Agofsorrows

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[agofsorrows]

TW: This blog is the only info you will have about me when I get famous and I will deny it's mine everytime, so enjoy while you can ;)

AG — she/her — 17 — infp — daydreamer

I yap about everything here, it makes no sense. Just the diary of a teenage girl with her messy thoughts, rage and nerdy stuff.

❦: Damon Albarn, PJ Harvey, Fiona Apple, Justine Frischman, Massive Attack, Gustavo Cerati, 90s britpop and music, Cillian Murphy, spirituality, falling for every leftist propaganda, feminism, Fleabag, ER, Skins, Peaky Blinders, The Secret History, existencialism, playing music, making music, listening to any music, female rage movies, collecting info about anything, fanfics, writing 24/7, caffeine, weed, yoga, criying, deers, dogs, hating 90% of USA and Damon Albarn again cos I never got over that obsesion.

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[agofsorrows]

SHE'S EVERYWHERE

[therollingpeople1997]

Being a fan of a male artist is a deeply disappointing experience. No matter how much their work resonates with us, inspires us, and uplifts us, at the end of the day they don’t see us as equal to them. It’s hard to accept that they don’t relate to us the same way we relate to them. When I listen to my favorite songs by these artists, I’m reminded that they are thinking, feeling people just like me. It’s sad that they reserve their sense of humanity only for other men.

[agofsorrows]

My takes on the Graham's allegations:

"They were debunked": By who exactly? Did the police do an investigation? Or did you bullied and put social pressure in the victims until they did?

"If they were real they would have gone to the police": Between 85% and 95% women that suffer from rape or sexual abuse don't report to the police because of two main reasons: 1. The fear of not being believed, of being questioned, or of facing long and revictimizing legal processes. 2. Fear of retaliation from the aggressor or social stigmatization. That's exactly what you did: it was difficult for them to speak up and yet you accused them of liying without a second thought.

"They just wanna ruin his career": Just like Chris Brown or Cristiano Ronaldo carreer's were ruined? People defend abusers by saying this, but I don't know any case where a carreer was ruined by an assault acussation, yet I know cases where men found guilt of rape were released because "it would ruin their future". Women DO get their lives ruined when they get raped.

By this logic, they would try to ruin Damon's career. All that's left of Graham career is whatever independent album he wants to make. His fame with blur is over, so he basically doesn't have a career to get ruined in the first place.

You also like to ignore that he beat up his wife. For you who doesn't have an experience with alcoholics, you can never expect what they're gonna do, they're violent, they do pretty dark stuff when they're drunk. I dont have any doubt about this being true.

If they were untrue, I don't think Dave would have blocked people that wrote him about this, right?

Even if these relations were consensual, this is power abuse. It's creepy as fuck that a famous person chats with younger fans in the first place. And even if a barely 20 year old says yes to a famous 40/50 year old, and he takes advantage of It in the first time they meet. IT'S FUCKED UP.

This wasn't a single crazy person. They were various women who spoke up. So after what I have already said, you rather believe a single famous person? If you do, you're not only extremely parasocial, but you're also insensitive towards people that suffer from abuse (that are 1/3 of women btw). Stop thinking that an adult 50+ year old man and ex-alcoholic is an innocent cutie. Be realistic.

[agofsorrows]

The world is getting so scary I just 😢 can't

[julisworking]

'Suede's song, Animal Lover, is written by Brett Anderson after his girlfriend at the time, Justine Frischmann came home with red scratches all down her back after f**king with Damon Albarn' (Love and Poison, Official Biography of Suede)

[agofsorrows]

You don't hate Justine for what she could have done to Damon. You don't hate Courtney for being a racist (which IS a real reason to get angry about) or for what she could have done to Kurt. You hate them because it's easy to blame a woman and say she's not enough for someone, it's easy to say they fcked their way up to the top. You hate them because you're either parasocial or have a strong internalized misogyny, or both. End of story.

[phygoth]

well, that’s nice to know

[emoxxgirl]

I’m period maxxing😭😭

I have a heat pad, painkillers, chocolate and the sims 4.

+ suede

[agofsorrows]

I'm not wearing a bra again in my life. Idgaf about ur fkn beauty standars. 🎀🌸𖹭˙⋆

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[emoxxgirl]

I’m so happy ppl are starting to like Justine/Elastica now

I’ve lived though ppl hating on her for no clear reason other than jealousy or people thinking she forced Damon to do H*roin😭

Don’t get me wrong there’s still a few stragglers out there but I’m just happy about the shift❤️

[archive-z]

3. Justine Frischmann by Lucy O’Brien for “Desired: Diva’s Top 30 Delectable Women” in Diva (Apr 1, 1996).

[agofsorrows]

[julisworking]

Justine Frischmann on meeting Damon in 1989

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[macbethz]

Liam Gallagher wants to be Damon albarn. Damon albarn wants to be Brett Anderson. Brett Anderson wants to be Brian Molko. Brian molko wants to be Justine frischmann. And Justine frischmann wants you to leave her alone