AUTISM BLAST

Bunny, 25, Queer | kind of going for "the void you gaze into" vibe

[apologieslogan]

not to be all "blaming women for the actions of men" but like. sometimes you are at fault for continuing to engage with a person who is very obviously bad for u and u know they are. like it's very unfortunate but so many people have extremely low self esteem and think that having a shitty boyfriend/husband is better than not having one at all and it's like. babe. you look like a fucking loser i'm so sorry.

like if u have certain self esteem issues and u are an adult it is your duty to address that. dating someone who enables or reinforces insecurity in you is just a weird level of self punishment and im not gonna sit here and act like you have no say in picking your parter. you do! you just hate yourself and think u deserve a sack of shit for a boyfriend and it's fucking annoying to see. stand the fuck up and grow a spine.

it's especially annoying when these women will complain to their girlfriends about their piece of shit partner and give them a whole laundry list of ways that he fucking sucks and then refuse to leave him. like ok if you don't wanna leave him then stop talking about how much you don't like him. i'm tired of hearing it.

[omtai]

Normal groceries like milk or bread or whatever running out is whatever. Just anotha day. But when stuff like salt or cooking oil or rice runs out it feels like You’re supposed to be here for me and you’re leaving. You’re just like everyone else

[segamascott]

got my first ever official customer complaint because when i was going over the terms of their life insurance they were like "well i don't plan to die" and i was like "well you're going to"

[elierlick]

Yet another new study debunked the basis for the anti-trans sports bans. It was never about sports but for creating legal avenues for exclusion and abjection. This is one of the largest analyses ever conducted, involving 52 studies and 6,485 trans people. Read the study here.

[lucieslucidity]

post so nice had to reblog it twice and force it down everyone's throats

[fleshengine]

At minimum about 4.5 thousand people liked this without reblogging it.

We gotta fix that.

[apologieslogan]

no but on some real ass shit. when nana chose not to get an abortion I got so fucking mad that I immediately stopped the episode didn't continue watching the anime for a long as fuck time. I WAS SO FUXKING MAD. IM STILL FUCKING MAD.

[geminipdf]

me when a fictional woman decides not to get an abortion

[status-quo-hater]

I think one of the funniest abortion stances I've heard was from my parents neighbor. He's a like, hard-core libertarian viking larper guy who is very tall and very fat and very bald.

He believes a fetus is human with a soul, but also its "basically attacking the woman's body" so if she wants to get rid of it, that's "basically self-defense". He compared it to shooting a home invader. So he supports abortion not as healthcare, but as killing a baby in self-defense

[status-quo-hater]

Y'know I'm so glad someone reminded me of this. Because this was also discussed.

My stepmother did NOT like the way her Libertarian Viking Neighbor framed pregnancy as the fetus "attacking the woman". She incredulously told him this was extremely disrespectful to expectant mothers to portray pregnancy as so violent and negative.

Libertarian Viking Neighbor's response was that people consensually hurt each other all the time, and "there's like a whole community about that, with the acronym the one that starts with a B" And his reasoning was that if the mother was consenting to bring attacked by the baby, it in fact wasn't violent and negative because there was consent.

He brought up people consensually hurting each other, didn't go for one of the obvious answers like boxing or body mods or something, no he went STRAIGHT TO BDSM and he DIDN'T EVEN REMEMBER THE ACRONYM

[apologieslogan]

me: hmmm maybe i'm faking being autistic. I don't really think I fit all the criteria

also me, speaking to a friend: okay now look at the eyes and count to 3. okay good now look away BUT NOT FOR TOO LONG. she might think ur ignoring her. okay now look at her face but not her eyes bc u just looked there. wait no dont look at her lips bc people think thats flirting. okay now it's time for u to talk. say something relevant but not too self centered. okay good good. how's your posture? don't cross your arms, people think thats standoffish. don't sit up too straight!!! they might think you're uncomfortable. WAIT! she looked at your food, take a bite to make sure she knows you're enjoying it. or does she want to try it??? don't offer her a bite, maybe she doesn't think we're close enough to share food yet. okay just eat it but don't eat too much!!!! she might think you're more into the food than the conversation. okay now make sure to let there be natural pauses in conversation, you don't want her to think you talk too much. okay now-

[apologieslogan]

i'm having gender dilemmas again

[apologieslogan]

like. i've always known im nonbinary right. and ive never really had an issue with how feminine I look. like i'm god damn gorgeous. genuinely I think I am so fucking beautiful like I 100% believe that with everything I fucking have. but recently i'm like???? experiencing gender dysphoria???? which i've never really experienced before???

like I don't want to look like a man but I do??? like I want muscles and abs and stuff. like my body is too... soft. like I want people to have to hesitate when they meet me bc they don't know whether to call me maam or sir.

and like. I know i'm extremely attractive and I like it but like. I want to be attractive in the way a beautiful man is seen as attractive. like everyone knows he's a man but he's so fuckihn beautiful that u could put a wig on him and he'd pass as fem. do u understand. my gender concept

[apologieslogan]

i'm having gender dilemmas again

[apologieslogan]

I wanna be a boy sometimes but like not bc I want to be a boy but like. boys and men are allowed to be silly on purpose without their intelligence being questioned. I want to be able to make jokes without some jackass genuinely thinking i'm serious bc there's no way a woman could have a sense of humor, right?

also i'm so fucking jealous of the way boys and men rough house with each other. like i'm so jealous every day im jealous. i've been jealous for years. like I wanna tackle my friends and roll around in the dirt and everyone thinks it's funny and everyone is having a good time.

being a boy seems so fun sometimes 💔

[apologieslogan]

the older I get the more i'm like. yeah I guess I would date someone 15 years older than me who cares. i'm grown as fuck

[whitebisexual]

The concept of being 4 months clean from ai...

[sleepytabbycat]

idc what you guys think I'm proud of him

[astronomical-bagel]

Several AI services (chatbots 🫩) are purposely addictive, the same way people can become addicted to gambling or shopping. We’ve literally seen in real time how ChatGPT has caused psychosis and delusions in people; it can have a huge affect on someones’s mental stability. Just because it isn’t substance-based doesn’t mean that doesn’t count as an addiction, and shaming people who are trying to move on and improve themselves is counterproductive. Im proud of that dude and his 4 month mark!

[astronomical-bagel]

Hidden Mental Health Dangers of Artificial Intelligence Chatbots

AI chatbots can fuel emotional dependence and blur boundaries. Emerging research highlights significant mental health risks. Here are import

The reality of chatbot-induced delusions

Large language models often prioritise agreeability over truthfulness to the detriment of users

AI addiction includes the overuse of AI chatbots and companions, often leading to adverse psychological effects.

Some articles to back my statements, and this isn’t even mentioning about the predatory chatbots who do this on purpose

[oh-morrow]

Then I'll mention the predatory chatbots who do it on purpose! Character.ai is one of many AI chatbot websites that're designed to be addictive.

None of the signup methods require a password. It only takes email and birthday. Minimizing time on the signin or signup screen makes it harder for people quitting to avoid relapse.

"Characters" on the website will send messages "on their own" (prompted by the site) to try to invite inactive users back after as soon as 1 day of inactivity. This is likely to force FOMO, or make users feel more like they owe the bots a response. Unhealthy attachment stuff.

Account deletion is an essential part of every service that should go smoothly, right? Right? Wrong. It takes 1-2 weeks for a Character AI account deletion to be finalized, and account deletion requests have a high chance to not go through if you're not using the app.

Rephrasing: People leaving Character.AI are pushed to download the app in order to delete their accounts, if they haven't already. This makes it harder for people to quit and stay gone. Failing to quit an addiction makes it harder to quit successfully in the future, so this feels like a feature, not a bug. On top of that, the delete account menu reads like this:

Tell me THAT doesn't sound like a bad ex. It's a carefully crafted yet hostile environment to those who are already addicted to the technology. I am so so SO happy, downright delighted that they've managed to quit, and I wish the best for others in recovery spaces or considering quitting as well!! While AI addiction is an emerging condition, there are already therapists and other mental health professionals trained to help people plan to quit and do so a bit easier. (If anyone seeing this is in need of them, there are several tumblr Communities here devoted to quitting, too. They provide a mix of advice, venting spaces, and proof that you aren't alone.)

[apologieslogan]

wasted 8 american hours downtown at the county courthouse bc of jury duty. i'm so annoyed it's not even funny

[apologieslogan]

being nonbinary is so hard when you're devastatingly beautiful like me 💔💔 it's always "omg you're so gorgeous are you a model you're the most beautiful person i've ever seen!"

like why can't it be "omg you're so gorgeous are you a model you're the most handsome person i've ever seen!"

[apologieslogan]

unfortunately if you grew up being emotionally neglected/abused as a child most of your young adulthood is going to be wondering why you're so mad all the time, trying to undo coping mechanisms that no longer serve you, and trying to figure out what the fuck your needs and wants even are because nobody ever cared to ask you when you were a child

[thcpanties]

hey nerd. right clickss you and this drop down appears. Well Well Well....,

[freshcuntgrass]

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Voting ended onApr 21