudios]

This is so great!!! Thank you!!

[the-revolution-continues]

The swing voter in November will not be the Republican to Denocrat or Democrat to Republican.

It will be the non-voter to voter.

Young people,

this is your moment.

This is your election.

This is your time to win.

[bluepoliceboxwitch-deactivated2]

Vote! The lower the voter turnout, the more likely republicans are to win. Young people are majority liberal, but are way less likely to vote. Our voices matter. Vote to enact change!

[trans-advice]

Like 80% of Republicans deny our existence & experiences. VOTE FOR OUR LIVES! http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/11/08/transgender-issues-divide-republicans-and-democrats/

[mysteriouslymysterion-deactivat]

If you can’t vote, campaign we have one week!

[invaderxan]

Heard some important information on Twitter today, and thought I’d post it here for anyone who may not have heard it. This is actually a thing, devised by human rights organisation called Karma Nirvana.

Reblog to save a life?

[outlandishandpolished-blog]

I dont agree with the existence of TSA but if this could save a life…..

[ehyeh-joshua]

For once, something useful the TSA can do.

[cincodemayonaisee]

WARNING: ANIMAL CRUELTY

Apparently people have been adopting dogs and either killing them themselves or dropping them to a kill shelter (and one even said they were flying them to poor Asian areas to be eaten) under the Twitter hashtag #pitbulldropoff

This is completely cruel and evil and word needs to get around about these demons so everyone knows what these demons are planning to do to dogs once they get ahold of them.

If you know someone or if you yourself is planning to give away a pitty by craigslist soon, DONT and wait for awhile!!!! They act like they’re going to adopt them and act all nice then they get rid of them, don’t be fooled!!

DM me for uncensored names!!!!!!!!

[cisnowflake]

Someone should tell these people I will fucking end them.

[blightout-deactivated20210117]

What the actual fuck?!? This is outrageous and disgusting!

[blightout-deactivated20210117]

BOOST THIS even if it doesn’t match your blog theme please

[yourlgbtfriends]

This may not be lbgt related but I couldn’t not reblog it to here. This blog is a platform that gives me a voice and I’m using it. Spread this. please.

[tiddlywynks]

The reason these “demons” are killing pitball puppies is because of how many children/babies pitbulls have killed

[blightout-deactivated20210117]

Every single breed of dog has the potential to kill. Every. Single. One. I have encountered far more violent dalmatians, chowchows, chihuahuas, and others compared to pitbulls. You are disgusting if you think the reported pitbull attacks can justify killing off an entire breed you vile excuse for a human being. 

I am a veterinary science major who has studied many breeds and their behaviors and other traits. You don’t think labs have killed kids? That goldens haven’t? Pitbull attacks are the ones that are showed to media the most, while other instances of breeds attacking is kept on the downlow because of the appearances and stigmas around the breed. The main reasons for pitbull attacks? Their owners. Either they were abused or were not kept inside. Many attacks by dogs are also energetic excited pooches wanting to play but not knowing their strength (it’s how my doberman has left me scratched up).

 I have been attacked by chow mixes, labs, collies, etc, but never a pitbull. I have a pit and she has only ever saved my life MULTIPLE times. You can’t justify the murder of an entire breed.

Killing a breed won’t save kids, responsible dog owners will.

[cincodemayonaisee]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏^^^^^^^^

[you-wanna-fight-bro]

@blightout

Say it louder for the assholes in the back

[blightout-deactivated20210117]

KILLING A BREED WON’T SAVE KIDS, RESPONSIBLE DOG OWNERS WILL.