Role of Men in the Patriarchal Order
I write regularly about how a female is expected to behave in a Patriarchal Society. A lot of angry women in current society then tend to ask "and what about men, what is expected from them? nothing?"
Well, I am sorry to inform such people that actually, a LOT is expected from Men, of a nature that would go against the natural biology and abilities of a female.
Firstly, a Man is expected to be a leader. A young boy in a Patriarchal Society is not seen as an independent Man until He has proven His abilities in Leadership. This evidence may come in the form of leading His peers in the community, His family through situations of duress, or at His work. Leadership entails laying out role-model behavior in handling difficulty, keeping people motivated, focused, and direct them towards a goal for greater good. He who is not yet a Leader is not ready to be a Man.
Second, a Man is expected to provide. A Patriarchal Man is generous with what He has, rich or not. He is giving towards His family and the female under His care and guidance. He does what is necessary to secure the resources - whether that means learning new skills, growing existing skills, working together with other Men, or building together as a community. A Man should show that He can, at minimum, provide for Himself and one more - typically a younger sibling, an elderly member of family, or pets under His care.
Third, a Man is expected to behave in upright manner in alignment with his values and principles. This means, vices are looked down upon in Men. Alcoholism, drugs, gambling are seen as the downfall of a Man. A Man, despite being Owner of His female, cultivates loyalty to her and does not cheat or lie. A Man does not abuse or torture those weaker than Himself - especially a female. A Man puts His family and those under His care first, even if it means making personal sacrifices for their well being.
Fourth, a Man is helpful, supportive and believes in community. He works together with other Men with no hidden agenda for the betterment of the Order. He provides help to those less knowledgeable and seeks learning from those more. He puts aside ego and personal gain, and builds & protects hand in hand with others seeing them as brothers committed to a greater purpose.
Fifth, a Man a looks after Himself. He understand that his ability to contribute, lead and protect, comes from His own strength. He invests in His own development - both physically and mentally. He keeps His body clean, fit and able. He reads, learns, practices to keep His mind sharp. He is someone who is always prepared to be relied on and asked for support, for that is His highest calling.
There is much more in the details, but these are the most foundational traits and most mountainous expectations of a Patriarchal Man.
If you ever wonder what being part of this lifestyle means…


















