hi! im kon, but you can call me "please stop talking about _", as most of my friends do :] AUDHD / i might be stjpid / bilingual 🇪🇨 not 18. Yet.. my politics are Peace and Love and Puppies for everyone (if you dont want it you share it with the neighbors who might want it. Yeag) strawpage: https://konslittlecorner.straw.page
hi im Kon !!!! some. weird. guy thing. girl. none. all of the above. hm
I dont have a DNI per se but i wont tolerate lgtbq+phobia, antisemitism, racism, sexism, misandry, etc. of any kind.
If you hate trans men for being "transandrodorks" or some new term, you're transphobic. Can you believe that? Please do not try to divide the trans community, we're all Egg./ref
i appreciate when Not Good topics are explored in media, but proshipping is not my thing. do what you do gavel 3 times /ref
blocking: if you talk about disease because of trigger. handling people eating better
Nothing is personal!
look at my pronouns boy / look at my pronouns boy (spanish)
he to my friends and Cool People. she to my #haters because i ll always be a girl or something and that is wonderful. any and neos to everyone else (kon)
from ecuador. I am heavily motivated and inspired by my friends and my special interests. I try to be outgoing, tell me if im being too much, please.
SONA REVEAL!!!!!! the character in my pfp is puzzle lady/dame kon, from konekocs, a small project of mine! just an array of characters for now, but i am quite sure it will sometime become something else, and if i can, it will be soon! this is them
-i'm really. Scared of interacting with you guys important people but i love you
-i dont want to learn abut disesses. thanks. nosophobia. thanks
-I think i have something alike an alter ego every few time. ecottae 2022 and kiiro 2025. go visit kiiro at the gaymer blog. he's lonely
Im fairly good at english and spanish, too! i mean, i like to type in silly ways sometimes, and sometimes commit the obvious obvious in/on, but, i like having mistakes. It makes me seem... un perfect! Because, of course,
hey jsyk if you purposefully try or even successfully try to trigger paranoia in someone with paranoid psychosis or any type of paranoid delusion, no matter how ""funny"" or how much you hate them, i fucking hate your guts and i want you to reconsider why you think being ableist is a big punch up to someone who is probably too afraid to leave their room because we think someone will get us
Kids sitcom about a group of friends where all of them are a part of secret magical or superhero based underground society that don’t know about each other and they all think that the others are ignorant normies that they have to protect from their magical shenanigans.
The witch kid, the superhero sidekick, the cryptid hunter, and the half fairy kid are all unknowingly trying to hide the same talking cat from the principal of their school and the talking cat doesn’t tell any of them about each other because it’s currently getting many extra helpings of treats in exchange for its silence.
During the episode where they all find out about each other’s secret lives there’s obviously a slow look over to the cat who’s like “well you never asked. Anyways, completely unrelated but I’ve gotta go.”
The more I hear people "reject" redemption arcs, the more... genuinely uncomfortable I get? Sometimes people hurt you and you want to stay angry at them and that's a completely human response but "If you've hurt someone else, there is no way to make things better and you need to die" is actually a horrifying opinion for people to say so casually.
wearing a shirt that says I SURVIVED ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WHATSOEVER BUT I HAVE MENTAL HEALTH CONDITIONS SO IT FELT LIKE A BIG DEAL WHILE IT WAS HAPPENING
*swings a pendulum in front of you* oooooh you wanna stop using psycho/psychotic as insults so badly. and psychopath. and sociopath. and antisocial. and homebound. and schizo. and narcissist(ic). and braindead. and mouthbreather. and delusional. and
It's occurred to me that the core of pretty much any name-calling is going to be some level of ableism, racism, sexism, etc. so maybe we all would benefit from being more direct in the criticisms we have for people we don't like. Like, say what you actually mean instead of using disabilities as a proxy for the word "bad"
so a very long time ago, my dad worked with an arson investigator
this guy was often one of the first people on the scene following a suspected arson, once emergency services had done what they needed to do. at times, there were also civilians on the periphery. often, they were freaking out, and understandably so; their home or workplace had just, quite literally, gone up in smoke
this investigator wouldn’t try to calm them down. he wouldn’t comfort them or be a shoulder to cry on.
instead, he’d walk up to the person most visibly losing their shit, hand them a fire extinguisher, and say “hey, can you keep an eye out for any other fires, and if you see one, can you put it out with this?”
of course, there was no actual risk of another fire. he wouldn’t be on the scene investigating if there was even a chance that the fire wasn’t completely put out. but the bystander didn’t need to know that
because that person, without fail, would immediately pull it together, take the fire extinguisher, and stand guard. they were, at least temporarily, calm enough for this investigator to do this job
my dad has told me the parable of the fire extinguisher a hundred times, and i think about it a lot. i think about what it says about people and crises. i think about what it says about the grounding power of having a purpose. and i think about the importance of letting someone help me through something, even if that help is just going to be another casserole to throw into the freezer, because useless or not, that fire extinguisher might be the only thing holding them together
Every bit of emergency response training I've ever done has a part that's like "check the bystanders, and if anyone looks like they're about to lose it, give them something to monitor. Tell them to keep an eye out for the ambulance or to make sure everyone else is staying clear of the hazard or something."
