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Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.”– Soren Kierkegaard 🪼

[amelricxanoblue]

Hi everyone! another mini vlog medj last nani kay nahihiya na talaga ako HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA but this facilitation is all about Group Influence and it was really fun like 10/10 ang game its giving.

Click the link below to watch guys! thank youuu!!

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[amelricxanoblue]

Helping and Peacemaking~Mini Vlog🪼🪼

Hello everyone! second mini vlog. Uwaw nako HHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHA lalaban para sa grades but here's the second to the last facilitation. Which I learned a lot and very lingaw nga we won napud!

Helper nami ani kay nadaog man mi, pero very thankful for the facilitators because we learn a lot labi na sa applying first aid on what really ang mga do's and don't.

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[amelricxanoblue]

Mini Vlog~ Clip #7

hi everyone! the facilitation is all about prejudice and aggression.

Prejudice is just a fancy word for judging someone before you even know their name. Aggression is what happens when we let that judgment turn into anger or hatred. Let’s try being empathetic and be more mindful to the people around us. It's way less exhausting.

[amelricxanoblue]

Conformity and Obedience

The facilitation took all our energy away—but it was all worth it because we WON!

“Go itim! Go itim! Go, go, go!”

The facilitation required us to give 100% of our energy and practice active listening. The topic was about conformity and obedience, which are closely related in many ways. In the activities, especially the game given by the facilitator, we had to conform to what was being discussed or decided by the group. Along with conformity comes obedience, because when you conform to a group, you also tend to follow the instructions given by a leader. The leader guides and supervises the group for the betterment of the whole team.

Our experience during the “Paint Me a Picture” (i forgot the activity title) activity was like a rollercoaster ride. We experienced tiredness during the freeze time, and we also had to run to get props, which was exhausting. Even so, the activity was very fun, and we learned many things from the experience.

[amelricxanoblue]

Who’s Swaying Who? — Attitudes and Persuasion

The facilitation was about solving a mystery case, which made me very excited even before the day of the activity. I was really curious about what was going to happen and whether it would be fun.

During the facilitation, I did not expect to be given the role of the killer—HAHAHAHA! This was difficult for me because I’m not good at lying or saying things to get away with something bad that has been done. However, even though it was unexpected, it was still very fun. My critical thinking and reasoning skills were activated during the activity.

Even though my persuasion skills were not at their highest level at that time, I still learned something from the facilitation and really enjoyed the experience.

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[amelricxanoblue]

Outside our Comfort zone-

we like to stay where it’s familiar — where our pride is safe, where silence feels easier than speaking up.

but growth doesn’t live there. it waits outside. sometimes we help to gain something, and sometimes we help simply because of the altruism within ourselves. we choose to confront hatred and respond with peace instead. it’s in those uncomfortable spaces — where we choose to help even when it’s inconvenient, and choose peace even when our ego wants to win — that we truly grow.

sometimes being the bigger person feels awkward, but it’s also heartwarming to do so. sometimes reaching out first feels vulnerable, yet the best parts of who we are — the kindness, the courage, the softness — are found just beyond our comfort zone. and that’s where the good things begin.

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[amelricxanoblue]

Different shared mind-

I walked into all of my classes with my own little plan,

Pens ready, one problem at a time.

But somehow my “five-minute break”

Turns into an hour break.

Group chat buzzing— “Uy, study ta?”

Five minutes later— “Wait, naa chika raba.”

Social psychology said it’s influence being in,

Fitting to Norms and conformity running my day.

When they grind, I grind too,

Because of pressure, sometimes not.

Energy matching, goals aligned,

With different shared mind.

Still, it’s not all pressure and sway—

Sometimes the group shows me the way.

They pull me up when I feel small,

Remind me I belong after all.

[amelricxanoblue]

D-Day! (Facilitation Day)

On the day of our facilitation, I was really nervous and excited at the same time.

On the morning of that day it was our industrial psych reporting. Plus, on the afternoon of that day, we had our facilitation. Imagine being that productive and the things I have felt. It was full of emotions. Even though we have prepared for it, we can't really shake the feeling of uncertainty of what really will happen.

But even though it was full of what if's, my groupmates and I were able to finish it, and we successfully did our part very well. We were able to showcase the plan that we had visualized as we were making the term paper. Also, I would like to thank my groupmates for their efforts and time even though I'm so noisy about all the tasks that need to be done. Most importantly to Miss Barbie for the support and opportunity for this facilitation.

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[amelricxanoblue]

Social Thinking thru Social Cues.

My experience was fun and very insightful. At first I was not able to understand what activity was going to happen. Then when they asked us to watch the video and let us answer specific questions, that time I was able to grasp what really was happening.

They provided different and very interesting videos; there were clips that we were laughing at and even sharing the same thoughts on what the video was really all about.

We were given the short video about the movie "Inside Out," which is all about emotions and a family that was supposed to eat peacefully, but negative emotions were building up, and it made me think that sometimes we people tend to be the "Riley" from the movie; it's just that there are times we don't consciously think that we are doing it. But it's fine to feel such emotion, and you'll reflect and grow from it eventually.

Overall, the first facilitation was fun, and it was nice that I was able to share ideas with my group that time and laugh about things.

[amelricxanoblue]

D-day (Premed days Booth)

Every individual in a group matters. Each one of us has the power to contribute and positively influence the achievement of a goal we are working toward.

On the D-day of the Premed Days booth, it was fun and fulfilling. However, we cannot deny that there were lapses and moments that frustrated everyone. Even though we were grouped with our circle of friends and were already familiar with each other, we also cannot deny that there were instances when some unconsciously engaged in social loafing.

Achieving a successful event does not automatically lead to the brightest side of the day. We encountered challenges, such as expenses doubling due to a shortage of supplies, the lack of initiative to bring the necessary materials for certain products, and other concerns that affected our preparation.

All of these reflect what we call diffusion of responsibility—where individuals in a group feel less accountable and less motivated to take initiative because many people are involved. With so many heads thinking, we sometimes assume that someone else will take action or handle what needs to be done.

But overall, it was a fun and memorable experience. It is not always about rainbows and sunshine, yet when everyone is genuinely interested and willing to give their best to accomplish the booth, success becomes possible—even if it is tiring.

[amelricxanoblue]

In the process of achieving a successful event, I realized that it requires help, patience, teamwork, and most especially, good communication.

While we were still planning, I noticed that sharing creative ideas and strategies wasn’t as smooth as I expected. There were instances when some of us agreed to something just to get the tasks done immediately.

When the time came to do all the work, I knew I had to give all my energy and creativity. I contributed to gain points, earn good grades, share my ideas, and feel proud that I did something meaningful for the event. However, there were also moments when I found myself becoming a bystander, simply watching and waiting to be told what to do.

Through this experience, I learned that even the tiniest help is greater than I think. Giving even a little effort is always better than giving nothing at all.

[amelricxanoblue]

ME IN PREJUDICE MOMENTS

I used to think prejudice was something obvious—our loud opinions, clear hate to someone, and easy to point out. Learning social psychology made me realize how quietly it lives within me: in assumptions I didn’t question, and judgments I formed without realizing where they came from.

Prejudice doesn’t start as action—it starts as an attitude, shaped by what I was taught and what I kept consuming.

[amelricxanoblue]

Conformity isn’t always pressure.

Obedience isn’t always force.

Sometimes it’s just silence, nodding along, and doing what’s expected.It’s changing how you act or think because a group, pressure, and you being obedient is there.

Sometimes it’s good, sometimes harmful, sometimes just neutral—but it shows how much others influence us and vice versa.

We accept when it truly goes our way, comply when we pretend to agree, and obey when authority tells us what to do.

Sometimes we just want to be liked. Sometimes we want to be right.

[amelricxanoblue]

Exam Week -

Doing an interview was not my first time—but it felt like experiencing it for the first time all over again.

Going through it with my friend made it both fun and nerve-wracking at the same time. Watching my friends overthink the questions they might be asked was relatable. Being part of Batch 2 and among the first five interviewees actually helped; it lessened the nervousness I was feeling.

Another activity we did was our defense for the social psychology game/activity. We did well, but there is still room for improvement. What matters most is that we showed up and did it despite being scared.

Overall, I believe I did great and performed well. Although this week was overwhelming, it was a truly valuable experience.

(added clips before mock interview, w/ consent from the people who are included in the video.)

[amelricxanoblue]

Gear Up for a fun Activity ~ 🎮

Our team is all set as we collaborate on our term paper about social beliefs and judgment —ideas bouncing around and insights slowly taking shape. It was a fun experience with our new group members and laugh as we share our thoughts for this activity.

We can’t wait to share both our insights and a fun activity with you all.

See you soon! 🙌

[amelricxanoblue]

A day of a psychology student - social psych class 📘☁️

learning the way we judge the world isn’t always logical—

sometimes we do it fast, automatic, and based on vibes (boom! hello, system 1),

and sometimes it’s slow, being careful, and exhausting (system 2 on a good day).

A little overconfidence quietly step in.

we notice what supports our beliefs,

ignore what doesn’t,

and call it “common sense.”

and attitudes?

turns out believing & saying yes to something doesn’t always mean we’ll act on it.

we say one thing, do another, then justify it later—

because being human is complicated.

“maybe the hardest part isn’t judging others, but noticing how often we judge without realizing it.”

ps. just a student, taking notes, questioning my own thinking,

and realizing that understanding people starts with slowing down and judging responsibly.

[amelricxanoblue]

"Where Shadows Meet the Real Heart”

Lights may shine and shadows play,

Showing pieces we hide away.

Yet in the quiet, soft and still,

We meet ourselves, gentle and pure.

Illusions fade like morning wind,

Revealing truths we’ve always missed.

No need for armor, no need for facade,

Just the heart we’ve longed to know.

And in that space, we softly see,

The self we are, and all we can be.