Wahine WOW

Wahine=woman; WOW as in MOM upside down, going insane? Jus' joking, of course. WOW as in amazing and great, which, admit it, we all want to be. Life in Hawaii according to me, a wahine: mother, partner, daughter, sister, cousin, friend. You may relate or not. Read on if you want.

[adviceformefromme]

WHO WOULD YOU BE IF YOU GAVE YOURSELF PERMISSION…

Would you plump your lips, dye your hair, quit your job? Move to a new city? Sign up for luxury pilates studio? Spend weekends at Spa’s, exploring the country you live in? Would you book those flights to Rome & Greece? Would you start writing the book that’s haunting you? Would you post the content you’ve be wanting too on social media? Would you start speaking up in those moments you stop yourself? Would you live a totally different life if you gave yourself permission….

Often you think it’s resources, restrictions, circumstances,  time restraints, budgets, but the truth is it’s actually you. Let’s be honest here, you’ve not given yourself permission to live the life you desire. You’ve not given yourself permission to allocate your resources and time to the things that you actually love and care about. This is totally a YOU problem. 

You’ve accepted a life, subscribed to an existence that doesn’t match the life you desire, and with that comes resentment, bitterness, judgemental thoughts and feelings, ESPECIALLY towards those that are living how you could only dream of. You seek the news to soothe and match your low vibration energy, gossip to reinforce your lack of self focus, and excuses to enable justification for why you are where you are. 

The issue is not stuck. It’s permission. 

So how do you change this? It’s actually very simple….Start unsubscribing from the life that doesn’t match what you want for your life… Morning scrolls witnessing Rebecca from schools highlight reel. Unsubscribe. Those draining phone calls with your sister? Unsubscribe. The cheap gym that you secretly despise? Unsubscribe. Over-giving at your under paid job? Unsubscribe. 

And with this new space and energy, bit by bit you can give yourself permission to invest in the life that’s occupied your mind and vision board for way too long. BECOME the version of you that lives the life you could only dream of, show up as her, without restrictions, your mom is not stopping you, people judging you are not the reason you shouldn’t live fully. This is your ONE life. Go grab it by the balls and GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION. You deserve it, you are worthy, you are eligible for the upgrade, for the timeline shift, for the transformation. Just… give yourself permission.

I give myself permission to…… (say it out loud, say it with conviction, say it like you fucking mean it). 

Your future depend on how much you can give yourself permission. Acorn or oak tree. Take your pic. 

*The future does not exist and it’s only created by what you do today. You are creating your future in real-time, what’s ahead of you is based on how you move today, how much permission you give yourself opens the doors to new opportunities, new timelines, new frequencies. 

[adviceformefromme]

You want your next level? You better start showing up as her. Eating where she eats (even if it means ordering the small plate). Drinking matcha at the cute cafes she goes to, doing pilates in the boutique studio where she trains. Looking and feeling like SHE. You have to put in effort. This is you investing in your future. Energy responds to the feeling. You have to get into the feeling of your next level. Bring her to life. Imagine she’s been existing on your Pinterest board, and now bit by bit, day by day you inject life into her through the 3D. How you act, move, think and speak. All need to be a reflection of your future. It takes effort, it takes time to pour into yourself. But what is the alternative? Your future remains nothing but a lifeless dream? 

P.s. She does’t live in the self doubt, in the self-depreciating thoughts, no that’s how you kill her. 

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[theambitiouswoman]

If you lack discipline, you also lack:

Consistency Focus Progress Self control Confidence Time management Achievement Accountability Motivation Reliability Resilience Healthy habits Financial stability Structure Emotional regulation Work ethic Clarity Purpose

Discipline isn’t just about goals or career. It’s about you & the relationship you have with yourself.

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So relaxing and yet not so relaxing because I can’t seem to hold the camera steady. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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[contagiousgrace]

it's not that I need a quiet day or a day off exactly; it's that I need a pocket of time that exists entirely outside of linear time as we know it that would allow me to get things done without time passing in the real world, and frankly, I don't think that's too much to ask.

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So calming

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