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24 | they/them | chronically ill and AuDHD | hyperfixation accoung basically (currently byler, dnp, and arcane)

[immehesays]

"afab oppression" well yes people afab are oppressed by society, nice observation.

"trans men identify with their sex too much" and it's just a trans man having a tattoo of an organ he has.

"this is literally the same as having a nazi swastika tattooed on you" what. what are you even talking about.

"trans men are so fucking whiny and bitchy about everything like oh my god shut up!" you're a misogynist. lmao.

"this tattoo of a uterus on a trans man is making me, a trans woman, uncomfortable" that's because you're projecting your dysphoria onto him for some fucking reason. you'd be seething if a trans man said the same thing to you about a tattoo of your anatomy, so stop acting so entitled to another person's body.

[onlyfangz]

if a trans man needs to hide the fact that he's trans in order to access any form of male privilege, i simply do not believe that is real privilege. i will, and never will, accept that the closet is a privilege. any queer person can go into the closet to access "privilege," and it's dumb when you all try to argue that bs too. are you not tired of making the exact same arguments about recycled queer groups every 5-10 years? nothing is ever new except the New Queer Enemy really IS privileged and evil this time, we promise!

[isotopeboy]

I've seen so many posts lately like "trans men have got to get more feminine" and it's lowkey pissing me off because we haven't even normalized trans men being masculine yet. Have you not been paying attention to trans men when they talk about being kicked out of LGBT spaces for "appearing too cishet" like can we lock in and understand that sexuality and oftentimes gender aren't something you can visually tell before we start trying to normalize something that's already normalized

[transmascfeminism]

OP, I'd like to add something that is absolutely not meant to detract from your very good point but rather to enrich the discussion, I hope it's okay.

Something else I have noticed on top of what you describe is that very often transmascs (of any ‘type’, gender identity, sexuality, and so on) that are not medicalized or not medicalized enough to pass are ALSO sidelined and dismissed, if not outright treated with hostility, in LGBT+ spaces, including ones that explicitly say they are 'trans inclusive'. So we are also sidelined if a person in these spaces deems us to be 'too cishet', but in the opposite sense - too much like a cis woman whose masculinity is not 100% irrefutable and unclockable.

And this applies not just to transmascs that choose to have a more 'feminine' gender presentation, but also just as much to transmascs that DO style themselves as masculine as possible but get still read as ‘tryhard girls wanting to feel special’ by onlookers entirely because of physical characteristics they cannot (yet) change such as facial features, voice, height, visible breasts even through binders &/or tape, body fat distribution, etc.

So we’re essentially damned if we do and damned if we don’t: we either aren’t trying hard enough and are silly little girl interlopers bothering the Real Queers or, the second we start to pass a bit too well, we’re evil rapey threats scaring the Real Queers.

The entire system is rigged against our existence in LGBT+ spaces as equal and valued participants, because people either don't care if we live or die or actively want us to disappear.

[snapbackliz]

Miwi lesbyler 🥹🥹 i barely see any genderbent Miwi so I decided to take measures into my own hands. And after a longggggg art block, the power of Byler came to save the day by gracing me with this idea!!!

[the-tv-trove]

Sometimes I think about Joyce and Terry because they’re narrative mirrors of the other. When Joyce looks at Terry, she is seeing what happens to mothers who question and fight the system. But she is also seeing a mother who loved and fought for her baby as fiercely as she’s been fighting for Will.

And I don’t think the show fully acknowledges how much meeting Terry changed the rules for Joyce. Because she is seeing what is at stake, what the lab will do to her if she pushes too hard and fails. But more notably is the fact that “Eleven” is no longer a mysterious weapon or experiment. She is Jane Ives. She has a mother and nursery that’s been waiting over a decade for her to come home.

And I think that completely rewrote the rules for Joyce because as desperately as she wants Will back, she won’t let it be at the cost of someone else’s baby.

[tboy-cock]

if ur skinny and u get all sad and mopey like "ohhh im so fat )): im so ugly and fat ))): being fat is the worst thing i could possibly be ))): i shoud lose weight and quit being so awful and fat ):" you owe every fat person 1 million dollars and if you say this shit to fat people directly, 2 million, and if you say "oh youre cute though but IM ugly and fat, i dont hate fat people i just dont want to be fat" when said fat person is upset about you saying how much you hate yourself for "being fat" its 3 million

[artticfennec]

THIS! It doesn't matter if someone is or isn't actually fat this is something so many girls (and guys) go through and no one should ever think they don't have a right ta complain they should be able ta reach out they deserve help or ta just vent without being told they don't have the right

And I'm a bigger girl but if someone skinny I know was saying that I'd be trying ta see what help they need that I can give

Why can't we all hold hands and be friends

[dolorous-enby]

I know that when people say “now that byler isn’t canon Finn has a lot of explaining to do” and “if byler isn’t canon then Finn was just gay for Noah” most likely are just joking but I’m tired of those jokes. Because c’mon, Finn wasn’t just having fun doing whatever the hell he wanted, he was an actor and he was acting and it was his job and even if a lot of the things we caught Mike do was his own acting choices let’s not forget that all the other people onstage INCLUDING THE DUFFERS were right there watching him and telling him how to act and taking multiple shots AND APPARENTLY APPROVING HIS WORK because filming movies isn’t just fun and giggles it is a job and an industry and people study in universities for that and no way would they leave a lip glance which is SO OBVIOUSLY A ROMANTIC DETAIL (you can google it)—not to mention that there was quite a lot of them and also not to mention other stuff like Mike licking his lips near Will or the triple take in the desert in s4 and so much more—no way they would leave a shot like that IN THE FINAL MONTAGE if it wasn’t for their fucking planning.

So byler was always so fucking fuck much in the cards but the D*ffel bags pussied out in the last moment and abandoned their own setup which led to the final result not making any damn sense. I’m fucking done with it. Bitch I am so fucking done.

[who-me-never14]

this has almost certainly been done but someone needs to make a madwheeler edit to twink and a redhead

[barbiekens]

[andywrittes]

That’s too many emotional tender music playing, I wonder why?

[lyxchen]

I love animating byler to fun 80's songs <3

The song is "Sledgehammer" by Peter Gabriel ^^

(Also please motivate me to continue this one because I really really want to!!!<333)

Michael, you're embarrassing yourself!!!

[h3artaches]

based off interactions on my tomadotchi island

[ianasha]

I'm going HAM and saying FUCK IT 'cause I've had this wip since goddamn february and I just cannot find it in me to work on figuring out the colours. SO enjoy this greyscale Cleradin drawing until the stars move into the right position for me to finish it. Remember to click on the images for higher quality

Excuse me while I walk into the sea

[andywrittes]

I think that they knew that if they made Will confess his feelings it would’ve been impossible for Mike to reject him

[withdevovotion]

i have something i want to say. and that something is that there is a difference between being a really good, really enduring, really fucking selfless friend and letting yourself be consistently mistreated. you are not virtuous for letting people be cruel to you and i'm really sorry if you've been made to think that but. im telling you gently. you should leave

[boywill]

okay i didnt want hopper to be all depressed and fucked up BUT i wanted to see him at least a little messed up from el’s death! she was his daughter. his second chance and he lost again. how would that not fuck him up for a good while. i understand he had joyce and the byers kids after but i wish i understood what he was feeling

[andywrittes]

Let the boy confess his feelings

[corefourever]

New from Finns instagram "thank you toronto! 🇨🇦 go jays!!"