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a blog to post asks lists and other ask bait!

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[askboxfiller]

🌈 Pride Month Ask List! 🌈

When did you first realise you might not be straight and/or cis?

Was there a specific person, character, or moment that helped you understand your identity?

Have you ever accidentally outed yourself?

Have you ever had a crush on someone before you understood what the feeling actually was?

What's a Pride Month tradition you'd like to start?

If you could give one piece of advice to your younger self about your identity, what would it be?

What's a stereotype about your identity that annoys you the most?

Have you ever mistaken admiration for attraction, or attraction for admiration?

What's the most unexpectedly affirming thing someone has ever said to you?

If you could instantly erase one common misconception about queer people, what would it be?

What's something small that makes you feel gender euphoria?

Have you ever changed labels, or chosen not to use one at all? What was that journey like?

What's a piece of queer media that means a lot to you?

What's something about your identity that took you a long time to accept?

Have you ever had a Pride Month that was particularly memorable, for better or worse?

What's the weirdest question someone has asked you about being queer?

Is there a flag, symbol, or piece of pride memorabilia that has special meaning to you?

If you could redo your first coming out, would you change anything? If you haven't come out yet, what would your perfect coming out look like?

Who was the first person you came out to, if you've come out at all?

What's something you wish more people understood about questioning their identity?

What's a moment when you felt especially proud of who you are?

Are there any queer celebrities who inspire you?

Have you ever helped someone else feel more comfortable with their identity?

What's something you hope the next generation of queer people won't have to worry about?

If you could send one message to every queer person reading this, what would it be?

[askboxfiller]

💞 Friends, Family, Flings - Asks About Relationships! 💞

What's the fastest you've ever become attached to someone romantically?

Have you ever stayed in a romantic relationship longer than you should have? Why?

What's one thing an ex taught you that still affects how you love people now?

What's the most ridiculous argument you've ever had with a romantic partner?

Have you ever fallen for someone you absolutely shouldn't have?

Who was your very first real friend, and what made them important to you?

What's the worst betrayal you've experienced from a friend?

Which friend knows you better than anyone else?

Have you ever intentionally ended a friendship without explaining why?

What's something you'd only trust a close friend with?

Which family member are you the most similar to, whether you like it or not?

What's a family tradition or memory that means a lot to you?

Have you ever disappointed someone in your family in a way that still sticks with you?

Which family relationship in your life is the most complicated?

What's something you wish a parent or guardian had understood about you sooner?

Have you ever developed feelings for someone who only saw you as a friend?

What's the most meaningful act of loyalty someone’s ever shown you?

Is there anyone you miss even though they're still technically in your life?

What kind of relationship do you personally struggle with the most: romantic, platonic, familial, professional, or something else? Why?

What's the hardest goodbye you've ever had with someone you cared about?

Have you ever looked up to someone like an older sibling or mentor figure?

What's the strangest friendship you've ever had - the kind nobody expected?

Have you ever felt replaced in a relationship of any kind?

What's one relationship you wish you could repair if given the chance?

What's the biggest difference between how you act around friends versus family versus romantic partners?

[askboxfiller]

❤ Fill My Askbox! #1 ❤

What's a habit you have that you don't even notice anymore, but everyone else would notice?

What's the most irrational fear you have?

What's your most treasured possession, and why?

What's the meanest thing you've ever said while angry?

What's a compliment that's stuck with you?

If you could erase one memory completely, would you? Which one?

What's something you secretly wish people would ask you about more often?

What's your worst cooking disaster?

What's a trait you inherited from your parents that you hate admitting you have?

What's the most childish thing you still do regularly?

Have you ever ruined a friendship? What happened?

What's your biggest "I can’t believe nobody noticed" moment?

What's a smell that instantly brings back memories for you?

What's your go-to comfort food after a terrible day?

When was the last time you cried in front of someone?

What's the weirdest lie you've ever told to get out of something?

What's your most embarrassing injury story?

What's something people assume about you that’s completely wrong?

Have you ever had a moment where you genuinely thought you were going to die?

What's your most useless talent?

What's a moment from your childhood that still affects you today?

If your life had a soundtrack, what song would play during your worst moment?

What's the pettiest grudge you've ever held?

What's something you pretend not to care about, but actually care about a lot?

What's your "this seemed like a good idea at the time" story?

Have you ever been jealous of someone close to you?

What's the worst gift you’ve ever received?

What's a secret you kept for someone else that stressed you out?

What's your favourite physical feature about yourself?

What's the most awkward misunderstanding you’ve ever been part of?

What's one thing you wish you were better at expressing?

Have you ever had your heart broken? What did it feel like?

What's the strangest dream you can still vividly remember?

What's a small act of kindness you never forgot?

What's your worst habit when you're stressed?

If someone searched your room right now, what's the weirdest thing they'd find?

What's a memory that always makes you laugh no matter how bad your mood is?

What's your biggest "I should’ve listened" moment?

What's something you've never apologised for, but probably should?

What kind of person instantly gets on your nerves?

What's the closest you've ever come to quitting something important?

What's a scar, physical or emotional, with a story behind it?

What's your worst "caught at the wrong time" moment?

What's a tradition or ritual you secretly love?

What's something you did once and immediately regretted?

What's the longest you’ve ever stayed awake, and why?

What's a completely harmless thing that embarrasses you anyway?

What's one memory you'd relive exactly as it happened if you could?

What's the hardest thing you've ever had to admit to yourself?

Share a fact about yourself that you haven't shared before!

[mimble-sparklepudding]

Another Short Ask List About Love.

Does your OC believe in love at first sight? Have they ever been proven wrong about this in the past? Or did they once mistake mere sexual attraction for the stirrings of the heart?

Is your OC considered a sex symbol in their society or beyond? If so, then how do they feel about this? If not then would they like to be?

How does your OC feel about public displays of affection? Are they intensely private, with not even a furtive glance between them and their significant other when out in the world? Or would they be entirely unable to keep their hands off their beloved, even with a full audience?

Has your OC ever been separated from someone they love for an extended period? How did this affect their relationship? What (if anything) did they do to keep their connection alive during this time?

Does your OC ever read (or watch) romances? How much has their attitude and approach to relationships been affected by their exposure to romantic literature or other art?

To what extent does your OC need to feel like an equal in a relationship? Would they be content – or even aroused – by a power imbalance in terms of wealth, intellect or beauty?

Has your OC ever broken someone’s heart? Did they realise at the time that they had? Did they care?

If someone wished to seduce your OC then what approach would give them the best chance of success?

Has your OC ever feigned romantic feelings in order to manipulate or exploit another person? What was their motivation?

Would your OC remain in a relationship if sexual contact was no longer part of the equation – perhaps because a partner fell sick or suffered a serious injury?

Has your OC ever been given a token of someone’s love that they keep with them always? Do they wear or display it openly? Or do they keep it hidden from others?

What time of year does your OC consider to be the most romantic? Does it depend on where in the world they are?

Has your OC ever had a serious crush on another person? Did they ever share this with anyone else? Did anything ever come of it?

Does your OC enjoy it when others are obviously attracted to their lover or spouse? Perhaps they take pride in having a beautiful partner – or perhaps they find the situation somewhat exciting? Or are they ferociously jealous and possessive of their beloved at all times?

How would your OC prepare for a romantic evening? Do they have any particular rituals or ablutions that they always perform? Would they dress in a particular way to show themselves off to their best advantage?

[the-scribbling-renfairy]

Questions For Your Characters To Get To Know Them Better!

What’s their most expensive hobby?

What’s their cheapest hobby?

How has the idea of their dream career changed over the years since childhood to present day?

Why do they want their current dream career?

Which birthday is their favorite? Why?

How good are they at keeping secrets?

How many secrets do they have?

What are those secrets?

When did they realize their sexuality/gender identity?

What was their favorite vacation destination?

What genre does your character think they’d be in?

What is your character’s thoughts on marriage? Bonus points if fantasy world and marriage works differently than our world!

What’s your character’s biggest fear?

Does your character have any phobias? Which ones?

How does your character act while drunk?

What’s something your character has always wanted to see?

What are some things that your character does when alone but has a hard time doing when around other people?

What’s the default pose your character goes for when someone asks them to pose for a photo?

How frequent do they do their laundry? Why do they do it that frequently/seldomly?

What are three embarrassing childhood moments of the character?

What are three embarrassing adulthood moments of the character (if they’re old enough for it)?

What was/is the character’s relationship with their grandparents?

What’s your character’s most controversial opinion?

What about your character’s most vanilla opinion?

What’s your character’s least favorite texture of clothing?

What’s a habit your character picked up from another character?

What’s their hair care routine?

What’s their skincare routine?

What’s a joke they’ll always repeat because it never gets old to them?

How often do they drink water?

[sonarthebat]

20 OC questions:

1. What is their biggest regret?

2. What is their dream?

3. What is their greatest fear?

4. What was their most embarrassing experience?

5. What is their trauma?

6. How did their get their scars, if any?

7. What would they die for?

8. What was their upbringing like?

9. What will they never do again?

10. What were their first words?

11. Who was their first love?

12. What would they choose to be their last meal?

13. What is their darkest secret?

14. What are their vices?

15. What do they try to avoid like the plague?

16. What is their most prized possession?

17. What makes them smile?

18. What was their most painful experience?

19. Do they have any medical conditions?

20. What are they insecure about?

[mimble-sparklepudding]

A Short Ask List About Love.

Does your OC have any difficulty distinguishing between love and lust?

Is your OC at all romantic themselves? Or is romance something they expect others to perform for their benefit?

What does your OC look for in a romantic (or perhaps purely sexual) partner? Is this always healthy?

Does your OC consider themselves to be attractive? Do they put much effort into achieving this?

Would your OC ever take advantage of someone's romantic feelings in order to manipulate them?

Has your OC ever had their heart broken? Have they ever truly recovered?

What is the most romantic gesture your OC has ever performed? Alternatively (or additionally), what romantic gesture would they most like to perform?

Does your OC pursue only monogamous relationships? Or are they open to other, more creative, options?

If your OC were ever to fill out a Dating Site (or pamphlet or newspaper) profile, then what would they include?

Does your OC have a type? Have they ever been surprised by their feelings for someone who doesn't fit this?

Has your OC ever been the object of someone's affections that they did not (or could not) reciprocate?

If your OC were in love, how might they recognise this? Or would they be too much in denial?

Has your OC ever written a love letter (or text message or whatever the case may be)? Perhaps they have even composed a love poem or song dedicated to their beloved?

If they wish to impress someone for whom they have romantic (or at least sexual) feelings, does your OC attempt to present themselves as more confident, wealthy, popular or otherwise impressive, than they truly are?

Is your OC easy to love? If not, then what are the barriers?

[theluckywizard]

Ugly OC Asks

Let's get messy 🔥

Questions compiled with @monocytogenes. Reblog with your OCs tagged and enjoy the crunch!

(I'm not numbering these so people have to copy the questions into the ask box.)

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What is your OC petty about?

When's the last time your OC hurt someone emotionally? What did they do?

What's an unsavory detail about your OC or opinion they have (to a modern Tumblr audience)?

What's an unsavory detail about your OC or opinion they have (to their peer group)?

What does your OC's love interest dislike about them?

Is your OC ever wrong? Big ways? Small ways? About what?

What does your OC lie about?

In what way(s) is your OC bad at life?

What's the fatal flaw in your OC's relationship(s)? What could destroy those relationships?

What fills your OC with envy? Alternatively who does your OC envy and why?

What physical trait(s) is your OC insecure about?

What personality trait(s) or habit(s) is your OC insecure about?

What's a moment your OC is ashamed to remember?

What's your OC's biggest fuck up?

What unconscious biases or expectations does your OC have regarding other genders, races or sexualities?

What skill does your OC need to work on improving?

What uncharitable takes would your OC have about you if they met you?

What's the longest grudge your OC has ever held? Against whom and why?

In what way is your OC worse than you?

Have there been any horrible consequences to well-intentioned choices your OC made? How did they cope with that?

Who hates your OC? Why?

What do your OC and their LI fight about?