Brivi

19 | polish | they/he/meow

[angelsbride]

brivi ✦ 19 ✦ they/it/he ✦ polish [pl/eng] ✦ bigender lesbian ✦ neurodivergent ✦ artist

I draw ocs and fanart sometimes too. My side blog for cat & furry art is @briviclan

brivi art - my drawings, all of them

I'm an adult, I reblog nsfw posts sometimes

Interests: anime and manga ( my list ), cats, jellyfish, fish, ocean, animals overall, pokemon, nintendo games, hoyo games, pjsk, vocaloid, japanese and polish music.

my toyhouse:

https://toyhou.se/brivi

[assignedmale]

[holoswirl]

Yay

[catmask]

reading back through my blog to remember who i am supposed to be #normal

[catmask]

by the way. it never is too late to decide you want to be happy. the woman who helped me get hormones didnt start hers until she was 70, and i met her at 73, beautiful and smiling - and told me that the last three years of her life had been her favorite. your favorites might be ahead of you too. why not hang around and find out?

[eurobeatbeetle]

[fivehoursofscreaming]

oh

[eurobeatbeetle]

bring out the rotating tiger

[fivehoursofscreaming]

so youre telling me that some asshole can just throw together meaningless shit and get notes and attention yet when i put actual thought into the things i say nothing happens i am so fucking done with this bullshit god damn fuck

[mewvore]

"we detected a mature post" yeah I'm in my 30s

[anguilliforme]

would you still love me if i was a small iridescent freshwater fish

[seali]

I am grub and I live in. The snno w

[jumalanpelko]

MY BABIES!!!!!!

[arrgh-whatever]

living together

[red-lipstick]

Steve Adams - Moongazer (A hare staring at the rising moon in Kimberley Nottinghamshire), 2012    Photography

[bloodraven55]

new study finds that the health benefits of girls kissing may even include being able to regrow limbs. "that's just the sheer power of lesbianism at work," one doctor confirmed

[acegender]

explain your gender in 10 words or less without using boring words like “male”, “female”, “nonbinary”, “masculine”, “feminine” or “androgynous”.

go!

[mihai-florescu]

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

Except, critically, at bedtime.

[findersfeeders]

Ravings and urges get miscoded over time. Let’s say you’re thirsty, and you live in a strawberry field. Strawberries contain some water and a bunch of sugar so, over time, you may start to crave strawberries when you are thirsty because you get a reward and some relief in shorter time from the need starting than the trek to the stream. This can happen for every need: sleep, food, whatever.

Trevor Noah has a great tip, that when he craves ice cream at night he breaks it down into parts: I want something cold, I want something sweet. He drinks a glass of cold water then waits to see if he still has the ice cream craving. Usually he doesn’t.

So listening to your body isn’t “follow every urge” but “decompose the urge to discover the underlying need.”

If you always feel like getting cozy in bed you may be: cold, dehydrated, and/or malnourished (maybe a need for high calories that are bioaccessible…not processed).

If you do not feel tired at bedtime you may: need to eat dinner earlier because your body is still digesting, need to exercise or go outside more during the day, get the fuck off your screen for an hour so your brain can enter sleep mode.

Hope this helps someone.

P.S. notice i said nothing about neurodivergence. Not that it’s not a likelihood but the over-pathologization of behaviors prevents us from taking simple actions to improve our wellbeing. Also, these tips are pretty accessible and applicable to most brain variations.

[brightlotusmoon]

[lozyrosie]

arcanine and vaporeon ko-fi request