No, Adam Martin was not innocent, or the infantilization of male characters in media
When we think of Adam Martin, we tend to feel bad for the poor dude. I mean, it must really suck to be him. Having an affair with a hot celebrity, only for the celebrity to tweak out and stab you after she blames you for blackmail?
Must really suck to be a guy sometimes? Am I right boys?
Adam may be innocent of blackmail, but that just makes his actions all the more terrifying. And it reveals a double standard and the societal expectations of babying men who do awful things
I already gave Jeff his whackings, so Adam was next on my chopping list.
Adam is a pretty normal guy, he was probably around his mid-thirties (35-36), and one thing that’s pretty important is that around the time the Yellowjackets are rescued, he is in his early teenage years.
Why is this important? Well I’m glad you asked. In universe, the Yellowjackets return from the wilderness was made National news, and they were celebrities in their own right, and given the nature of the media in the late 90’s and early 2000’s and the fact that Shauna’s wedding announcement is found by a quick search of her name, they probably were the talk of the country for at least a good decade or so
Obviously, Natalie and Tai were probably on the news more often, but you get the picture.
Around that time, and in the years afterwards Adam and other guys his age were probably drooling over the girls. I mean come on? Hot girls who are national celebrities? Holy smokes!
And even if he didn’t know at the time, he sure would find out soon enough.
As we start this, I want to point out something important, when we are trying to understand a character, you need to put yourself in their shoes, so let’s do that
Imagine you are Adam, and you got rear ended by someone. This someone proceeds to insult you, and blame you for causing the accident. You exchange information, and the lady doesn’t show up. You have her name on your arm, and it sounds kinda familiar, so you search it up.
You quickly realize you just got rear ended by a national celebrity. Well, to be fair, she was famous for living in the Canadian Wilderness for nearly two years. And the worst part? Nobody even knows how they survived, or what they ate.
It is popularly assumed they may have resorted to cannibalism
What do you do now? Do you
b) Thank God that she didn’t eat you?
c) Call her up again and ask why she didn’t show up?
If you chose option C, then you are unthinkably screwed
Why he is doing all this is weird given the fact that your first and only impression of this woman is of her insulting you. You are also aware that she has a husband and daughter as well. Every single sign is yelling to not engage further.
Next thing you know, she’s at a hotel pretending to be homeland security to get into a hotel room. And he decides to involve himself once again
My brother, let me hold your hands when I say this, but that is none of your business.
Even if you give him the benefit of the doubt and prefer to believe that he ended up here by accident, it’s still weird to involve yourself in a strangers life like this.
And next thing you know, she’s telling him that her husband is cheating on her, now what should you do? Do you:
a) Give your condolences and move on with your life?
b) Fake an excuse and get the hell out?
c) Go upstairs and have sex with her?
I guess we know which one he chose.
This is clearly weird as hell. From his perspective a really hot lady who he has met twice was getting cheated on, and his decision is to become a home wrecker instead.
We’re talking about Adam here, don’t change the subject
Let’s go over what he knows about Shauna, ok?
a) She was a victim of a plane crash that killed her friends back in highschool
b) She is married and has a daughter
c) Her husband has been cheating on her
d) She is hard to get along with
e) She might have eaten human flesh
f) She impersonates homeland security
Does any of this yell let’s have sex?
Any decent person would offer their condolences and advise them against doing something stupid.
Adam isn’t doing any of this for blackmail, he’s doing it because he’s horny.
The way he views Shauna is also important, because it gives us a lot more context. He doesn’t know Shauna at all, he knows a celebrity, a mysterious sexy lady with secrets that she has not revealed to anyone. He is obsessed with having her, learning her secrets.
It’s his way of feeding his ego, believing that he can get Shauna to reveal secrets that she has never told anyone, that he can get her to leave her husband and daughter for him.
The way he acts when Shauna sees Callie says it all
My brother, this is embarrassing 🙈, know your place 😭
The way he’s acting, you’d think they had this affair for ten years or something and Shauna promised to leave her family for him
This is like the 4th date?
“If you guys need a ride” Read the room my dude 😭, stop setting yourself up like this
This also makes this scene look even worse with that context
Firstly, yes Shauna has her issues, but this guy has entirely lost all sense of boundaries in this scene.
Firstly, yes, edging someone isn’t nice, but going to their house, where their daughter and husband live, is clearly an inappropriate move. Secondly, you are the affair partner, and you have been with her, for what two weeks? Know your place 💀.
It’s 4 in the morning, she is tired, and she is busy, show some basic human decency and leave her alone when she says to go
Thirdly, even if he’s right about Shauna’s issues, he has absolutely no right to be doing all this, after she told him to go home, more than once. She has laid a boundary. No means no, “not try again”, not whine about your relationship status. He feels like he is losing control, and he doesn’t like it. Shauna is entirely correct
Manhandling a woman outside her own house 😬. Yeah, not looking good for you buddy. Again, to clarify, we as the audience might know, that Shauna can fight back, but Adam does not know that.
What would’ve happened if Shauna continued to refuse? Would he have insulted her some more? Held her down?
“If you wanted me to do that, you wouldn’t have texted me”
Instead of showcasing basic human decency and the rules of consent, he tramples them, and shames her, calling her the narcissist
Again, let me remind you, he doesn’t know much about her, but you know what he does know? He knows that she is a victim of a plane crash, has a daughter that she had to take care of, has a life outside of him, and that she was afraid to hurt him during consensual sex.
His pictures of her are not done out of love or genuine affection, they’re done from a much more possessive type of love. He feels entitled to her secrets and her time and her attention to a scary extent
This is every woman’s nightmare come to life, and just because Shauna gave in, doesn’t make it okay, it doesn’t change the fact that this is a violation of her boundaries or that he outright intimidated and insulted her into sex.
Luckily for him, she gave in, instead of fighting, feeding his ego and making him believe that he was in control again. Hell, he even gets to sleep in her bed!
Then she shows up to his house, afraid that he was lying about personal information, you would think that he would have realized that this woman was somewhat unhinged, but he most likely enjoyed this because it meant that she was invested in him, that he was again in control. He got to play supportive boyfriend
Callie was right, he did want to take advantage of her, but he didn’t want to share it with the world, he wanted to keep her all to himself.
He had an inflated sense of importance to the point that he most likely believed that she would leave her husband and daughter for him.
And that leads us to his death. He is finally caught off guard and realizes he is out of his depth. (Idk dude, I think there were a lot of things you might ignored but okay)
I do think he simply saw himself as more powerful than her because she was a woman, a housewife, and he was da man!
His miscalculation costs his life, and Shauna is left with the mess.
The point I was trying to make here is the fandoms reception to his character. He is not the only homewrecker in the series, but he is treated like a poor, innocent victim of crazy Shauna, when he is a grown-ass man who put himself in this situation so he could have a celebrity to himself
And I found it interesting how Shauna who was half his age when she homewrecked a high school relationship on a popsicle stick foundation, and is treated like a demon, while Adam who was twice her age gets to be the innocent blorbo
Again, just like Jeff, he really is just a bad person and an entitled man. His behavior is seen as normal because we are so used to men behaving like this that we have internalized it in the way we think. Adam’s entitlement would probably be seen as normal by other dude bros because “the bitch started it by edging him” “Shauna was the one with the family” but when Shauna’s the homewrecker, Jeff is but a horny teenager, powerless to temptation
Which is honestly aggravating but not surprising, given the situation we face as women nowadays.
It’s funny how Shauna is the crazy one, but Jeff and Adam are the normal ones, even though their actions are more terrifying than Shauna’s.
Yeah Shauna can skin someone, but at least she can tell that she is crazy and can cause harm, but Jeff and Adam genuinely believe that they are normal and completely justified and innocent and the fandom falls for it