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Ashlyn Harris: When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.
I will never not grin at:
- someone cocking their head when there’s a narratively fitting music change, quickly followed by someone else whispering “how does he do that?” - the moment of relief and cries of “motherfucker” when matt fakes them out on a trap. - Sam shouting “WHISPERS!?” whenever Matt gets up after a high Insight roll. - that anyone saying “This is awful!” is always, without fail, followed by Travis saying “I love it!” - when they use Matt’s full name as a callout. - “You can certainly try”
You can't hate your body into a shape you will love.
ive recently found out that in the 80s lesbians who were more interested in cuddles and kisses rather than sex were called bambi lesbians
it’s such a cute thing omg let’s bring this term back
the love ace lesbians found for this post warms my heart mind body and soul and spirit
reblog to make an ace lesbian feel happy
(Beauregard): I'm 50% intelligence, 80% power and 70% badass.
(Fjord): that's 200%
(Beauregard): I'm twice the man you'll ever be.
Hey, I just wanna say: Romance-favorable aros and arospecs are great! It’s totally ok to enjoy or want romance, or to experience occasional romantic attraction, or to participate in romance. You’re absolutely NOT any “less aro” for it, nor are you inherently contributing to amatonormativity or any bullshit like that.
There are NO requirements for how to behave or what to like or dislike as an aro, and arospec people are not any lesser than textbook aromantics. Anyone who says otherwise can eat a rock
Oh wait I can be aro but want a romantic relationship????
Yeah, of course!! There’s no rules about what aros can or cannot want. All it means is that you don’t, or rarely, experience romantic attraction. Whether or not you want romance is irrelevant.
This is an excellent post. Behaviour and attraction are different! Just like allos can choose not to date someone, aros can choose to date someone. Just like allos can be attracted to someone but not enjoy dating them, aros can have no attraction to someone but still enjoy dating them.
Y’all are valid.
Identities are meant to help you describe your experience, but they aren’t meant to dictate your choices. Do what’s best for yourself and your own happiness.
Robot!Liam: Taliesin, my friend. At a time when I knew many fascinating people, you were easily the most fascinating of all. Somehow a heart knocked around by the industry that birthed you came out a tender one. I was richer for having known you. Thank you, friend.
Ash-O-Lee, my friend. I never met a person quite like you. There is an openness and an honesty to your soul. The very real sense of humanity you brought to every encounter, it was inspiring to me. Always learning, always humble, you always struck me as intricately layered, yet you offered friendship with ease and simplicity. I was richer for having known you, friend.
Travis, my friend. You were always a solid constant in my life. Of all the people in our little family, you were always the one who most had his shit together, in ways that I never seemed to. You were a reassuring presence to me, for which I was grateful, and for your loyalty, as well. I was richer for having known you, friend.
Marisha, my friend. Last to meet, but true as any other. You were my ally at a time when I had fallen by the side of the road. You saw, and helped me back on my feet. I will never forget that kindness. The good you did was immeasurable. I was richer for having known you, friend.
Laura, my friend. Bless that game for revealing to me my sister. What started as a running gag led to one of the most rewarding friendships in my short little life. I trusted you, leaned on you often. My buddy. My twin. There are not enough words. I was richer for having known you, friend.
Sam, my friend. What is there to say? I knew we were meant to walk the same path together the very first moment I met you. A companion, a brother, a great light in my life. All of the laughter you gave me–again, words are insufficient. I was richer for having known you, friend.
Matthew, my friend. You gave so much of yourself. The current of creativity that poured forth from your mind was always an inspiration to us all, but more than that, your empathy, Matthew. Your empathy. No heart is bigger or more tireless. You are a good man. I was richer for having known you, friend.
Thank you all. It was ever a pleasure.
He gave this entire speech sounding like a speak n’ spell, the absolute madman! Like it’s hard enough being earnest and open with people you love, but to do it, while vocalizing like that was insane.
~Expositor Beauregard~
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(Second comic for Ace Awareness Week) AAW day 2 - about my process of discovering I was ace.
(See first comic for general info about asexuality here)
So my best friend’s younger cousin (who I’ve known since they were like 4 - about 15 years) came out as trans today - on FB at least. I am so unbelievably proud of them. Not sure if they older members of the family are aware yet. I think they’ll all be supportive, but I’ll be ready to throw down against anyone at the next family event if there’s anything said that’s not complete love and support for this kid.
“She was so young when I first went to PSG. I always told my mom if the only reason I went to PSG was just to be around this kid and encourage her, it was worth it.”
-Tobin Heath
We can’t wait to meet our little girl! 🐶
IG: ashlynharris24 // 10.14.19
Ashlyn Harris: tattoos appreciation post.
I'm having an emotional breakdown. This has been going for 10 years and now everyone can see it. Just love.
Oh buzzfeed. We've known about this one a loooong time before 2019 😂
Source : buzzfeed 11.10.19
I was going to start a side blog for these random ramblings - as for the most part it’s not specific to my random interests and things I reblog. But in an effort to feel more comfortable in myself both physically and mentally I’ve returned to the gym (got thrown off for a while with an ankle injury), and to make myself a little more accountable to that I’m gonna blog about it.
Some backstory in why I want to do this I guess. My confidence generally is pretty high, at work I will 100% tell you how amazing I am. My style screams ‘look at me I’m gay’ like 90% of the time and that’s exactly how I like it, I welcome anyone to tell me I’m wrong in doing so - I’ll tell them where to go. But I lack any form of confidence in relationships - I think I’ve got some ingrained weird het views of relationships and sex. So this asexual thing has thrown all that for a loop. Especially since I’ll always be one of the first to laugh at a dirty joke or be making one. There’s just a small part of me that questions if I’m not interested in sex in a relationship then what’s going to keep someone around - I mean who wants to keep an overweight gay around when they can’t/won’t even have sex with you? (my thoughts about myself and certainly not what I actually think about anyone else). Look I COMPLETELY understand how wrong that statement is without question, but it’s just that niggling thought that wont really leave fully - no matter what logic says.
So yeah that’s it body confidence is what I need to help be the best me emotionally.
Day 1 - 13/10/2019
Super pumped to actually be going again - weirdly inspired by getting into watching the soccer again (not so weird really - there are a couple plays who have massively inspired me - but that’s another thing). Glad I’ve got supportive people I live with, both my best friend and her bf are members of the gym - which is a blessing and a curse (easy to just go nah we’ll go tomorrow).
Usually we go late enough at night there’s no one there, which I love - biggest thing that stops me going is the perceived feelings of judgement. But first night back we were not so lucky, only one other person, so not too bad - but he was LOUD. Guess I need to remember my headphones next time.
Decent first session we were there over an hour, my ankle still doesn’t like doing things too hard - guess I should probably still be strapping it and maybe going to physio like the doc suggested - but I’m the type of person that unless I’m dying everything’s all good.
Back to a vegan/vegetarian diet again - I really don’t mind this, my friend makes a whole lot of really good vegan foods. The crappy shift times we work though make it all kinda hard. Setting up a proper plan for my days/weeks though because I’ll also be going back to study again soon and since it’s online study I will need some solid organisation.
Gym session: done
Meal plan: not quite vegan/vegetarian (yet)
Study: planning started
Movistar TV commercial inspired in Christiane Endler’s story and influence in Chilean society and girls.