I just watched a video about how our culture is turning relationships into a more transaction oriented connection. Now let’s separate sex workers, spoiled girlfriends, and high value women.
Disclaimer: I have nothing against sex workers or spoiled girlfriends. Get the bag sis👏🏽👏🏽 also cleanse your energy darling after and before. Don’t do anything when you’re menustrating because that can make the connection even more binding. But by all means do you babes🥂 power to you🥂🥂
Sex workers💋: when you choose to be an escort or sugar baby. (There are other sex worker jobs but these are the ones I am focusing on today) You are getting paid by the amounts of times y’all have sex. It maybe more complicated than that but this isn’t something I’ve looked up before. But anyways next
Spoiled Girlfriends💵💅🏽: this is a branch off of the sex work and sugar baby community. This typically is the next step after you have a real connection with one of your sugar daddies. You choose to stay with this one and he’s giving you an allowance, paying your bills, paying your tuition, taking you on trips, lots of social events (for me this is the classy heaux), paying for your maintenance, giving you gifts, having nice dinner dates, maybe living together etc. You all get the gist. And this is all in exchange for your presence, company, and sex.
Okay pause being a spoiled girlfriend seems like the dream but we want it all ladies🥂 we are queens!! So let’s build the High Quality Woman and High Quality Man relationship
High Quality Woman and High Quality Man relationship/Queen and King/Emperor and Empress💎🥂: this is not a relationship when you are nearly dependent on the man (I’m not saying sex workers or spoiled girlfriends are because most of them are very smart and have real estate and stocks etc.) This is a relationship when it’s actually a relationship. You have feelings for the person. They love you. (I think a man should always love the woman more than the woman loves him because a woman’s love exceeds the levels a man is typically able to reach) The man is a provider, protector, and emotionally mature and financially secure. The woman is a boss lady, her mere existence can shift a man’s mindset to want to be more ambitious and exceed his own expectations for himself. The woman is a visionary, nurturer, and compassionate. She encourages the man, she helps him see the things he can’t, she doesn’t mother him. She is kind but she still makes the man know he has to be a boss too. They are equal but in different capacities. The woman and man have their own duties and they conquer the world together.
This is a relationship that is a marriage. I would not suggest this as something you start doing with people you are just dating. Stop being a wife to people who have not paid the price. The price💵: whatever you want it to be. For me it would be: genuine love, intellectual stimulation, generosity, and let’s me do whatever I want. Necessarily I don’t want to be a leech but if I don’t have to spend my own money, why would I? Especially if my man is a generous man and wants to invest in me, my intelligence, my businesses, my assets, my beauty, and my lifestyle. I want my future husband to say “this her world, I’m just paying for it” I’m not kidding. I’m so serious and there is nothing wrong with that!! Stop shaming women for wanting more out of their relationships. Some women are healers. Our voices alone bring vibrations that heal. Sex with high quality women is spiritually elevating. Women like me are an asset. There is a reason why in Think and Grow Rich Napoleon Hill said it was important to have a wife. The High Quality Woman is who I am and who we should all aspire to be. You don’t have to be a billionaires wife to be a high quality woman. You can be a preachers wife or a doctors wife or teachers wife. But who you’re dating is an alpha man. If he’s a teachers, he’s probably the teacher that’s super hands on, impacting his students lives etc. These are provider men. Men who will send you a PayPal of bare minimum $100 just because. You set the standards for yourself ladies. Don’t let society or people like me who want the most expensive expensive things, discourage you or make you feel as if you are not of high quality because you don’t share the same desires. But hunny if you do, never settle!! Become a High Quality Woman for yourself and your High Quality Man or Men will be attracted to you. Don’t think dusty men won’t still approach you. Just like I said, never settle.
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