Which RFA family is yours?-RFA family head cannons
Donāt forgetā¦Your true route is the person you fell in love with the most xx
(This post has taken me such a long time to finish so I hope you guys like it!)
Song that represents your love best:Ā āI do adoreā- Mindy Gledhill
You have one son with Yoosung.Ā
Max is six and incredibly inquisitive. He will never stop asking questions on how things work or why they work. He probably loves to talk more than anything else. But heās the sweetest, kindest, most adorable little angel on the planet and you would do anything for him. Yes heās a tiny bit spoilt but whoās asking? Heās happy to help carry the groceries and clean the flat with you guys as long as you all sing a song and make it into a game.
He loves games and butterflies, and youāll often find him drawing yellow butterflies with his crayons. Otherwise heās hunting for PokĆ©mon around the flat. You guys couldnāt afford a house just yet, but a lovely little apartment in the city a bus ride away from Yoosungās clinic suits you all just fine.
Yoosung struggles with fatherhood at first, panicking and worrying over everythingā¦but he gradually learns how to keep calm, and he and Max develop a really sweet bond together. Youāll often find them both playing games together after dinner or kicking a football around in the street. Max gets to learn all about animals with his dad and during show and tell at pre school he tells everyone that he wants to be a vet just like daddy. You have a little butterfly cage/habitat in the living room where Max can watch caterpillars grow into butterflies and set them free out the window when theyāre ready to leave.
On your days off, you take Max to the park or go to the zoo together. Life is always a magical adventure with him, and his smile is what keeps you and Yoosung going in the tough moments.
You and Yoosung are the young couple who are definitely can be like big kids yourselves. Youāll absolutely join Max on the bouncy castle or partake in his lets pretend scenarios. This has led a lot of people to patronise you and not take you guys seriously sometimes, but you always take people by surprise and show how serious you can be. When a kid at Maxā s birthday party gets sick and all the other kids start crying, you and Yoosung take charge and distract all the kids whilst the other parents panic.
Yoosung has grown a lot as a person, and you couldnāt ask for a better role model for your son. Sometimes he still struggles with his grief with Rika, but after therapy he manages to gradually move on and see the light in the patches of darkness that remain. He wants to make sure that Max is protected from everything that Rika struggled with, and goes to every length to help Maxās emotional and mental well being.Ā
If you ever need help or require a babysitter for date nights, the RFA is just a phone call away. Especially Zen.Ā Zen is Uncle Zenny to Max, and when you and Yoosung want a movie night, heāll happily step in and be Maxās guardian for the night. One day you guys came home to him teaching Max how to sing and your heart definitely exploded with joy and cuteness.Ā
Uncle Seven is also at the ready to be the perfect babysitter, but you often find Max more hyperactive and giggly than when you first leftā¦..
Despite the chaos and the silly moments, you guys do just fine. Itās never easy being a parent, but you guys always find ways to laugh and smile.Ā
Song that represents your love the best:Ā āFly me to the moonā- Annapantsu cover
You adopted four year old twin girls with Jaehee.Ā
Their parents both died in a terrible car accident and they had no other family to take care of them, so the girls were put into care.Ā
You adore your little girls so much, but there are many obstacles when it comes to helping them settle and trust. Yuna hasnāt yet accepted that her parents are gone and flies into grief stricken tantrums and crying fits, insisting that you both arenāt her mommies. Luna cries when her sister cries, but all she wants is someone to hold her tight and never let go. Sometimes it all breaks your heart, but Jaehee always manages to keep control and stays strong when things get difficult. Every tantrum, every crying fitā¦sheās there and she knows exactly what to do. Sheās the perfect mother, and sometimes you can only stare at her in awe.
Eventually things get easier.Ā
The coffee shop is a dream come true and customers flock to the shop. You have a little apartment above the shop so its easy to take care of the girls and come down to the store to check on Jaehee. When the girls are a bit older and more settled, they come down shyly to see what mommy is up to.Ā The customers canāt help but coo and aww over how adorable the twins are in their matching outfits and pigtails.
Luna is fascinated by the singer that comes to the place on Friday evenings for her weekly gig. Jaehee whispers to her always that Luna could do that one day too if she really wanted to. Nothing is going to stop this mom from telling her baby girl that she can be whatever she wants to be, and that her dreams are precious. Yuna saw firefighters in a cartoon once and has decided that sheās going to be a fairy princess firefighter. And you agree that this is probably the best career choice possible.
You adopt a puppy and the girls name him Bobby. Weekends are spent taking Bobby to the dog park and teaching the girls how to make themed coffee drinks. Your favourite thing to do is watch Disney movies with Jaehee and your girls. The girls sing all the songs as loud as they can, and put crowns and glittery wigs on Jaehee whilst she pretends to know the words too.Ā
(MC, I donāt know how many times I can cope with singingĀ ālet it goā again this weekend. Can we persuade them to try a different one?)
You and Jaehee as a couple are cautious and reserved on the surface. The other PTA parents probably think that you guys are extremely well put together and organised. couple goals honestly. But you guys are still learning a lot. (Youāre just very good actors with great business attire.)Ā And behind doors youāre the most affectionate bubbly parents there could ever be. And low key hardcore extremely protective of your two angels.Ā
Life isnāt always easy, but youāre happy and thatās all you could ever ask for.
Song that represents your love the best: āAll of my lifeā- Park Won
You have a son with Jumin; Jin-woo, (five years old) and a little girl on the way. (you guys are still thinking of names)
Jin is the spitting image of his papa, but heās got your eyes; which means on good days he can pretty much ask for anything he wants. Heās smart, academic and analytical. He also has your emotional intelligence, and you like to think that his silly sense of humour comes from you as well.
Thereās talk of him being taught to be the next CEO in line, but you want Jin to figure out what he wants to do in life before anything is decided for him. (It could be baby number 2 that takes the company, who knows what the future holds?) Jin seems to want to do everything that his papa does, but heās taken an interest in all things to do with films and the making of them. Jumin got permission to take him to a few movie sets after he picked up on this, and Jin was excited about it for a long time afterwards.
Jumin still struggles expressing his emotions sometimes, and he can be quite firm when he needs to be; a look from him is enough for Jin to quiet down and realise thatās enough. But overall Jumin is a big softie. Heās the kind of dad that doesnāt always says how he feels, but shows it through his actions. He would rather spend all day building lego airplanes with Jin than go to work, and Jin absolutely hero worships him.Ā Also obviously heās protective AF. When Jin was born, nobody was even allowed to touch him. (except you and himself of course) That particular phase took a while to get over.
The sight that makes you happiest in the world, is seeing your husband newly arrived home, still in his suit on the floor with Jin, partaking in JināsĀ ālets pretendā scenerios as seriously and logically as possible.
(āDad we need to jump out the helicopters now!ā
āBut we donāt have parachutes, how are we going to get to the ground safely?ā
āWe have jet packs, pa!ā
āI donāt remember this, when did the secret agency give us jet packs?ā
āMama gave them to us. She wanted us to be home early.ā
āahā¦..Of course she did.ā)
You get another cat to give Elizabeth some company in the penthouse. A black Persian cat this time. You name him Phillip, and the two kitties are obsessed with each other immediately. When they both have kittens, Jin says that he wants to keep one.Ā
You and Jumin are the analytical, meticulous couple that definitely rely on sarcasm and dry humour, and who are absolutely crazy about each other. Think Low-key Morticia and Gomez.Ā Also youāre undoubtedly the best dressed power couple of the century. Youāre the couple who would probably gush about each other and their child at any given opportunity. Your lives are extremely busy, what with Jumin taking steps to take over the company from his father and you being the successful career woman that you are. But youāve cut down your hours to look after Jin when heās not at school. If you guys ever need anyone to baby sit, V always tries to make himself available and help out. Of course thereās always your friends and family, but Jumin trusts Jihyun more than anybody else. You originally asked Zen to babysit, but the cat problem made it impossible for him to even enter the penthouse.Ā
The penthouse is no longer a lonely space, but a home filled with pictures of family holidays, birthdays and happy occasions. No matter what happens, you know that Jumin would protect you all until the end of time. Youāre there for him, heās there for youā¦and you will both always be there for your children.
Song that represents your love the best:Ā āFalling like the starsā- James Arthur
You have a little girl with Zen called Alice.
She has silver hair and eyes as big as saucers, just like her papa.
Sheās so overdramatic its hilarious. Sheās a little girl with attitude, but sheād give you her last sweet if you asked her. Zen thinks she definitely has promise as an actress/singer, and he loves doing silly karaoke nights with her at home. You and Zen always cheer and clap for her as loudly as you can. But you both know that Alice always has her own ideas and plans in mind, and sheās always ready to take charge and tell you whatās up. The sass is real. Sometimes you joke that she could be a high powered business woman as well as the pop sceneās next big diva.Ā
Zen always calls her his little princess, or hisĀ āboss baby.ā Heās an amazing dad, and is always ready to tell her stories. Being the wonderful actor that he is, heād give different voices to the characters and act out their parts. Taking care of her perfectly comes naturally to him, but he has difficulty with how protective and anxious he can be. Imagine when sheās old enough to date, oh god
Luckily youāre always there to sooth him when his anxiety gets too high and he becomes a drama queen.
After Zenās career took off, he splashed out on a gorgeous house for the both of you. You guys live in a gated community due to Zenās popularity and the threat of stalkerish fans, but the neighbours are thankfully very nice and respectful of your privacy, even more so when Alice is born.
Ā Zen was reluctant to take jobs that were further away from his princessesā at first, choosing to be the star in a musical K-drama that was closer to home when Alice was still very small. But when Alice started getting bigger you encouraged him to go further and seek his dreams in higher places. So he accepted.
You guys do facetimes and skype calls when heās away, and he usually calls you guys just before heās about to go to bed. The first time he was away from Alice and she saidĀ āhi daddy!ā When she saw him on the video chat, he had to hold back every impulse not to burst into tears.
Zen wanted to have faith that you guys would be protected when heās not home. Obviously he knows you can handle yourself, but he brings back a beautiful white huskie to be a guard dog when heās gone, and you and Alice name him Mishka. The expectation was that Mishka would be calm and coolā¦ What Zen didnāt realise is that huskies are the biggest babies possible. Mishka is definitely bratty and cries when itās bath time, when its time to leave the dog parkā¦.actually he cries at anything. But you still have hope that if the opportunity would ever arise heād protect you guys. Just so long as biscuits and petting come immediately afterwards.
Seven and Yoosung come over to babysit sometimes when you and Zen want to do date nights, although Zen admits that he would prefer to ask Jaehee if she didnāt have so much work. Seven and Yoosung are definitely two kids in adults bodiesā¦
Your favourite thing to do is to waltz with your husband, and bring Alice into the dance. The three of you twirling around the room to your favourite songs is the definition of bliss.
Youāre definitely the melodramatic couple who cry at k-dramas and express love and affection as loudly and boldly as you can. Probably the parents at the kids recital that yellĀ āyouāre doing amazing, baby!ā Super embarrassing but absolutely adorable.
If there is one thing Zen wants Alice to rememberā¦its to take chances. To never be afraid of failure and be brave when life gets hard. Because Zen knows that he can be brave with you and Alice by his sideā¦.always.
Song that represents your love the best:Ā ālove changes everythingā- Ruelle
You werenāt able to have children for a while due to the uncertainty of Saeyoungās world and Saeranās recovery. But eventually you are all able to live a peaceful life.Ā Orā¦.as peaceful as it could be with Saeyoung as your husband.
The bunker is given a makeover to be more of a brighter, happier place. Also no more messĀ
Saeyoung spares no expense of course.
Its only after Saeyoung and Saeranās biological father dies that the threat on their lives is lifted.
And when the time finally came, you obviously end up with twins. A boy and a girl;Ā Shin and Soojin. They are both mischievous, funny and cunning; playing pranks and causing all kinds of silly shenanigans. Itās therefore very appropriate that their papa is a toy maker, and that the twins make his shop their personal playground. Shin has already decided that he wants to be an engineer and Soojin wants to make video games.Ā
For a while youāre all worried about the kidsā safety. You make the difficult choice to home school them for the first few years until you and Saeyoung are sure that the twins can both be safe at school. Theyāre social butterflies so you have nothing to worry about in that sense.
And Saeyoung loves being a dad.
He was worried that he wouldnāt know what to do after his abusive childhood, but he keeps his head high and holds aĀ āfake the confidence until you have itā kind of attitude. And eventually he is confident. Heāll wrestle with them, cook their breakfast before school, comfort them when theyāre sadā¦.and always knows what joke to tell at the dinner table to get them both giggling. The most wonderful sound in the world to you is hearing him chase the kids up and down the bunker corridors when heās finished work. You can hear all three of them laughing and making ridiculous noises at the top of their lungs.
You and Saeyoung are probably the funniest couple in the friend group. Nobody is bigger meme lords than you two. But you guys can flip the switch realllll quick. Donāt mess with an angry Saeyoung at a parentās evening. Ā
Saeran keeps his distance from them both most of the time and is generally quite quiet. But heāll always play with the kids whenever they ask him to, and heāll watch kids films for hours with them. There is never a birthday or an occasion missed, heāll always be aloof and pretend he doesnāt care, but heās an impeccable uncle in his own way.
Uncle Yoosung comes over to babysit sometimes when you and Saeyoung have a date night, but he can only cope with so much before the twins successfully make him go bonkers. Luckily he can distract them with playing Super Smash Bro matches.
Vanderwood comes by often as heās now Saeyoungās business partner (getting Saeyoungās inventions patented and sold for mega $$$). He acts like the entire affair is a waste of his time, but you can see how thrilled and happy he is to no longer be at the agency and seems to be doing what he enjoys. He doesnāt seem to mind the kids much, and takes secret pleasure in partaking in any pranks that are targeted towards Saeyoung. You like having him over, heās kind of a breath of fresh air and always makes you all laugh during movie nights.
Finally Saeyoung has the life he always dreamed of. And nothing can stop your happiness now.
Song that represents your love the best:Ā āCanāt take my eyes off of youā -Joseph Vincent
You both agreed to wait until Saeran had finished his therapy before considering an official relationship together. Mental health recovery for both of you was more important than anything else. Without recovery, the future was too unstable.
Saran was diagnosed with post traumatic stress and DID.Ā
A lot of care and consideration was needed, and Saeran despaired for a long time over whether his disorders meant that he would be an unsuitable parent in the future. But eventually he began to understand that there were others out there just like him who had gone on to have loving families and wonderful marriages with their partners.Ā
His past didnāt have to define his future, and he would take gentle steps every day to recover.Ā
You guys live in a little cottage on the outskirts of the city. Far away from noise and crowdsā¦Ā
Thereās a lot of space for a flower garden, and all around there are trees and birds. Youāve never seen Saeran look this relaxed.Ā
After eight years together, you both have a little girl named Rosie. She has adorable red hair like her dad and the happiest little smile youāve ever seen. Before you know it, sheās seven years old.Ā
She seems to already be quite independent, but sheās also a rather reserved child. Preferring to read a book or draw rather than spend time with other kids. Her uncle Saeyoung thinks sheāll definitely be another geniusā¦she seems to already have the drive and ambition for it.Ā
Saeran is extremely protective of both of you. Insisting on being the one to take her to school and pick her up at the end of the day. After a difficult day at pre school thereās always a trip to the ice cream shop waiting for her.
You were both worried that it would take a while to explain Saeranās alter Ray to Rosie, but with guidance from therapists, Rosie gets it pretty quickly. When other children ask her about her parents, she saysĀ āI have a mommy and two daddys!āĀ
Ray loves spending time with her. Heās usually the one to come out when its play time; heāll always bring flowers to her to make her smile and attend her tea partiesā¦whilst Saeran is usually the one that prepares her breakfast or puts her to bed. But she loves them both equally.
There are still sometimes bad days with Saeranā¦.he still struggles with flashbacks and sometimes he argues with Rayā¦getting jealous of his alter spending time with you. To make the burdens easier to bear, an emotional support dog is arranged for him and you go to more therapy as well. The dog is a shibi inu called Moon. When it all gets too hard, Moon is the one thing that always helps Saeran calm down, and heās always down to cuddle or make silly faces with his goofy tongue sticking out.Ā
Youāre a very private, introverted couple who prefer minimal company, but your arms are always open wide to those who need you. You are surrounded with endless support from the RFA. Today might not be the best day, but tomorrow will be easierā¦and its all about taking one step at a time. Each and every day is beautiful and worthwhile.
Song that represents your love the best:Ā āYou are hereā -Lee Hyun
With Jihyun, you have a little girl named Abigail.Ā
It took a little time before you guys felt comfortable with the idea of getting married. Your relationship was all about taking things slow and doing things naturally. It was essential after everything youād both been through.
But three years after your wedding, Abigail arrives.
V bought a new home by the beachā¦his old house had too many sad memories, But with this place, you are both washed anew, and your summers are filled with laughter, sea salt and long sandy walks together. At eight years old, Abigail is clever, daring and adventurous, but sheās also sweet and artistic like her papa. She loves to bake cakes, specifically chocolate chip muffins.Ā This place by the sea is the perfect place for her to grow up.
V cannot stop taking pictures of her no matter the occasion. He doesnāt want to miss a single moment of her childhood. And when it comes to every school performance, every parentās evening and every homework sessionā¦heās always there, quietly listening and trying his best for her at all times. His support and love for her is unlimited.Ā
Heās always afraid and still a little insecure that heās not doing enough, but all it takes is for Abi to run into arms and hug him tight for his smile to come back. You always tell him that heās a wonderful husband to you and the perfect father to your baby. Heās much better at keeping calm than you can even comprehend. Whenever anything stressful comes up or people are causing problems, Jihyun approaches the situation calmly and carefully, softly and politely fixing things whenever and wherever its necessary. It doesnāt matter how many dates you both go on, or even if youāre eating a meal at home, he always pushes yours and Abiās chairs into the table and when he says grace, he doesnāt thank God, he thanks you guys for what you both did to make him happy and grateful that day.Ā Closest thing to an angel istg
When Abi asks for a pet, you all go to the shelter where Jihyun points out a group of adorable white bunnies. Abi picks the smallest and shyest rabbit in the pen, and calls him Oreo. He spends a lot of time hopping around the garden and following Abi around the house. Jihyun helps Abigail teach Oreo tricks, and for family occasions and parties, Oreo is the delight of everyone.Ā
For your collective careers, you and Jihyun spend a lot of time in the art world, attending art galleries and performances together. So Uncle Jumin is one the first points of call when you and V are going to be away for a while. Although Jumin might seem chilly on the surface, he adores spoiling his god daughter. And Abi always has fun staying at the penthouse. (And you also know for a fact that there could be no where safer than Juminās place.)
You and V are the quiet, introspective couple. Youāre not really the types to crave a spotlight and prefer your lives to be private and peaceful. Youād probably prefer a Netflix night or a painting session at the beach than huge parties and social gatherings. But youāre always ready to step out your comfort zones for Abigail.Ā
Jihyun hopes that his little girl never looses her passion and delight in Baking. And he hopes that the greatest lesson he can teach her is to love herself and to believe in all her dreams.Ā
Which route is your true route?
