I'm really starting to feel hopeless. Like meeting men and dating is an exciting thing but it usually makes me feel like crap. My ex has moved on and in a new relationship meanwhile i still can't get a man to treat me right. Maybe I need to check the facts. I met a man who didn't approach me first. He initiated a convo over instagram DM that has lasted 4 days. He did not invite me out but told me where he was going. He saw me and said hi and then asked where I would be. I did not see him again at the end of the night. He did not text me to ask where I was. Maybe I just got excited prematurely bc we really do not know each other. But I also just need to let a friendship go that I am holding onto.
Update: It's been about 2 weeks later. He messaged me the next day and we eventually tried to link but the vibes were off but he's still texting me. I tried to ask him could I see him again but it's been over 12 hours and he still hasn't responded so that's a bummer. I went on two dates last week but I'm letting this one get me down. I guess bc I originally found him very attractive especially compared to the others. I know he will respond. I just dk when and I know it wont be an answer I'll like which just makes me feel bad.
Another update: pretty sure i’ve been curved. “Hey sorry but no idea lol I been tryna take on a lot of new shit just in case we shut down again so I’m outside a little less but I’m sure we can figure something out one of these days”Â
