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you can call me paz

20, transmasc butch lesbian, he/she, 🇲🇽🇺🇸 (mixed)

biochem & ecology major.. currently working as a student entomologist 🪲

art may be freely used so long as this account is credited

#art for art LOL

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black trans children deserve safe and kind places to grow up

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just you wait, dude. just you wait

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Daymn...🌧🚬

ur-favorite-fishgirl

im gonna be so honest if you are talking to somebody who suffers from delusions or obsessive thoughts and they say "by the way my brain is trying to get me to think this, but i know its not true and illogical" and doesnt Specificaly ask you to confirm reality for them, if you respond with "Actualy ☝️ your delusion/obsessive thought Isnt True, you shouldnt think that" i have the legal authority to punch you

ur-favorite-fishgirl

like ok guide for neurotypical people on how to know what to say to somebody with delusions/strong obsessive thoughts:

friend with delusions walks up to them and is talking about how "everybody hates them and wants them dead because they did the dishes wrong": DONT tell them that what they are saying isnt true. instead, calmly talk to them, comfort them, and reasure them that you are there for them. ask for more clarification on what they believe is happening, but without telling them it isnt real. say things like "that sounds really scary" or "im sorry youre going through that". do not tell them or even imply that you do not believe them. your most important job is helping them stay calm, stable, and feeling safe.

friend comes up to you and says "Hey im having delusions/obsessive thoughts that XYZ, can you reasure me they arent true": THIS is where you can tell them that the thoughts arent true, but try to avoid phrasing it as if you think they are stupid or crazy. remain sympathetic

friend is talking to you and says "hey man im having delusions/obsessive thoughts about XYZ lol. i mean obviously it isnt true and i dont believe it, but i trust you enough to tell you this as an annecdote": just sorta nod your head and at most say "oh wow that sucks". dont do anything more. dont fucking do it. if you do i will hit you.

obviously different people will have different wants/needs but this is a good general baseline. if your friend says something different to you, go with what they say for them.

ur-favorite-fishgirl

im gonna be so honest if you are talking to somebody who suffers from delusions or obsessive thoughts and they say "by the way my brain is trying to get me to think this, but i know its not true and illogical" and doesnt Specificaly ask you to confirm reality for them, if you respond with "Actualy ☝️ your delusion/obsessive thought Isnt True, you shouldnt think that" i have the legal authority to punch you

#its already kinda of internally demeaning and embarrassing to deal with them alone #extending an olive branch to someone and trying to share a discomfort but not wanting necessarily to be talked to #or treated like a therapy patient abt it #and being essentially slapped in the face just really sucks

ok im alive im just on art fight

#thoughts #thats what most of my art has been between work bc i love my friends and i wanna do a mass attack on younger/beginner artists #SORRY!!!!!#im still daarin brained i’ve just also been held at gunpoint by art fight #my af handle is @lesbianblast if anybody wants to know #yes my profile is very cutesy. dont mention it to me #im allowed to be a cute butch