Obon
Yanaâs blog post from July 2011
Blog title: *Obon
[*Obon is a traditional Japanese festival usually held in August to honour ancestors and/or deceased family members. There are many regional differences as to how and when to celebrate it.]
Translation:
âIt's the Obon season~. When Obon comes, it feels like summer has arrived and makes me a bit melancholic. Unlike Halloween in the Western culture, the Japanese Obon is not so much of festive nature, nevertheless, the scent of incense and looking at the *Butsudan (*mini Buddhist altar) decorated with a lot of fruits somehow makes me feel at ease.
This year, I spent Obon all alone for the first time in my life. I didn't even know whether our family would celebrate Obon in July or in August [...]. I didn't really remember what to prepare. I wish I had asked [my mother] more about these stuff.
To all my ancestors, I'm sorry if I got something wrong! But well.., it's the thought that counts, right?
When I visited [our ancestors] grave carrying a paper lantern, people really stared at me. I guess nowadays this is not so common anymore??Â
I asked my assistants how they prepare for Obon, but it seems it's pretty different depending on the region. Just as the very same dish tastes different in different parts of Japan, Obon seems to be different from region to region which is quite impressing. Anyways, I forgot to prepare the bush clovers this year, so I'll be more careful next year...
I personally believe that the act of sitting in front of a *Butsudan and putting oneâs hands together in prayer is an act meant [to help] those who were left behind. After spending today [celebrating Obon] I felt that I'm happy to be born in a country with this culture.
Death is an 'end' that comes to all living beings, but for us living it is not an 'end' but a âpartingâ. And I think Japan is a country that is good at coping with parting.â
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Not sure if I managed to convey the immense melancholy in this blog post, so here are some additional information:
general info about Japanese ObonÂ
AÂ Butsudan (Buddhist altar) is a household mini shrine to honour the deceased. Itâs decorated with photos, flowers, fruits and things the deceased used to love. Unless you live in the countryside and own an ancestral butsudan, you usually only buy a butsudan when a close family member died. So the fact that Yana owns a butsudan (and mentions it in her blog) implies that she lost a close family member.
Obon is pretty much the equivalent of Christmas in Western culture for itâs a season where families and relatives gather together. Each region, each family has their own way to celebrate Obon. So now that Yanaâs mother died, thereâs no one to teach her the traditional Toboso-family way of celebrating Obon and since sheâs an only child (iirc), she has to prepare/celebrate it all alone.Â
We usually put our hands together in front of the butsudan to pray for the deceased, so itâs seen as an act for the sake of the deceased. Yana on the other hand believes this act is for the bereaved - to sort themselves out and cope with the death and pain.Â
the blog post is from 2011












