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@activatebekket-blog
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Hey y’all! I’ve had a lot of fun here but it’s kind of gotten to the point where being here is a lot more stress than it is fun. I appreciate all the lovely RP I’ve had since I’ve been here but I’m gonna go, I think. Thanks, bye bye!
BEKKET 💬 BEN
Ben: Bananas are shit. I will talk shit about shitty things.
Bekket: Fuck you????? Bananas are amazing. They're so good and they come with built-in packaging????
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: Agreed
Del: I never said that Bek! I'm just saying that having them as an influence helped me look at things in a different way. That's all. Agreed on the speed though. It's bananas.
Del: lol I know you remember?
Del: Never honestly. No one gets to name call the twin brother. golden rules. lol
Del: She is. You can't send me a dot dot dot and not tell me more. What's the deal with Charlie?
Bekket: I want a banana now.
Bekket: :( This sucks. You can call my brothers names if you want!!!! I want a twin.
Bekket: lmao nothing actually. She did try to murder me at her birthday party. Ryan also tried to murder me at his baby shower. I TOLD you I have a bounty on my head!!!
Bekket: I am mostly being... dramatic.
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: Got it from my dad ;)
Del: Who doesn't? UNF (but not really)
Del: Doesn't mean it ain't true, friend.
Del: I think it's more like I've seen two happily married people in action all my life. It was a good influence to have.
Del: Then deal with it. Talk. And be nice! i'll poke you if you aren't.
Del: Hey! only I can call him dumb. I think so too. Charlie is more than wonderful. She is the loveliest person I think I've met. No offence. You know it's true. Probably. She'd make a great assassin too. My brother and sister-in-law assassin inc.
Bekket: Okay but he IS unf. Like god what a dilf.
Bekket: My parents were happily married all my life! Doesn't mean I want to be assigned a life partner. I mean, don't get me wrong. I got really lucky with Seb and I like to think that if we weren't matched I would still be into dating him and having a relationship with him, but... Still. Plus the breakneck speed we're forced to apply to our relationship makes everything. Really. Weird.
Bekket: I willlllllllll. And I'm super nice all the time I dunno what you're talking about.
Bekket: I've known him twelve years!!! :( When do I get to start calling him dumb, too? This is so unfair.
Bekket: Charlie is really fucking wonderful. I like to think I'm more entertaining than "lovely." And Ben has never tried to assassinate me! Recently. Charlie on the other hand...
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: Communication is key.
Del: I got you.
Del: Sometimes people say things to appease their partners. It's not healthy but they do it because the alternative is sometimes worse. Maybe he's afraid to disappoint you. Look, I don't know Seb like I know you but I think it's worth looking into and speaking to him about. Maybe a different approach. Not when you're right about to have sex but in a different scenario where there's no pressure. He can just be literally confused like when I thought Neil Patrick Harris was a dream but I wasn't sexually attracted to him like I was to Willow from Buffy. Honestly, what a wake up call. I was 17. It took me a while but I got it. We all have different timelines. I'm just saying, talk to him in a different scenario. He might not realize how he feels about sex.
Del: you need to take some deep breaths. I know this law isn't your favorite thing in the world and I get that. you also know that I don't necessarily mind the law and we've managed to get each other when it comes to that major difference. This guy is your spouse. you do like him. You do think he's kind. What the government asks of you is something you can work out when you have those basic elements. Being difficult about it or not talking about it will only end up in worse drama and I know it's your middle name but you high key do not want that shit. I'm just saying that Seb is good to you and that's something to really truly consider in this entire thing. Comprehension and compassion is important in a marriage.
Del: And unfortunately these's no clause that says we get what we want out of this which honestly only means we should be happy if we get something worth working out. That's the shit i've been telling Ben and I think is getting through his thick skull. I'm not saying not to be unhappy about the things that make you unhappy. feelings are important. Negative, positive, whatever the deal but hashing through them is even more important.
Del: Talk about it. REALLY talk about it before it makes your resentful which it kinda sounds like you are and that's just ugly for you two. Ok?
Bekket: You're too smart, it's not fair.
Bekket: I love Neil Patrick Harris.
Bekket: You GAVE me the middle name, remember?
Bekket: Tsk, easy for you to say you don't mind it. You're not married.
Bekket: But yeah you're 1000% right and I love you, by the way. Seb is really good to me. I like him a lot. I'm just really sick of dealing with this thing in particular. It's exhausting. I'll work it out. Thanks.
Bekket: Ben is dumb, but I think he's gonna make it. Charlie is wonderful. Even though she's also in on the Bekket Assassination Conspiracy.
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: Then you have bigger problems than the sex, my friend. Sort that shit before your year is up. I'm serious.
Del: I'm glad for you. Masturbation is healthy.
Del: Or maybe he doesn't find sex appealing. Game changer there. you don't measure attraction just with sex ya know? It just seems like there's more there. Besides, in the real world, without the government over our heads, some people take months before they dive into sex. Some take days. Some take minutes. We're all different. Doesn't mean he doesn't think you're attractive, Bek. Maybe it's more about him and less about you? Have you thought about talking to him about it?
Bekket: :( I know.
Bekket: Thanks babe
Bekket: We have talked about and the last time he talked he was literally like "yes I wanna have sex with you" to my face but every time we get anywhere close to anything he cuts me off and finds an excuse for us to stop or go do something else or is just straight up like "no I don't wanna." Which is like. Fine. I respect that. If this is gonna be a sexless marriage then I'll deal with it, Seb doesn't have to do anything. But those are two very different messages!!
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: I know this. Does Seb know this? Have you seriously talked about it? You two have been married for months now. The time is now to have these talks, my dude.
Del: Dude I get it. Trust me when I say it. Dry patches are the worst but we've got hands and an awesome imagination. Goes a long way.
Del: No. You just told me you were happy as fuck. He wouldn't be trying to make you happy if he wasn't feeling you.
Bekket: YES SEB KNOWS THIS. I have made it CLEAR AS DAY.
Bekket: If you think I don't use my hand AND my imagination to my FULLEST then you don't know me.
Bekket: Just cuz he wants to make our marriage happy, that doesn't mean he doesn't find me 1000000% unattractive and unfuckable.
keelyharper:
Hearing the their phone was dead took her by surprise but she gained her composure and shook her head, trying to figure out and understand the person in front of her. “Uh yeah. Well I mean the employees are still here but the store is closed so I can’t go back in for help. I suppose I could use the company so I can walk you back if you want? Its always better to travel in pairs right?” She didn’t know the guy but she highly doubted if he was one of the creepy ones.
He paused for a second, looking a bit surprised. “... Oh. Uhm. Yeah, sure.” He agreed, shrugging a bit. “Might as well. I’ve gotta warn you I don’t know where I’m going, though.” He told her, raising a brow. “But it is kind of late, I think, if the grocery store is closed, so it’d probably be smart for neither of us to be wandering around on our own...”
mlawleviprice:
Tell me about it! I don’t know but that’s why I’ll be a lot more selective about going out to eat from now on. At least I know I clean my kitchen and take care of the food I prep and cook for my family.
Exactly! My kitchen is safe. I know his history. That is, unless my husband is doing sinful things in there that I don’t know about... But I’m pretty sure I can trust him. And I don’t think my puppy can get up on the counters... or cook.
BEKKET 💬 ALEX
Alex: Most of the time they just want what's best for their kid. Even if they're misguided or they just don't' understand. I've always found that the majority of angry parents just either want to be heard and so listening and letting them talk helps a lot, even if you don't agree with them.
Bekket: Yeah, I mean. Usually, even the angriest parent I deal with still wants what they think is "best" for their kid, they're just super backward in their thinking... I would just so much rather work with the kid. Even though that's a really big part of what I do because I just hateee dealing with parents. I find it so exhausting. Sometimes it's actually really nice and the parents want to learn and are super cool about everything but a lot of the time they... aren't.
Bekket: And honestly even the really nice and helpful ones can be a little much sometimes, you know?
mlawleviprice:
Well one of the restaurants had about an inch of black grease caked over their stove. Chef Ramsey showed how filthy it was by swiping a finger through it and showing the owner and the head chef. And like every episode, the owner insisted they had an amazing menu but not one of the dishes looked good and most of the food on the plates had been pre-cooked, frozen, and then re-heated in a microwave before being sent out to customers.
Ughhh! God, that’s so disgusting! See, this is one of the moments where I say, “see, it’s GOOD I never get to eat out!” Jesus, how can people be so disgusting and then think it’s okay, or even find a way for it to be a point of pride? Are they really that clueless? How can you not know that that’s not okay?!
BEKKET 💬 ALEX
Bekket: Doing stuff like that seems like too much pressure for me. I'd totally crack.
Alex: I only do it once a year so that really helps a lot.
Bekket: That does seem like it would make it easier... I hate dealing with parents, to be totally honest.
BEKKET 💬 ALEX
Alex: Sometimes. Sometimes they just legit are confused why I chose a freshman over a senior.
Bekket: Doing stuff like that seems like too much pressure for me. I'd totally crack.
BEKKET 💬 ALEX
Alex: Yeah, I have a twice a week pre-professional class that I only have twenty spots for. And so it's pretty selective, just because of the level it's in.
Bekket: Ooohh. And then moms are like "how dare you not select Mackayla shes a prodigy?"
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: Dude.
Del: he comes from a big family right? He probably wants the same. You two need to talk that shit out.
Del: but also, enjoy the good stuff. Sex isn't everything. Maybe he just doesn't want to right now? You guys should probably talk that stuff out. Everything else is so good, don't let this stuff get in the way.
Del: also remember you two were forced into a situation with these letters. Maybe he isn't feeling it. Not you. Just "it". Talk, give it time, and embrace the good shit.
Bekket: :( Yeah but I don't WANT a baby.
Bekket: I know you're right but oh my god Delilah I haven't gotten laid in over FOUR MONTHS and I think I'm gonna die.
Bekket: Okay but maybe he actually is just not feeling me????????????????? Ever think of that??????
Bekket: Checkmate atheists.
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: Excellent.
Del: That was the worst. Never again!
Del: (we don't talk about these moments unless prompted)
Del: healthy he says.
Del: Ohhhh okay. Now you're talking. How's Seb?
Bekket: Never again. Never again...
Bekket: Sebastian is good. I mean. Everything is kind of the same as always?... He's really sweet, and I like spending time with him, and living with him is good. I still love our dog. He's brought up wanting babies, like, three different times, but still won't fuck me.
Bekket 💬 Deliliah
Del: It's 'Dramatic'.I wrote it on your birth certificate. Can't turn back now.
Del: I try. Remember when I went vegan that one time?
Del: You're right though. Ben would be awesome at all the things.
Del: how the hell are we friends?
Bekket: Damn. Nice. Okay. I can accept that.
Bekket: God, that was horrible. Remember when I was vegetarian that one time, but only for, like, three days, and then I passed out from malnutrition so I stopped?
Bekket: (still not as bad as you being vegan though)
Bekket: Exactly!!!! That's why a healthy amount of fear is appropriate. Imagine if he used his powers for evil instead of good???
Bekket: Because I'm wonderful and you're wonderful and we go good together...? :) :) :)