Leveling Up At Work - One on Ones
These days I often think about the advice I wish that senior devs had given me when I was a junior. It often doesn't take much to nudge a ship in the right direction, just a little bit of wisdom applied at an opportune time. I thought I would try a bit of a series on these - practical advice for advancing in a career. Today, I'll write about the one-on-one meetings with my boss.
As a junior, I didn't really understand the point of one-on-one meetings with my boss. I felt a little uncomfortable in them, and I mostly just talked about what my current tasks were. In retrospect, this was a mistake - the one-on-one meeting with my boss is actually my time to discuss what I wanted to do with my career - which areas I wanted to grow, how I wanted to advance, which talent tree I wanted to go down, and so on. A good boss will listen to what it is you're aiming to do in your career during this time, and work with you to build a plan for how to get there.
At my current employer, there are two major career paths - individual contributors (junior, mid-level, senior, expert/staff, principal) who become subject-matter experts, and managers (lead, director, etc.) who are in charge of devs who report to them. There's a really big difference between dreaming of "being a senior dev someday" and actually having a concrete plan to get there. My boss helped me reach where I am by listening to what I wanted to do, and then giving me tasks in my day-to-day that helped build experience for the role I wanted. As an example, I told my boss that I wanted to grow into a leadership role and he agreed. As a result of our one-on-ones, he started letting me run some of our team meetings and attend some of the other leadership meetings. He also started delegating some of his lead responsibilities to me when he was out of office. If you want to advance in your career, this is how you get the specifics - ask your boss what you need to do and ask for help getting the kind of tasks to earn you the experience you need to level up.
The one-on-one is also my time to get feedback on how I'm performing and how to improve myself. We all have our annual performance reviews and those tend to be uncomfortable for sure. It's better to ask for feedback at my regular one-on-one so I can try to improve and do better. It's a lot easier going into a performance review knowing I'm doing well because I've been regularly verifying it with my boss at our one-on-ones. Be clear about it too - tell your boss that you want to get promoted, that you want to level up, and that you want to work toward your goals. A good boss will listen and help you with a practical plan to get there. Do it regularly! I try to have a one-on-one with my reports and my boss once every two weeks. It's ok if we're busy and we have to cancel a meeting here and there, but it's good to build team rapport, morale, and to help the junior devs get where they want to be.
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