Pride Events
Hey so I know Pride month is over but there’s still lots of events and parades going on in different cities so I figure this post is still worth making. I just thought I’d offer a short list of tips for people attending these events to improve the experience for everyone:
- While these events are normally very safe, people of all genders and sexualities have the potential to be scummy, so try not to feel pressured into doing anything you aren’t comfortable with, and make sure to keep an eye on your friends
- Similarly, watch your drinks - avoid accepting open drinks from strangers / untrustworthy sources (in case they’ve been drugged). It’s hot so you’ll need to stay hydrated, but just make sure it’s with drinks you trust
- Be aware that certain homophobic groups may present themselves, and you may need to distance yourself from them, but they are unlikely to be actively physically violent
- Don’t be an asshole and start conflict with people showing pride in identities you’ve decided don’t belong there - this deserves to be a safe and accepting space for everyone celebrating it (with obvious exceptions, like pedophiles etc., though you’d be unlikely to encounter anyone openly representing those groups)
- CisHet allies are welcome at Pride - they are there to celebrate and show support for the Pride movement, and don’t need to be met with hostility
- Take note of all the different groups being represented, like queer POC, queer people of different religions, queer people with disabilities etc. - try to appreciate how diverse the queer community is and how these intersections present unique obstacles to these different groups. Opening your mind to these things can do a world of good for creating a more progressive community
In short: be safe, be kind, and have fun x















