This was… sort of a shock to read as, someone who is/was a victim of Emily’s behavior and volatile actions - she had me under the impression she could not use tumblr, amidst the chaos of being her friend when she was dealing with being called out for her abhorrent behavior back in August thru October. SO seeing this come across my dashboard needless to say was a surprise that she somehow magically now has access to tumblr.
I’ve spoken about Emily/skydragondive (as she is known on twitter) multiple times on my own twitter as she has victimized dozens upon dozens people, across, at last count, 7 different servers. When I was her friend, she obfuscated the truth, made it out that she was a victim of stalking and hurt myself, friends I already had, and friends I made through her. At the time I knew her, there was no proof of her behaving inappropriately with minors but one came forward, under anonymity to share their story which you can read >here< in this thread.
She is, among other things, transphobic, loosely homophobic in her depictions of male NPC characters with stereotypes and refuses criticism by claiming she is a proud fujoshi and claiming she cannot possibly be homophobic because she is pan. She love-bombed, made me her mouthpiece, and I regret ever enabling this person (and I can admit to that freely - I enabled her and did not take a closer look at the accusations and that is my cross to bear.) When I decided to stand up for myself even marginally, she flipped the script, and immediately began to switch to the next phase of abuse after lovebombing - gaslighting and demeaning, and diminishing my feelings.
(https://imgur.com/IMkhYFm imgur link for large view sorry about that.)
She then blocked me after “K cool” and sent me this message on twitter after which she blocked me:
I’ve asked multiple people if I said, or did something wrong in my initial message. Did I? Was I too harsh? Should I have just stayed silent? Should I have just kept my mouth shout?
But they, and myself, realize that no. This is a pattern of behavior, that despite her speaking on the subject matter that adults should talk things out, she would rather flip the script, gaslight, and attack and then not even give the other person a chance to respond because she desires the control of having the person beg for her approval back. I know this because she blocked a friend for something minor (they shouted something about Haurchefant in shout chat, and when asked what they did wrong- were given a block versus any sort of answer.) and when I asked them what was up and if they could speak to the person in question, I was given this response:
Their “fuck-up” was saying something about Haurchefant in shout chat, and Emily did not care that her callous and cruel behavior without explanation caused this person severe anxiety and panic. In fact, she blamed them.
I have more, that I could say. I don’t like being involved in call outs personally, and to be honest, I was hoping to take a step back at the recommendation of a many of my friends of speaking out about her on twitter though her victims are numerous and many of them have come to me commiserate. But I saw this come across my dashboard and the fact she has come to tumblr which:
(The ‘she’ in question was her supposed stalker, who is in reality - a conglomeration of all her past victims rolled into a convenient “stalker”) But the point of this screenshot is: just another one of her many lies to me.
I’m going to end it here, I may turn off anon, I am not sure, but if people have questions they are free to ask me. I do have more screenshots of her erratic behavior, screenshots of her overtly sexual behavior towards others without their consent (sometimes even my own), among other things. I do ask you not harass anyone who may or may not be friends with her. Part of the reason she was able to manipulate myself and my friends for so long is because we were harassed as her friends, and it allowed her to further victimize herself and us, and keep us in line and ‘together’ in it with her.
thank you for reading this mess xoxo.