i don't wanna join your club

I've been on the godforsaken website for over a decade. I also run a roller derby (@rellerderber) and a wlw fandom (@wlw-stanbot) blog.

[andiamtheothers]

mmm taking sexy pictures and sending them to my new girlfriend is my new favorite hobby

am I hot though?

[sacred-portal]

[littlestpersimmon]

The Sea Foam Dragon

[asparrowdraws]

Gaming Dice.

I learned a lot about edges and light and color relationships here.

[greywolfheirs]

PAINTING!!! THIS IS A PAINTING

[thecollectibles]

Art by Mikko Tyllinen

[thememedaddy]

[andiamtheothers]

I signed a lease on an apartment today. The first one by myself in a long long time. And then I spent 30 minutes sobbing into my new girlfriend's pillow because I miss my ex. I'm just glad I can talk to them about it. I'm glad that they are so supportive.

But I still feel lonely. And I find myself wanting Kai to fix that but....also ok that they can't. Because I just need to go through it. It's ok to feel lonely. I'm not really alone. Tomorrow I am going to Minneapolis with some derby friends. And another derby friend was checking in with me today. And I have friends everywhere.

Maybe I feel lonely because I haven't spent the right time alone with myself. I spent a lot of time by myself when I was with J. In retrospect, it was probably too much time alone. I needed to feel more connected to her and we were at the limit of developing that connection so...it had to be done. And now I've found someone that is as hungry for connection as I am. And we do connect so so well. I'm not worried about that. Not really. I am worried about potential disappointment because they have so much going on in their life, so our time together might be less than I want but...it's really fine. Even if it's hard for me....as long as it's not hard all the time.

I don't know...I need to not try and predict what will happen. We both know that may be a pain point in our relationship and I think acknowledging it and committing to managing it together is all we can do about it.

And that has to be enough.

[theanimalblog]

Baby and Mama, Yellowstone National Park

[a-book-of-creatures]

Let’s responsibly use the bike lane with mama

[oatmilkdyke]

i love you buttered toast i love you omelette i love you hashbrowns i love you croissant i love you pancakes i love you waffles i love you bagel i love you oatmeal i love you muffin i love you breakfast

[trans-faggot]

"Doms dont beg-"

Boring, boring boring go back to bed

"please baby i need you, i need to feel you"

Now you have my attention.

[rhythm-of-lesbianism]

i hate the part of depression that’s like all the things that bring me joy are empty and i can’t do anything. like come on bitch i know you love book can you just be happy about book :/

[baileyphobic-deactivated2025111]

Not all dykes are perverts. But I sure am

[andiamtheothers]

Um. My gf of one month is currently on a date and I am also 3 days out from separating from my partner of nearly 9 years. So...im at the gym.

Polyamory...amirite??

[andiamtheothers]

Sometimes you love and love and love

And it's not enough

So you sit in a pile of memories

Built over nearly a decade

Sobbing

Wishing things were different

Knowing

That you just have to make it through

[segamascott]

[godserene]

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

I'm a simple bitch. i believe the purpose of government should be to improve the lives of its citizens and protect its most vulnerable members. unfortunately i live in a day and age where this gets me labeled an enemy of the state

[girlnephew]