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I have something meaningful Iâd like to talk to you about sis. Is it okay if I send you a private message?
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âRappers only talk about their money, cars, and clothes!â
Why might someone from a group of people that historically have been denied access to wealth, now brag that they have it?
âRappers only talk about sex!â
Why might someone from a group that have historically been denied sexual autonomy now brag about their sexual escapades on their own terms?
âRappers only talk about drugs and crime!â
Why might someone from a group that historically have been denied the more legal means to acquire wealth and had drugs forced on their community talk about their experiences with it?
also I don't think parents "these days" are uniquely terrible, I just think neglect is showing up in new ways as technology progresses. today's ipad kid would've been wandering around in a ditch alone all day and night before. parents not wanting to have to deal with children is not a new phenomenon.
i do wish the response to the ai water usage concern debate (umm actually the water and mineral usage is roughly equivalent to all of our other constantly growing massive distributed information systems that require enormous amounts of resource extraction etc etc etc) was less of a "haha checkmate luddites" and more of a "hmm maybe we should reevaluate our usage of constantly growing massive distributed information systems that require enormous amounts of resource extraction" but idk
the bad thing about having unhealthy habits due to mental illness, is when you DO do something healthy style you can't brag about about it because then people will then know you've been doing it yucky style all along. Like you can't brag you changed your sheets or brushed your teeth because then ppl will be like oh did you not brush your teeth regularly before? Thats yucky disgusting! So you just gotta keep it to yourself. And be proud alone, I suppose.
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the worst part of summer is that people get sooo comfortable expressing their disgust at having to see other peopleâs bodies. theyâre always complaining about wrinkly old men at the nude hot springs or fat women in bikinis at the beach. I hate that shit. if youâre not capable of being normal about bodies you personally donât find attractive, just turn your head to look at something else! and if youâre not smart enough to do that, then at least do the rest of us the courtesy of suffering in silence, because we donât wanna hear your weird comments. thanks.
My darling, You havenât written for ages. You havenât written for ages. You haven't written for ages. My darling... 28 June 1926 Letters to VĂ©ra by Vladimir Nabokov
Cypris (Aphrodite) (c. 1883) by Guillaume Dubufe, (French, 1853 â 1909), signed âG. Dubufe filsâ (lower left), oil on canvas, 13 1/2 by 22 in. (56 by 34 cm.), Private Collection
I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal senseâ it is behavior that causes social harm.
I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.
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A little old lady today reminded me that I need to take advantage of this one life I have and go live it in full without waiting for the âperfectâ moment, without shrinking myself for the comfort of others, and without assuming there will always be more time
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âGo out and do something. It isnât your room thatâs a prison, itâs yourself.â
â Sylvia Plath
Eye of the Devil (1966)