a doll and her tumblr 🎀

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[perriaeyjeve]

[sorrrowfull]

[kurxmi-dxll-deactivated20260517]

I’m really into devotion and adoration actually

[wetheurban]

Let people misunderstand you, let people miss you, let people be wrong about you. Your peace is not dependent on their accuracy.

[perriaeyjeve]

[venussunsett]

i love being present, i love sinking deeper into the moment, i love eye contact that lingers enough to catch a feeling, i love curiosity, i love consideration, i love fluidity, i love dropping into my body that i witness someone relax into theirs, i love pauses & random silences that absorb a question or a moment, i loveeee feeling their eyes move with my gestures peripherally, i love eagerness and I LOVE

[stuckinapril]

I’m always reminded without fail that intimacy that’s not earned crumbles so fast

[werenotreallystrangers]

a lot of your suffering comes from treating your nature like a problem to manage instead of a design to understand

[isl-equ-ay]

[theambitiouswoman]

The more you limit yourself for others the less they will think of you

When you keep shrinking yourself to make other people comfortable, you unintentionally teach them that your needs, your voice, and your boundaries are optional. People don’t value what you don’t protect because you’ve shown them there’s no cost to overlooking you

At first, it feels like you’re being kind. But eventually, it creates an imbalance. You give more, tolerate more, and expect less and people adjust to that version of you

Respect tends to grow where there are clear edges. When you’re honest about what you want, what you won’t accept, and who you are, people may not always like it, but they understand you. And that understanding is what respect is built on

There’s a difference between being considerate and being self erasing. The moment you stop editing yourself to be more acceptable is usually the moment people start taking you more seriously

[isl-equ-ay]

[stuckinapril]

[isl-equ-ay]

moya

[stuckinapril]

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

[theambitiouswoman]

Your brain doesn’t get tired from doing things, it gets tired from resisting things. When you’re doing nothing your mind starts overthinking and carrying the weight of all the things you’re avoiding. That’s why you feel so tired. It burns more mental energy than simply taking action

Do the thing

[theambitiouswoman]

I want to add to this that the less you do, the more your brain starts to question your ability to do anything at all. Inaction slowly chips away at your confidence because you’re no longer proving to yourself that you can handle things. This is also true when someone else is doing everything for you like a partner or a parent. Momentum creates evidence. When you stop moving, that evidence disappears, and doubt fills the space. Over time, even simple tasks start to feel heavier than they actually are because you’ve trained your mind to hesitate instead of act

Avoidance creates doubt, and doubt creates more avoidance. The only way out is action, even in small doses

[wetheurban]

You have life. You have music. You have nature. You have your lungs. You have your heartbeat. You have your smile. You have a roof over your head. You have people who love you. You have hard-earned wisdom. You have people you inspire. You have growth to be proud of. You have sunlight. You have the chance to try again. You have a beautiful future. You have time.

[loveletters2myself]

forget a hot girl summer. i want a slow mama summer. long days outside, sun-kissed skin, fresh squeezed lemonade, heart-warming giggles & sticky little fingers. i just want to make the kind of memories that feel like a hug. the type i will want to relive in years to come.