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I am going to delete tumbelr off my phone I've already deleted all my other social media but I'll probably come back soon
I think maybe I'll feel better if I just stop interacting with the world (using my phone, going outside)
Up early... heart achin
i love the smiths
me singing each one in my head
when women claim men don't have the same emotional capacity as us, i think it's untrue and more importantly letting them off easy. throughout history men have written insightful poems and novels on the human experience or on how "love conquers all", but digging deeper reveals they were still sexist assholes--men definitely have the same emotional intelligence as women (we're in the same species so obviously) but they simply teach themselves that women are the ones who aren't deserving of their empathy. this is why "nice guys" and the men you know are still as dangerous as the strangers you don't know; it has nothing to do with their moral compasses. it's just that no matter how virtuous they are, that virtue is more often than not entirely closed off to women.
I'd been drowned in sorrow for days but no longer #drinking
not to sound like a sob, but the invention of kites is so endearing to me
I hate you pornography I hate you surrogacy I hate you prostitution I hate you cosmetic surgery I hate you beauty industry I hate you heterosexuality I hate you nuclear family model I hate you gender identity I hate you medical transition
one of the myriad things that I vehemently want the 5th wave of feminism to achieve is getting pornography and prostitution/sex work banned from the face of this planet. like get every porn site wiped off from the internet. and yes that includes getting rid of the OF too. we've seen enough of the capitalisation of sex or precisely of women & young girls. I mean after a noticeably exponential increase in the cases of sex/child trafficking from the past many years, it leaves us no choice but to eradicate it once and for all.
TW: Birth Trauma
It isn’t Birth Trauma Awareness week yet. That falls in July.
Yet I need to post about it, today, as it’s a fundamental feminist issue I am only just discovering.
And wow, talk about ‘tip of the iceberg’. Once starting down this rabbit hole, you can’t NOT see the way that society serves up neglect and discrimination against women at their time of greatest need and highest vulnerability.
Being an older woman and a mother of two in the blogosphere, I get frustrated with the lack of discourse about how pregnancy, birth and post partum life can be a bloody awful experience for a significant proportion of women.
And it feels there’s a social silence, a stigma, surrounding it that means it’s rarely heard about.
But listen to us women talk when we’re in small numbers and our inhibitions are lessened by a wine or two and you will hear the stories.
The profound failure of our healthcare systems to meet the needs of the expectant and birthing mother, is a travesty.
When 1 in 3 mothers experience trauma around the birth of their children, why are support networks so poor as to miss so many of us, leaving us with unresolved trauma and the flow on effects for ourselves and our families, for years to come?
I need young women to know that they stand a 1 in 3 chance of experiencing this trauma. And to be bloody certain, that they do NOT create babies with garbage men of which there are so many these days.
The incel forums that drool over the prospect of partnering with a ‘breeding oriented female’ sicken me to the core.
And men who get off ‘impregnating kink’? You KNOW that part of your brain gets off on the fact that you don’t have to carry and birth these babies. You surely KNOW you have been given supreme privilege to fantasise about making babies from the safety of your biology alone.
These men will not be traumatised by carrying and birthing these babies. They will have no comprehension of how to support the partner in ways that help with processing this trauma. Simply none.
I want to slice open the perineums of incel men who gripe about having to forgo sex for a few weeks after birth so their partners have the best chance to heal.
Or help out with domestic labour following a C-section. God forbid the woman needs has a longer than usual recovery period. These man-children will traumatise their partners further by cheating or developing a porn addiction (both applied in my ex-husband’s case).
I want sores to fester on the nipples and peens of men who whine about mastitis, stretch marks, ‘droopy’ breats and post-natal pooch bellies.
Fatherhood is an ENORMOUS privilege and men should be socialised to serve the mother in the crucial weeks following birth. It should be normal for men to treat the mothers of their children with the pinnacle of respect and compassion and love, that should be every mother’s due.
1 in 3 women. Let that sink in.
Birth trauma is a feminist issue.
Silence, shame and stigma, no more.
It is going to take us decades to comprehend the damage pornography has done to our mental development and societal views surrounding women and sex.
Radfem music recs please...?
I'm hysterical I feel terrible #the rhyming truth
I know people are meant to wear sunscreen but I never do... just can't be bothered... sorry
I have been a hag since I was five years old.