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sweets-selfships

reblog if you wanna get your f/os in your dreams....pleases......one dream....

cuddles4zapp

How it feels to selfship with an obscure character

aru-jeanne

Imperfect selfship affirmations

PS: Everyone is allowed to selfship in whatever way they want!! For selfshippers that feel like many of the posts you see are unrealistic and don’t reflect you and your F/O’s relationship, here are some honest and nuanced messages.

“Your F/O would never get angry with you.” -> When your F/O gets mad, they have a special tone reserved only for you. It holds you gently even when it’s firm, and maintains control without sacrificing honesty. The depth of their affection for you is evident in so many ways, including the way they approach conflict with you. Even when the feelings might be negative, you can always see the love attached to them.

“Your F/O would never think you’re weird.” -> Your F/O LOVES how weird you are!! Your uniqueness is what draws them to you, and sets you apart from the sea of people they could have chosen. Whether or not your quirks get on their nerves sometimes is insignificant; they’re just so happy to have them all memorized.

“Your F/O would never overstep your boundaries!” -> Your F/O watches you and listens to you closely. Even if they’re not perfect, they notice small changes within you and care about you—even if it means adapting to things they’re not used to doing. They intend to keep learning more about you for the rest of their life, and there’s no sign of them ever getting bored. They always repair things with you, and this will never ever change.

“Your F/O would never feel put out by you.” -> You are worth the effort. Every single time. Even when the tasks themselves feel burdensome, you are always worth the effort it takes to help you and take care of you. It is paid back tenfold every time they get to see you joyful and healthy. [Disabled self shippers I am looking at you!]

Happy selfshippjng guys and remember your F/O loves you!

superdupersillygoober

your f/o really likes your name btw

even if you think it's a silly one, or it doesn't fit you, they love it because it's YOUR name!

and if you want them to call you another name, they won't hesitate to do so, because it's what makes YOU COMFORTABLE. they love your new name just as much as the old one, and they would NEVER use your old name if it made you uncomfortable and/or dysphoric.

sometimes they like to just say your name to themself when they're alone, because it just sounds so nice to them!!!

dailysmilingtanaka

nanamisbakery

This user wants their f/o to be happy for once

rainbowpuppyparty

f / o who gently fixes your posture when you are slouching , their cold hands sliding up your back to guide your shoulders back.

but . . . instead of pulling away after correcting you , they just leave their hands there , leaning down to press a soft kiss to the nape of your neck.

nanamisbakery

Shout out to non-sharing self shippers. That fictional character is yours!

parkchanwoohoo

selfshipdreamworld

Shout out to self-shippers who feel like they're a failure.

Even if you see yourself that way, your F/O never would. They see how hard you're trying and they are so proud of you and your efforts, regardless of the outcome.

They don't care about how many awards you win, they don't care how much money you make, and they don't care if you struggle to do what is "simple" or "easy" for others.

They love you unconditionally, wholly, and indefinitely. You are their second half, and they are so, so proud of you for continuing to get up every morning and face the world, even if it's cruel and unfair in its expectations of you.

You matter. 🤍