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more sugar tips 🍬

Block him if he does ANY of these things:

-uses incorrect grammar/spelling consistently

-describes graphic and sexual situations

-ever lowers your allowance because he doesn’t “have enough today”

-insults you

-asks you to drive a long distance and refuses to help cover it if you do decide to go

-brings up the cost of the hotel room in your allowance. “The hotel is 100 so it’ll be 400 instead of 500”

Don’t settle ladies.

These are signs of a broke ass bitch. Real wealthy men have class and are respectful to potential dates.

thehoephase

You should 1000% request a gift for first dates!!!

I’m seeing some DUMB ass advice in this tag and its insane. If you spend your time, makeup, hair products, outfit, and transportation for a date: YOU DESERVE A GIFT. No one’s saying demand 1k but a true sd or generous man should be willing to show he’s serious. Stop giving loser ass time wasters the time of day. It’s as simple as saying: “Hey hun, I’m excited for our meet tomorrow and can’t wait to see you. I’ve heard its customary for gentlemen to bring gifts to the first date to show they’re serious about their potential SB. Have you heard about that? I think it’s a brilliant idea as I’m hoping to be your babe. I’d love a little present, if you’re fine with gifting me” And BAM! You end up with something cute. Fav gifts I’ve gotten include; 1. Alex&Ani Bracelets with my Birthstone + a crisp $100 + a box with my favorite flower pressed on it. 2. $200 Gas Money 3. $150 Sephora GC 4. $300 Apple GC (obviously from his job, but still) 5. $800 Best Buy GC to repair my “broken” laptop - that shits fine, I just wanted a Best Buy Card to buy my mom something she wanted. Gifts show they’re ready to invest. Also whenever you spend time, you should be compensated for it. Any man who complains about it or says no is not generous and is DROPPED. Any man who gives me some thoughtless or bullshit gift (I honestly got $40 as a gift once from a fucking executive 😒) will get the goodbye/good luck message. These gifts directly reflect how serious a man is about being with you. A shitty gift shows he doesn’t care, a pricy gift shows he’s willing to splurge and be generous, a thoughtful gift shows he listens and respects you. Although the A&A bracelets are the cheapest on the list, him remembering my birthday and favorite flower from an earlier convo was impressive. Your time is your third most valuable asset after your physical body and brain, don’t let these men play with it.