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[adorablerd]

I’ve not ever before thought so deeply about having children as I currently am today. It’s bringing up a lot.

More reasons to not have them (and possibly end my LTR) than reasons to have them. Nothing found across the Internet helps me change my mind. All the reasons are not fully sensible to me. Children don’t exist for our amusement, to be a ventilation source of our expectations around love, to immortalize us, to ANYTHING! Their existence is not the basis of an exchange because that would require their consent. And you can’t get permission from a non-existent person without first making them exist! So the idea of child-reading, to me, boils down to wanting to gift the world a proximal version of myself and their other parent (hopefully); as well as wanting that individual to know the experiences of this world.

However, this world isn’t exactly one I want to know or exist in myself. Sure, the world needs more folks like me and my partner; and yet it doesn’t deserve us let alone a proximal version. My offspring definitely deserve a better world than this one.

So...that’s that. I guess. We’ll see where this ends up

[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

I mad agree with this.

[madameblack]

This reminds me, if y'all haven’t heard of therapyforblackgirls.com please visit if you need a therapist. You can search by mental health need, location/distance, insurance, etc. I believe there are some that provide a sliding scale payment method for those without insurance.

If you’re not quite ready to make the jump, there is a podcast you can listen to as well as articles and links to help answer some of your questions about mental health and/or therapy.

The purpose, as I understand it, is to provide a place where black women can go to find culturally sensitive therapy. Some specialize in family/couples as well.

Take a look.

[imfemalewarrior]

For any black Women following me! 

Taking care of your mental health is another important factor in your overall health. Fighting for good mental health is a fight worth doing, and is just as difficult, if not moreso, than physical fighting. 

-FemaleWarrior, She/They 

[n0kiv]

Especially with everything going on right now. We constantly hear how strong we are and it’s like no we can be tired, emotional, stressed too and we need to take care of our mental health. Here are some free therapy sessions that I’ve seen going around. Please share

[guavajelly]

Also Black minds matter UK!

https://www.blackmindsmatteruk.com/

[loveablewomb1927]

I love this

[foxnphoenix-deactivated20210721]

As a human being who loves my human family very much and is sick of seeing so many wonderful people neglected I ALWAYS REBLOG THIS

[adorablerd]

What’s tumblr like these days. How can an old dud like myself liven up my dash again and make use of this space?

Well actually one way is to come here and gripe about how I am getting clear microaggressions from my job and it’s only been 3 months. I’m ambivalent about that. I mean, obviously I don’t like being mistreated and marginalized. And yet I do appreciate knowing y’all are true covert racists because I can act accordingly

[everydaylouie]

happy halloween! here is a ghost duet

[trappedblackrose-deactivated201]

I love this so much. I always play it when it comes on

[c0litasxo]

how cute

[sandersstudies]

You can literally make anything and anyone problematic if you try hard enough seriously give me people and things and I’ll make them all “problematic” right now.

[i-will-physically-fight-you]

Dogs.

[sandersstudies]

I don’t even have to do this one because PETA did it first by insinuating domestication is inherently abusive.

[rinofwater]

The sky

[sandersstudies]

Used to trick and mock anyone who asks “what’s up?” A bullying tactic.

[roman-flair-deactivated20190203]

Super Mario Bros.

[sandersstudies]

Stereotypes Italians, enforces the narrative of women who need men to rescue them, and encourages violence against turtles.

[shuouichi]

John Mulaney

[sandersstudies]

He was over on the bench and he SAW what they did to Tyler and he did NOTHING.

[starryvioletnight]

Omfg

[fainsworld]

Pokemon

[sandersstudies]

Making your pets fight repeatedly is animal abuse.

[everwizard]

OP

[sandersstudies]

OP literally argued that dogs were problematic but go off I guess

[dukeofbookingham-deactivated202]

This is a work of art and should be sent to everyone as soon as they sign up for Tumblr so they know what they’re walking into

[spider-hands-mannos-deactivated]

Heres the thing you gotta understand about statistics. 

“Increases your chances by 80%” does not mean “there is now an 80% chance”. 

If your chances were previously 10%, your chances are now 18%, not 90%. 

if your chances were roughly 1%, they’re now just slightly less than 2%. 

thats how that works. 

[hopeful-weirdo]

Wow I don’t understand math at all

[freinhardt56]

‘if you have a baby after 35, the chance of deformities goes up by 100%’ is a line I hear alot.

It goes up from .5% to 1%

[fandomlockedfan]

I think my brain just stopped working

[authorgirl1111]

100% is just another way of saying twice more likely. So 100% more basically means multiply the number you do have by 2.

[that-catholic-shinobi]

Imagine how many woman are scared to have kids because of that statistic

[what-even-is-thiss]

This is why I took stats instead of calc. Because I don’t build engineer bridges in my everyday life but I sure do read studies that affect how I might live my life if I misinterpret them.

[bogleech]

I’m terrible at numbers and math but I knew this and I really take it for granted. The average person definitely assumes, quite understandably, that “600% INCREASE!!!” must always mean a whole lot even if it literally only means that one of something is now six of something. Politicians probably take a shitload of advantage of this confusion.

[hexmaniacmareen]

just remember that increased BY and increased TO are very different things.

[bogleech]

Oh god I didn’t even think about that whole other layer of confusion. Yeah if you’ve got 100 people and one of them is sick, that’s 1% of them who are sick, so if it “increased BY 100%” then that means now two people are sick. If it’s “increased TO 100%” then all 100 people are sick.

[veryfunnymemes]

[southernsideofpride]

When Safety Is Optional

[nyanbinyuri]

[modelo-citizen]

examples of why men die before women 

[bisexualgambit]

You know….. sometimes mom humor? It slaps hdjdbxkhfkfjfodjkx

[catchymemes]

[excellentbitch]

isn’t that the neck tattoo guy

[excellentbitch]

[caribetidalwave-deactivated2019]

This guy needs to slow down 😂😂😂

[tybalt-you-saucy-boi]

THAT’S WHERE I RECOGNIZED HIM FROM

[silverstrike]

But how could you leave out this masterpiece???

[cryol]

I love him

[mj-theskywitch]

yall r missing the BEST one

[your-villainous-neighbour]

I might have just found myself a new idol

[wankchan]

[skeleton-main]

oh my god what a legend

[hypeaholic]

I found my new personal hero

[niggazinmoscow]

I’m printing this tweet and putting it on my desk

[quiteliterallyhotsauce]

FACTS

[chavdog]

hate when you see women getting excited and passionate about something and watching their men completely blank them and look through them with total disinterest. meanwhile if women stop nurturing and celebrating everything men do for five mins then their men go off and fuck a 22 yr old bc they feelin lonely:((((. wasters.

[diagnalley]

The comments under this tweet are 99% men saying “well its her fault she got pregnant :) teenagers should abstain from sex” without taking into account the fact that a man was definitely involved in the process but apparently men are allowed to be exempted from the responsibility of preventing pregnancy

[blogism]

[seymour-butz-stuff]

Technically supporting accidental parenthood would mean supporting the woman and her baby after birth, which they steadfastly refuse to do.

[afronerdism]

I hate man caves. I absolutely hate them.

[afronerdism]

It’s just the sentiment behind them that I find so reprehensible. It’s this idea that men need a retreat away from the responsibilities of family life whereas women do not. I very seldom see people who have man caves also have a space for the woman and if they do it’s always significantly smaller, less equipped, and seldom used.

[afronerdism]

And the thing is men will often argue this point by saying “well she has the rest of the house” because they think that forcing their wives/girlfriends to do all of the administrative work around the house constitutes personal space. So they force their partners to become household managers wherein a daily flow is created that they are not involved enough to feel a part of, this creates a sense of disconnect from family life, and makes men feel as if they’re being bossed around in their wife’s home , which creates a need to “get away.” Which basically results in him hiding while his wife runs the household. Men think this is fair because they think that it’s natural for women to be household managers rather than realize she’s just picking up his slack.

[rosiebeen]

Ctfu it’s not that deep!

[afronerdism]

It really isn’t that deep, it’s just some social commentary I made on the fly on tumblr while watching tv. It’s 100% true, but it really wasn’t all that serious to warrant this kind of response. Do you feel like you’ve added something of value here? Do you feel better having been needlessly rude to someone you don’t even know about something that isn’t even all that serious? I really feel like some of you guys just come out to show people how ugly your personalities are. Moving forward any commentary made by you on this will just be deleted because I try my best to moderate my posts so that there isn’t a bunch of unnecessary negativity. Blessings ✌🏽

[rosiebeen]

Honestly sis…I didn’t read any of that. 🤷🏾‍♀️ get out your feels. It’s never that deep. Hope u have a bless day 😊

[bcpk-deactivated20210131]

So “She Dens” don’t exist?

[hotbitchesanddragons-deactivate]

She dens don’t exist nearly as much as man caves. Watch HGTV for a few hours and see how often men (and children) get specialized space within their homes while the women don’t. Op is totally right

[veryfunnymemes]

[erogape-deactivated20250604]

What therapy is really like

Me: i wanna get hit by a car Her: what kind of car?