intro! this account may be deleted or just left here. idk yet!
you can call me spiderfoot on here! he/him + any (warrior) cat related neos.
i’m a tom, bipoc, adult, and dealing with multiple physical disabilities and mental conditions. i am also a C-DID system. live and let live beliefs
DNI: none, but i block freely. keep in mind sometimes i may interact with antis and other times i might just block on sight. things i commonly block include “white pride”, antis with a large platform, and more.
BYI: i may make statements, share opinions, etc that i may disagree with or forget i said later on. this is due to my DID. do not be surprised when this happens. i am also socially awkward and i have trouble responding to DMs. thank you!
send me asks!!! i still get off to anon hate :3
heres my rentry, which also states my current account in case i get bleepblorped. -> https://rentry.org/anarchistspider
more under the cut!
i used to be active in the radqueer community but i was blipblooped from here, and then out of fear and paranoia, i left, and buried my identity deep down. [this was quite a while ago, so i don’t know if i will be able to remember accounts i used to be mutuals with]
i want to return here and spread joy, acceptance, and my listening ears. i want to hear about other radqueer peoples experiences, and i also highly value safety in this community.
being radqueer is dangerous and i have accepted that. but i want to return here instead of hiding and lying to myself.
i do not subscribe to the “i’m ok with anything unless it’s illegal” beliefs. the law is not always right. that being said i won’t usually really state my more specific opinions on contact discourse and similar
i may take days, weeks etc off of this account due to how emotionally taxing it is to deal with all of the things i see from antis. please respect this.
i identify as black, indigenous, asian & more.
and yes, i’m a black person who supports trace people. fight me
tags:
#spiderfoots identities -> terms and flags i identify with.
#spiderfoot approved -> fav posts :3c
#spiderfoot rambles -> just me meowing about random things that usually aren’t completely radqueer related.
#spiderfoots heat -> n$fw/suggestive reblogs or posts. filter this one out if you dont want to see that stuff.
#spiderfoots art -> my art!
#spiderfoot coins -> my coined terms!
#spiderfoot and co. -> reblogs & talk about nonhuman friends!
i know i haven’t been in this community for long, i’ve only came back for like?? a few weeks? but ive decided that i want to be a non-community radqueer. actually im not sure if i would label myself radqueer anymore!
yes, im still pro transid, para, etc etc! i just feel like currently, this community is not safe enough and is too hostile for me and my system to reside in.
i love the mutuals i’ve made in this short period of time! but i want to do what’s best for my mental health!
if i ever return, which i may, my new blog will be listed in my rentry, rentry.co/anarchistspider .
thank you all for being so epic! keep on being rad and queer. i love u all dearly.
do you know how easy it'd be to slide your cock in me while i'm asleep? and press your entire body weight against me, keeping me trapped underneath you? with one of your hands over my mouth? while you moan and whisper in my ear that i was asking for it even while im unconscious?
If the discourse in this godforsaken community wasn't repugnant enough, what genuinely sets me off without fail is the coining of the re-coining of the re-coined term that means ttge exact same thing as another term, which holds the exact same stances as term 1, except for this one little thing that apparently warranted an entire different flag, name, creator, DNI list and whatever else. I'm tired. I don't care for omnipanmaxradfreakweird4000. I don't care for the bajillion blankqueer stances. And I will Not search a thousand blogs to search for the lost ark of terms, which now probably only survives on a dead 2019 account, in a reblog from a year before that, buried under pages upon pages of supernatural x-reader reblogs and homestuck memes. Please. Being in the middle of the human centipede would be more pleasant than seeing another blankqueer stance
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so where do i even begin with the zeta movement....
they are wildly anti para and anti kink. they do not consider zoosexuality a parasexuality. they HATE yaps and zoosadists and arospec zoos and will harass us or do their best to harass us out of any zoo spaces we could possibly inhabit. they dont even think zoosadists are zoos and will tell you that to your face .
they keep trying to assimilate zoosexual activism into lgbt activism and it. just doesnt fucking work. all it does is get normie lgbt people even more violent towards us. the ironic part about this is the zeta movement has a history of transphobia and ableism.
the zeta principles are from the 90s and are frankly kind of outdated. overall its an exclusionist assimilationist group that is a danger to all zoosexuals who do not fit their definition of what zoosexuality should be and mean.
thank you so much , this makes a lot of sense and i hope i didn’t make anyone think i stand for these things when i had the zeta symbol in my name! i was under the impression that zeta zoos were the opposite of all that, but honestly that makes sense considering ive seen some red flags of those things when browsing zeta communities.
yoot i just saw ur post about how u made dumplings. 5 hours ago. were they good. what kind of dumplings🥟🥟🥟🥟🥟
instead of wasting all my [[moni]] (p/t money) on takeout i went to the store and got some frozen pelmeni. russian dumplings w/ meat, i think the kind i got were pork. i dont eat them much but these ones were rly good & they had soup inside !!!! i still had to spend [[moni]] (p/t money) but it wasnt nearly as expensive as takeout would be
but if i was actually making dumplings from scratch with my hands i'd have probably have made pierogi. with potaters. i love potaters. best vegetable of all. potaters... cronch🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔
it's so depressing seeing selfship posts with " proship / comship dni," it's like seeing an angel without its wings . daily reminder that selfshipping was originally a proship thing until antis stole it
Society punishes autism in more ways than you might expect. For instance:
I have a heightened issue with taste and texture, like many autistic people. One big one is I hate the taste of toothpaste, and the texture of the toothbrush against my teeth. This, combined with the executive dysfunction I and many other autistics deal with, means I often forget to brush my teeth.
So, either I need to get extra dental work done, which is ridiculously expensive, or I need to get special brushes and toothpaste that don't trigger my sensitivities, which is also expensive, and often difficult to locate, especially with the aforementioned executive dysfunction.
Not to mention that a lot of my safe foods are often heavily processed and/or filled with sugar, and I'm getting a lot more oral issues.
(also it's difficult to work full time which means that I don't get dental insurance unless I stay on my parents, which you can age out of despite still being dependent, so it costs even more, but insurance being an ablist scam is another discussion)
i relate to this a lot, but additionally, we are shunned and bullied by society for having yellow, crooked or different looking teeth. + for having bad breath.
i understand it may not be pleasant for people to see my teeth but im tired of people saying nasty things to me cuz of it, knowing full well i am disabled.
