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A Sugar Baby’s Guide to a Luxury Wardrobe and Brands
FOLLOW ME ON MY SB INSTA ~ I have like no followers because I just started the account & would love to connect with more sugar sisters on another platform! I will be posting shopping hauls and inspiration photos. There will also be restaurant, bar and club recommendations and travel pics! SISTERS ONLY!!! @citysugarbabe
Disclaimer: This is my own opinion, and you are free to disagree! I am not being sponsored or gifted items by any of these brands (I wish!). I am simply just trying to share some of my style tips based off of my own wardrobe :) xo
Will continue to update as I think of more things! This was just off the top of my head. Feel free to send in suggestions, if I use it I will give you credit when I edit the post! Questions also welcome.
Although I am relatively new to the sugar bowl, dressing stylishly and well is something I have done all of my life. I hope my advice can help others! A top, big fish SD is going to dress well, and he’s going to want his SB to do the same. You must exude confidence and style for him to want to pursue you.
If you are a sugar baby looking to build an ultimate, timeless luxury wardrobe look no further - check out my guide below!
Basics: T-shirts & Tank Tops - ATM (wonderfully flattering, especially for bigger busts), T by Alexander Wang, Helmut Lang, James Perse Jeans - rag&bone/JEAN, J Brand, Citizens of Humanity, 7 for all Mankind, J Brand, Current/Elliott, AG Adriano Goldschmidt. Yes I love my denim :) Anything with a blatant logo on it like True Religion is a NONO. Shirts - Equipment Sweatpants - I used to absolutely detest sweatpants but after seeing photos of Rihanna and Gigi rock them, I’m kind of into it. Have my eye on a pair from Fenty X Puma now!
Lingerie: Agent Provocateur (DUH) has the most sexy pieces, they make you feel wonderful about yourself, however I would only wear their stuff to show off for my man. Their bras, corsets, bustiers etc. don’t give much support so if you’re just wearing them trying to run errands your boob may pop out of its cup lol! Very annoying to constantly keep having to tuck it back in under your shirt.
I have quite a large bust, so I shop at Journelle, Stella McCartney, Elle Macpherson, Nancymeyer.com and Chantelle because a lot of other nice brands don’t make my size as much (32DD/E) - these are for sexier but still functional pieces.
Calvin Klein and Victoria’s Secret for the most functional underwear. Hanky Panky has great one size fits most thongs, and Commando for underwear for a tight dress or something that gives NO VPL (visible panty lines!)
Shoes: Sneakers (for fashion, not the gym) - Golden Goose, Common Projects Sneakers (for the gym) - Nike Gianvito Rossi - The new Manolo in my opinion. Not as overdone and not flashy like Louboutins. Wonderfully classic. Something I’d wear to a dream job interview or meeting a boyfriend’s parents. Louboutins - even though they’re a bit trashy now I still love the sex appeal of a red bottom.. who can resist? Rochas does beautifully embellished flats that you can wear with a cocktail dress if you aren’t feeling heels! K. Jacques for flat sandals. Made in St. Tropez but they sell it on Shopbop etc. Chanel and Lanvin for ballet flats Love Stuart Weitzman’s highland and lowland boots, even though it seems like everyone and their mother owns a pair. They’re just so flattering and I love that they have them in so many neutral colors. I like Saint Laurent’s basic flat Chelsea ankle boots. Go with everything in the fall.
Dresses: Dolce & Gabbana - I LOVE Dolce & Gabbana!! As I said I am quite curvy, and their dresses are absolutely made for my body type. Cushnie et Ochs - Also sexy AF Giambattista Valli - When you want to look like an elegant, high fashion flower child Saint Laurent - SO expensive, more for the extremely thin Kate Moss types, but I just like to look anyways :) Less expensive but still great: Zimmermann (love Aussie clothing brands), Wheels&Dollbaby, Nicholas, L’Agent, Reformation, For Love & Lemons, Maje
Sweaters: Ralph Lauren, Loro Piana, Brunello Cucinelli J Crew, Joie, Vince and Everlane (cheaper)
Coats/Jackets: Maxmara for the elegant, most classic pieces EDIT 10/9/2016: Maxmara carries very well-cut and stylishly professional coats. Think Olivia Pope-esque. This is also where Kim K got her iconic camel wrap coat and yes, they still carry it. I have one! AllSaints for a great rocker chic leather biker jacket - try a mens one to increase the cool factor Rick Owens - Also great for leather jackets, but more elegant and definitely more expensive Chanel: Their tweed jackets and coats are ultimate and so timeless- wear one with a simple white t shirt, jeans and booties to achieve that Parisian je ne sais quoi. Yves Salomon does a great fur coat, EDIT 10/9/2016: that isn’t AS expensive as other top fur designers… think $5000-$10,000 which is still mega expensive but still far cheaper than J Mendel whose furs can fetch up to 60k (or even more)! and the quality is still great. I used to get Elizabeth and James furs for like a $1000 but tbh they looked cheap. I think if you can’t afford good fur, it’s best to spend on other areas, because cheap fur just makes you look, well, cheap!
Bags: Chanel. Duh. Never used to like Gucci but their new horsebit Dionysus bags (in plain suede without the Gucci logo) are to die for Valentino Rockstud (a little bit passé but I still like mine) Mansur Gavriel for something timeless and not too flashy Saint Laurent for a tote bag. If you’re young, in my opinion this is a much better alternative than an Hermes Birkin or Kelly. I think for a young girl to be carrying a Birkin is a little bit… much. Although if you have found an SD who will buy you a Birkin then I say the more power to you, you’re clearly doing much better than me and feel free to ignore my advice - if fact can I have your advice?? lol
EDIT OCT. 9, 2016:
Where do I shop? Great question - so. many. places.
Online (just google the names, I’m too lazy to hyperlink haha. Maybe another day):
Net-a-porter: love, and they do same-day courier delivery in NYC, London and Hong Kong Moda Operandi: swoon-worthy site. You can pre-order next season’s clothes custom made for you straight off the runway, and they show up at your door just in time for the season! You put a 50% deposit down when you place the order at first, and pay the rest a few months later when the clothing piece is completed. I trick myself into believing that it’s budgeting, lol. Farfetch Shopbop Revolve Clothing TheRealReal (You can get some GREAT designer pre-owned and vintage on the cheap here, AND sell your old designer stuff you don’t want anymore! Note they only accept from a preselected list of designers, check that your item’s brand is on the list before sending anything in to sell) Vestiaire Collective (same as theRealReal) Forward by Elyse Walker SSENSE TheOutNet (Net-a-porter’s sale site. I’ve found some fantastic deals here. But be sure to check everyday because they definitely sell out fast) Barneys, Saks, Selfridges, Bergdorfs etc. - I know these are department stores, but their websites are surprisingly well-maintained and carry a really good stock of stuff from top designers.
Sugar Baby Tip #10
How to Leave an Arrangement
Well this can be tricky, mostly depending on the situation. There are many reasons why you’d want, or have to leave an arrangement. Maybe you’re moving, or starting a career you need to focus on. Maybe they aren’t paying you enough, or you just don’t like seeing them anymore. Whatever the reason, it is valid. So I’m going to give you some advice.
•You are allowed to leave.
This is super important to realize, because I understand how arrangements can start to feel obligatory to uphold. However you are your own person, and you’re allowed to do what makes you happy and comfortable.
•Be up front.
No need to dance around the subject if it needs addressed. It can be hard to bring up, but no matter what, it still needs to happen. Here are some examples to get you started.
“So, I’ve had a lot of fun with you lately, and I owe it to you to be honest-”
“I would like to talk about the future of this arrangement-”
“You seem like a great guy, but there are somethings in my life right now that are going to make continuing our arrangement a little difficult.”
•It’s Okay to Lie
Wow, when do you ever hear that, right? But sugaring, especially out of your own home, can be dangerous, and if for any reason, you feel it would be unsafe to tell them the truth of the situation, I suggest you don’t. Here are some ideas.
“I was recently offered a job position that I am really excited about taking, however it would leave me with little to no time to continue our arrangement.”
“I have had a few close calls with family finding out about me sugaring, which would not end well, and unfortunately I think it’s best if we didn’t continue.”
“I plan on starting school soon and really need to focus on my classes and grades. My education is very important to me.”
You get the idea, and of course, these are just examples. You know your situation, and your daddy the best.
•It’s Okay to Tell the Truth
Im not trying to confuse you here. You know your arrangement better than anyone else. You know the character of your daddy and how he may respond to these things. If it’s genuinely because you have life things getting in the way, or maybe you’re trying to phase out of the sugaring community, or hell, you’re not getting enough money, and you think he would be open and understanding to the situation and discussion, then my all means, tell the truth. Honesty will be well received by a good man. No matter which route you decide to go, there is no wrong way, as long as it’s comfortable for you, and gets the end result you need.
•Be Apologetic.
Whether he deserves it or not, because the last thing you need is to piss off a man who knows where you live. The goal is to get him out of your life. Additionally, if your daddy is a genuinely good person, an apology might be appropriate. Examples.
“I am truly sorry, I know this is inconvenient for you.”
“I wish this wasn’t the case, and I apologize for the situation.
I don’t like apologizing to people who don’t deserve it, and I’m sure you don’t either, but I rather you seem sympathetic and be safe. Safe is the goal if you’re dealing with a bad daddy.
If he is a good daddy, he will be understanding and forgiving of the situation, no matter what it is.
•Make Things Clear
Does this mean he can’t text you anymore? What if he just wanted to grab lunch sometime? Are you interested in adjusting your arrangement to accommodate your reason for leaving?
Let’s say you’re moving, and that is the only reason you have to end things, because truly, the two of you get along quite well. Maybe you can set up a long distance arrangement.
Or maybe you became friends with him and he’s asking if he can check in once and awhile to see how you’re doing, but he wants to make sure you’re okay with that.
Just be clear on exactly what ending your arrangement means. Especially for bad daddies. Does this mean he can’t text you anymore? “Yes, I’m sorry, I think it’s best if we didn’t keep in touch.”
Be firm in what you want and and don’t want, and don’t be afraid to say it. Tactfully if necessary, but remember to say it.
•In Conclusion
Every situation is different and I hope I covered enough to help out in some. Be careful when dealing with bad daddies, please! Those sort of situations can get tricky. And as frustrating as it might get, please do your best to be safe.
Ending an arrangement can be stressful but once the taken care of I hope you have the chance to breathe and relax a little bit! 💕
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