FareWellTheAshtrayGirl

Random acts of support, as expressed by a lesbian, feminist, author, veteran, kinkster, and activist. Ravenclaw-Sherlock-Whovian-Trekker-Jedi. My life is complicated, but it is mine to enjoy.

[womxxn-blog-deactivated20160930]

We went to this burger place for lunch (turned out to be a drag bar which was shitty in other ways) but the walls were papered with rolling stones covers and it just really becomes obvious when you see lots of magazine covers next to each other that men are treated as people and women are treated as objects.

[harlequin-dreams]

THIS PROVES MY POINT SO HARD IT SMASHES YOU IN THE TEETH

[voldesnorts]

GOSH DARN IT I HOPE YOU FEEL THE SLAP IN YOUR FACE

[funeral-keeps-us-apart-deactiva]

[dolliecrave]

Pass this on Tumblr

[drakewinzz]

This is actually pretty important

[addictivepers0nality]

very important information

[jazminbunninsfw]

This needs to be seen more. Rape needs to flat out stop, but until then victims need to know there’s support for them.

[firewhisky]

Dark Arts exhibit, WB Studio Tour

[gifmethat]

So you know what I don’t get? Why people repeat words. (x)

[hyperboreanhapocanthosaurus]

Grammar time: it’s called “contrastive reduplication,” and it’s a form of intensification that is relatively common. Finnish does a very similar thing, and others use near-reduplication (rhyme-based) to intensify, like Hungarian (pici ‘tiny’, ici-pici ‘very tiny’).

Even the typologically-distant group of Bantu languages utilize reduplication in a strikingly similar fashion with nouns: Kinande oku-gulu ‘leg’, oku-gulu-gulu ‘a REAL leg’ (Downing 2001, includes more with verbal reduplication as well).

I suppose the difficult aspect of English reduplication is not through this particular type, but the fact that it utilizes many other types of reduplication: baby talk (choo-choo, no-no), rhyming (teeny-weeny, super-duper), and the ever-famous “shm” reduplication: fancy-schmancy (a way of denying the claim that something is fancy).

screams my professor was trying to find an example of reduplication so the next class he came back and said “I FOUND REDUPLICATION IN ENGLISH” and then he said “Milk milk” and everyone was just “what?” and he said “you know when you go to a coffee shop and they ask if you want soy milk and you say ‘no i want milk milk’” and everyone just had this collective sigh of understanding.

[allthingslinguistic]

Another name for this particular construction is contrastive focus reduplication, and there’s a famous linguistics paper about it which is commonly known as the Salad Salad Paper. You know, because if you want to make it clear that you’re not talking about pasta salad or potato salad, you might call it “salad salad”. The repetition indicates that you’re intending the most prototypical meaning of the word, like green salad or cow’s milk, even though other things can be considered types of salad or milk. 

[crewdlydrawn-deactivated2022072]

Can I make love to this post?… Is that a thing that’s possible?

[vghm-deactivated20160515]

“A culture fixated on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty, it is an obsession about female obedience. Dieting is the most potent political sedative in women’s history.”

Naomi Wolf (via funeral)

[britteryikes]

This is terrifying.

[skressed-deactivated20160306]

this is so fucking disgusting smh

[quickweaves]

My god I have never seen something so terrifying in my entire life

[jdinthetrees]

And people say racism doesn’t exist, smh.

[2manytuesdays-deactivated201910]

I am actually shaking. I can’t believe people would do something so horrible to another human being. Why would you break a window and the then use a taser on a man who was not a threat to you in any way? And people always find a way to justify these hate crimes. “Well he should’ve just gotten out of the vehicle” yeah, I’m sure you’d feel safe if an officer pulled a gun on you saying that he’s not going to hurt you. “Well he reached into his bag” …for his information, which he’d willingly given to the officers already. Everyday I’m more afraid to go outside. I honestly hope they were all okay. This family didn’t deserve to go through that unnecessary trauma. Those kids are going to grow up with so much fear. I am so disgusted.

[millika]

Who’s Alex?

Billboard demonstrating gender stereotypes as most people automatically assume that Alex is the boy.

[spacemaester]

kick ass

[queeringfeministreality]

Baller.

[chickkyyychickk]

I am not an easy person to love. Some days I will whisper how beautiful you are while planting gentle kisses all over your body. You will giggle and try to fight me off and in that moment my heart will have never felt so light. But other days when my mind is a storm cloud threatening to explode, I will be a bundle of emotions that I cannot quite keep contained. I will be cold, distant, and you will look at me like I am not the same person you fell in love with. I am a broken light switch. My moods flicker without anyone flipping me on and off. I wake up each morning and wonder which me you will encounter that day. I always hope it is the one who makes you want to stick around. I am not easy to love. But what I need you to understand is that whether there is a war raging inside of my mind or I am the kind person that you adore, I will always love you. I will love you in the morning. I will love you when you cry. I will love you when I am angry. I will love you when you’re being stubborn. I will love you when I don’t even love myself. I will love you. I know that there will be days when you want to give up on me but I am asking you, please don’t. You see, you are the only one who has been able to settle the storm inside of me before I even realize it is surfacing. I am not easy to love but I promise that I will always put up a fight. And I will love you no matter which me my light switch flips on that day.

(via i-cant-escape-my-mind)

[noquietrevolution-deactivated20]

When I was little, I asked my pastor if Judas had been in love with Jesus. He sent me back to my mother early, with a note for her to explain “things.” But no matter what anyone said, I couldn’t be convinced that the Bible was anything less than a love story. (I kissed your cheek in front of them all and in doing so, I think that I damned the both of us. You, to be left crucified and bleeding and paying for my sins. Me, to be left wandering and wanting and never to see your face again.)

K. Wright, Judas  (via chazeatsbrains)

[yourheartvsmyheart-deactivated2]

Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the pool. She'll scream and fight you, but secretly, she'll love it. Hold her hand while you talk. Hold her hand when you drive. Just hold her hand. Tell her she looks pretty. Look her in the eyes when you talk to her. Protect her. Tell her stupid jokes. Tickle her, even when she says stop. When she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Get her mad, then kiss her. Tease her and let her tease you back. Kiss her on the cheek. Kiss her on the forehead. Just kiss her. Let her wear your clothes. Go slow. Don't push anything. When you fall in love with her, tell her.

[ftyani]

[blunt]

following back tons!

[born-t0-lose]

We Came As Romans - To Move On Is To Grow

[actuallyvady]

A limerick:

Doesn’t look like a limerick to you? Try this:

A dozen, a gross, and a score Plus three times the square root of four Divided by seven Plus five times eleven Is nine squared and not a bit more.

[toothlessrebel]

THE FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCCCKKKKKKK

[hedonist--poet-deactivated20240]

If you were in a different body, would you have the same personality?

(via suspend)

[listentothestories]

[gold-kushkloudz]

[stilldefending]

Mom you can stop stressing Mom you can stop crying Mom I can buy the groceries Mom I can pay for the house Mom I can give you whatever the fuck you need money

[thelifeofelrey]

Exactly

[peace-love-n-ganja]

Me too.

[edgysedgwick-deactivated2015010]

Why do men play with your clit like they’re trying to rub a stain off of a shirt?

[umokbye]

praying for straight girls