Eclipse_Apocalypse

I am the universes special little boy

[alilloserboy]

it’s not called ‘profic’ it’s called being a fucking critical thinker.

[punkitt-is-here]

fluttershy tries soju

[alilloserboy]

A particularly large crumb from the strawberry-flavored poptarts I was eating for breakfast fell down into my shirt and I grabbed it out from betwixt my man boobs and ate it and I’ve never felt so masculine in my entire life.

[explosionsfx]

rsd is fucking whack as shit because ok no I totally understand why you wouldn't have and don't have to tell me about this deeply personal and sensitive event and i get that you also need quiet moments alone and to yourself and just might not want to spend time with me and that's something that's ok and healthy however you leaned slightly away from me does that mean that you hate me forever now

[alilloserboy]

I love my boyfriend <333 so lucky to have found him. Some days I expect him to come to his senses and leave but he hasn’t, and I think that means I’m doing pretty good. :)

[b3ndy]

Rsd or general anxiety sucks because you forget you have it and something Mildly happens or you think something happens and it's like Oh Ok sorry I'm just gonna go to the exploding room now haha. Nice seeing ya.

[burntblueberrywaffles]

Saying "RSD makes me feel like everyone hates me" is a gross oversimplification. I don’t feel like people hate me. I feel like the people I want so desperately to like me don’t care about me and that feel so much worse than outright hate.

[dystopianroach]

Thinking about the Colima Spider Vessel. they really captured her humble expression

[hannahorca]

Halloween-Themed Beetle Guys 🪲🎃

They will be available in my shop update today (Wednesday September 10) at 5 pm PST! Shop here: hannahcomstock.com

[alilloserboy]

Did u see the 2024 total solar eclipse????

Yes because it was on my birthday :3 and over where I lived !!

[alilloserboy]

What’s crazy about being hyper empathetic is that people who demonize low empathetic people are the same people who actually ignore hyper empathetic struggles. Imo I don’t think you can really have one without the other.

not to make this a ‘all about me’ thing but when people are like ‘low empathy people are evil and horrible!!!!!’ They use us, hyper empathetics, as a stepping stone without actually realizing our struggles or how we function. People don’t GET how hyper empathy is LITERALLY DISABLING, how you get upset over every little thing and you end up being so ‘selfless and caring’ that you have nothing left for yourself. It leads to burnout and emotional turmoil and depression and anxiety and oh my god it’s AWFUL!!!!! I need people to realize just how much having hyper empathy fucking SUCKS SOMETIMES!!!

And hyperempathetic people are all ‘good and pure’ until we get empathy for the wrong people. Because people don’t seem to realize we get empathetic over literally EVERYTHING and it DOESNT REALLY HAVE BOUNDARIES. I have experienced empathy towards some of the WORST people and it made me feel horrible and confused. Not to mention empathy towards objects, which in itself isn’t that bad until you begin hoarding because no object should feel left out and you feel bad for getting rid of anything.

I just,,,I’m really tired of seeing people either bring up hyper empathy in a dismissive way or by dragging us. I really don’t like some of the posts that’s like…hyper empathy vs no empathy. It’s infighting, it’s not cool, we shouldn’t drag eachother because we are both misunderstood.

Again, these experiences may not be universal to everyone with high empathy. And when I say high empathy I’m not referring to people of normal empathy levels, I am referring to people who are often inconvenienced and disabled by their crushing amount of empathy.

both hyper empathy and low/no empathy are traits of autistic people (and other things, but both are apart of autism) and dragging EITHER ONE is ableist. We are both autistic, and the bigger problem here is that people don’t like autistic people. We both have our own unique struggles but at the end of the day we are both hated for a common reason; people don’t understand us.

long ass rant guys,,,mb…

[neopronouns]

an empathy-drained hyperempathetic flag for myself!

flag id: a flag with 5 stripes, with the second and fourth being half the size of the rest. in order, they are faded turquoise, very light blue, bright red-pink, very light blue, and orange. in the center of the flag, a bit taller than the middle 3 stripes, is a green circle with a thick, very dark dull indigo outline and a very dark dull indigo spiral within it. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

dni link

[gremlin-pattie]

no more discourse about high empathy vs low empathy autistics. neither one makes you a better or worse person. let’s all hold hands

[valcaira]

Us people with no empathy and people with high empathy aren't enemies btw. We should make out sloppy style.

[evilsystemm]

hyperempathy is just as disordered as hypoempathy

[astressedlittlejaybird]

2 things i think neurotypicals forget/don't realize:

- having high empathy HURTS. It's like if every time somebody else had a Feeling, you also had that feeling. And your own feelings. And the dog's feelings. Sometimes i can't stand to be around my friends because they're anxious and i just can't deal with the anxiety on top of mine. It is not a "hee hee ha ha i just get people really well" thing for a lot of autistics, it's a "i am lying on my bed with my ears buzzing and i physically can't move because there were too many Feelings in that room". Emotions, in this case, are almost like sensory input.

- Saying "but it makes you better at taking care of OTHERS" when we tell you we're in pain because of it is actual bullshit. I barely rely on my 'physical' empathy, because it's an incomprehensible mess of emotions that i don't understand. Many autistics do the same. And when we tell you "i'm in pain because [], therefore [] is annoying", you don't get to say "nooooo but [] is soooo helpful for meeeee it's not annoyingggg keep being in pain because it's helpfuuuuuuullll for meeeeee". That implies that the way we feel is wholly unimportant, and that we should be in pain if there's even a chance to help others. It is not our innate responsibility to take care of everyone else and it is fucked up to teach someone that they need to push away their pain just to make other happy.

(Low empathy individuals, i see you!! <3 you're very valid and not bad people at all, and while i don't think i can personally speak on your struggles, this post isn't meant to say that you don't have any. You're awesome ily)

[augmentedchordsofficial]

I have talked abt before how low empathy often gets demonized but also we need to stop Romanticizing hyper empathy. Hyperempathy isn’t fun or quirky it’s disabling. If you’re not disabled or in some way harmed (for lack of a better word) by having a lot of empathy you’re not hyperempathetic. I would consider myself hyper empathetic and it sucks. I have huge trouble accepting gifts because all I can think of is the other people in the world who also deserve them but can’t get them. I feel bad for random inanimate objects, even though I know it’s irrational. The guilt is constant. Hyperempathy doesn’t help me, and I wish I didn’t have it