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[aceoppression]

It's fitting how most of the inclusionists who insult gay bars are like 14 and have never even been to a gay bar IRL

[aceoppression]

The dumb argument that trans men don't expierenced misogyny because they can "separate it from themselves" and remeber their a boy is bullshit. I couldn't do that when I was a child and expierencing misogyny and even now I don't pass you can't "separate" yourself from it it still hurts like fuck and reminds you you'll never pass lmao

[aceoppression]

Lawful good: gay men

Lawful good: lesbians

Lawful good: trans women

Chaotic evil: that dick who made the original chart

[aceoppression]

Gay ppl: let's use this to represent us Tumblr hell demons: ACTUALLY SAPPHO WEOTE PORNS FOR MEN SO SHES BI SORRY STOP ERASIBG US YOUR PRIVLEDGED GREDDY CUCKS

[aceoppression]

Real talk? Being gay defines your identity so much more than being Demi-get-platonic-aesthetic-aro-semi-whatever

[aceoppression]

I have a genuine question. Trans boys can't reclaim the T slur even if they're called that, because it's misdirected transmisogny. But trans women can reclaim the f slur even though that's misdirected homophobia? I'm just a little confused by that

[hxmoerotic]

I stg you people really do not want gay people to be happy. Like you see a gay person who’s in love with their partner and wants to marry them and instead of being happy for them you’ll write up essays about how they’re “homoassimilationist.” Y'all need to drag your heads out of your asses and ask yourselves why gay people being happy is so repulsive to you.

[aceoppression]

I'm legit serious how does the LGBT community help intersex people. Ive been going to my LGBT center every month for 2 years and not once have I seen a flyer, resource or group for intersex people. Like I've never seen any information pertaining to intersex people at any LGBT event I've been to aside from little I's tacked on in flyers describing what LGBT means. Like I just want to know how we're helping the intersex community at all cause I really have never seen intersex resources at LGBT canters and with no resources what are we offering to intersex people?

[halemmerichdiscourse]

people with depression and anxiety are also ? not a minority or rare case when it comes to mental health, y’all whine about how nobody’ll understand your problems when you all have, the same rooted issues most of the time,

it bugs me because suddenly y’all think you can speak on all mental health issues, you can speak for all people, and you think you can say you’re “demonized” you’re really noooot

[sapphic-cake-baker]

1. Depression and anxiety are umbrella terms. I assume you aren’t referring to things like bipolar disorder or OCD. 2. Having any mental illness at all and getting treatment for it is still looked down upon by society and people can lose their jobs for going to therapy. Are people with depression and anxiety always demonized in the way that DID or BPD are? No. But they’re still not… good things to have in society’s point of view.

[aceoppression]

Deppression and anxiety aren't umbrella terms. Deppression = Clinical Deppression aka. major depressive disorder Anxiety = generalized anxiety disorder and/or panic disorder

Anxiety disorders are a class of disorders, but neither of those terms are umbrella terms. Society pities people with deppression and anxiety. Pity & demonization are very different

[brimming-deactivated20200502]

- you’re undermining the ‘aces can have sex’ and ‘aces can want sex’ definition of asexual - totes sprung

[goobra]

i am BEGGING the ace community to actually speak to another human person before pretending they know how people talk

[yourpostisnotgood]

“I desire to have sex with that person” sounds like something a dusty old barn owl would say

[pearlsasinger-deactivated202602]

@inclusionbean I’ve read this like 5 times & I have no idea what you’re trying to say

[inclusionbean]

im tryig to say that people might have a reason for needing gay pda specifically

[deadshoppingmalls]

Just say your homophobic and move on

[inclusionbean]

except im literally not. i was in an abusive, misgendering relationship and am greatly upset when i see happy mlm couples because my boyfriend would reblog stuff like that while simultaneously ignoring my gender and gaslighting the fuck outta me

[deadshoppingmalls]

“Am greatly upset when I see happy mlm couples”. Ah so you like us miserable jfkdkdjd

[inclusionbean]

is that the only part that u read?????

i dont want anyone miserable id just. yknow. rather not see shit that reminds me of my abusive ex

[discourseful]

i’m sorry but lmao being upset by happy gay people is fucking homophobic

if you are triggered by an oppressed group of people EXISTING in the same space as you, you are contributing to their oppression and you can just look the other fucking way instead of making it sound excusable

[halemmerichdiscourse]

@inclusionbean the thing is yes you were in a bad relationship and that’s horrible but you also need to be critical of how you feel about oppressed groups ? it’s the same for people who claim to be triggered by certain races because they were abused, you have to be critical of your feelings because you don’t live in a fucking vacuum

[aceoppression]

Having a trigger is not an excuse and it's not something that should be accepted at point blank just because it's a trigger. You have to work to overcome that. You can't just say I don't like seeing gay men kiss and I never will don't kiss in front of me. Cause that's homophobic and controlling. You have to work to overcome that trigger.

[aceoppression]

Please don't say homogay unless your gay like legit idc if ur bi or pan or whatever don't say it if you're not gay

[aceoppression]

I cannot tolerate truscum / terfs who are in med school or nursing school / majoring in osychology. I hate them so much. They remind me so much of the doctors in the hospital. They were so demeaning. I went to the ER for an allergic reaction once and they were so rude about my gender I tore off the wristband informer of them I was so mad I was there cause I was having an allergic reaction and all they cared about was what was in my pants. I hope you get fired for being transphobic all you terrible ass people

[the-ace-community]

What's wrong with Blair White? ( genuine question don't actually know )

hope that answers that question. 

[chaosconnected-deactivated20190]

I still don’t see anything wrong with her. She is very intelligent and has well thoughout arguments for almost everything she says.

[aceoppression]

Well first off her transgender children video was 100% wrong and so are all her videos but if you agree with Blair white then I'll just start with the trans children video. It was factually wrong she has no clue how a childhood / teenage transition works it's much different from an adult transition.

[foulserpent]

honestly it takes a special kind of evil (or being overprivileged, ignorant and coddled at Best) to insist on calling victims of homophobic hate crimes “queer” and then piss yourself and holler about “queerphobia” (?) when other lgbt people say “hey please dont use a homophobic slur on victims of a homophobic hate crime without their consent”.

[foulserpent]

also when its violence Specifically against gay men, or Specifically against lesbian women, Specifically against trans women, etc etc etc….. and you feel the need to call it “violence against queers uwu”… like why are you all so desperate to make your activism as un-nuanced and useless as possible?

[biro-ace27-blog]

OK seriously

I can understand homophobia - sure, you’re a shitty person, but I can understand your angle on it. You’re scared that someone is gonna force themselves on you and be uncomfortable. Which is, albeit how shitty, understandable. (Note I am the first to say how shitty this is and I am not attempting to normalise homo hate or whatever)

What I don’t understand is aphobia. I mean, what are we gonna do, not screw you? Uh… breathe too loudly? Steal your dragon and ride it into the sunset? Have happy and healthy relationships?

[treetreetreechunky]

This is disgusting

[aceoppression]

"I understand why people kill gay people cause they're fucking rapists!!!! But I'm an UwU soft ace friend"

[lesbiancousin]

i really just saw this in syena’s school just now with my own two eyes kill me now just make a sign that says “Fuck you gay people”

[wlwellbutrin]

so uh…. is queer a useful all-encompassing umbrella term or does it mean “not gay” because u can’t have it both ways uglies…

[closet-keys]

wow.. at first I didn’t read the smaller text and thought they were calling gay people “queer” instead of gay (which was bad enough) and then I read the bottom text and realized they straight up didn’t want gay people there at all.

[infinityand-bi-ond-deactivated2]

lol okay this is highly entertaining to watch, how monosexual people are so easily offended with a non-monosexual meeting meant for kids who face a very specific problem of identity and mental health (bisexual/queer people are the most stigamatised group within the lgbt community and are more likely to commit suicide, get addicted to drugs and have problems coming out) but won’t bat an eyelid when its called gay rights, gay marriage, gay community gay representation (as an all encompassing term which is harmful). 

[colderboness]

Lol trans people have the highest suicide / addiction rate try again transphobe