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Girl I agree so much with your rant about the masculine energy and feminine energy thing.
Often they categorize anything that's not straight forwardly good as masculine. It's like they can't comprehend that women are capable of nuance. Women can be horrible and bad people because they are human too. We can be kind and caring because we are capable of expressing the full spectrum of humanity too.
It's also doing so much harm, the way they are branding certain things as inherently feminine and masculine. It's like this comment I saw under a YouTube video of a girl talking about how she set up her first business. Underneath there was someone saying " I love how you present such masculine advice in a way that's digestible to the girlies ".
Some of it is often just tied to consumerism as well.
Ma'am there's nothing feminine or masculine about that, it's just always been male dominated.
Anyway I just think your very existence as a woman is feminine, it's not your interests, your style, how you look or how you express yourself that give you femininity. It's you just breathing and living. I could be covered in shit and I'd still be inherently feminine.
thank you for this, i thought i was going insane being the only one to notice (or say anything at least). i honestly couldn’t agree more with everything you brought up. it’s such a slap in the face for these labels to be used and spread, especially by women, knowing it’s the patriarchy at hand that they complain about. and i couldn’t agree more with the consumerism of it all, it’s just “don’t feel feminine? here’s the solution that’s only 500 dollars”
has anyone else noticed the recent rise in "divine/ hyper feminine" and in turn the hate towards "masculine" women from other women?
i've tried to find other posts about this and failed, other than the posts by 'feminine' women villainizing 'masculine' women.
now as a woman that's more neutral, with interests in makeup and fashion but my own style and personality considered masculine, i may have a biased opinion. however, when i look at this situation all i see is what sounds like jealousy from 'fem' women toward the opposite. now this could be for many reasons, personal or otherwise.
i also see that any guide or post about 'fem' women is really just stereotypes that other women are pushing. for example, "(divine) fem energy' is almost always a full face, pink bows or pallet, skirts/dresses, and keep yourself on constant guard for the best posture and not to look 'masc' when doing anything. it's these stereotypes being pushed, then imply anything opposite to that is bad or wrong, or even not desirable.
it's such a harmful thing, because it's pushed around with such ease and carelessness that it makes all women and girls feel like they're not worth their sex/gender.
some say that women with a ‘masc’ energy are jealous or a ‘pick me’, but i say it’s the other way around, or simply neither. anyone can be jealous or have pick me behavior. the issue is that often the ‘feminine’ women see the women as superior, and they can’t possibly believe women could do wrong, so they need a justification on why a women is showing a negative or ‘masculine’ emotion, which causes the blame of energy.
maybe ‘masculine’ women get different attention in life, good or bad, that other women may want, but that is situational of course. however, i could even go so far as to say that blaming other women for their natural energy or personality is peak pick me behavior.
what i’m saying is, it has less to do with energy and fem vs masc, and more to do with women hating other women and needing validation in that. so, they need to make others feel bad or have people to agree with their hatred. it’s all jealousy and insecurity, just repackaged in some stereotypes.
