Asking Alli

I study the TCC and work with people who planned to carry out attacks to help them get off the pathway to violence. I am not here to take away your community but to be a source of support for those who want it.

[askingalli]

Hey, I'm Alli - the lady from Linkedin.

Believe it or not, I am an advocate for the TCC and its members not being inherently dangerous to the public. My training and research uses my TCC Stoplight Model to demonstrate the overwhelming majority of TCC members are not a threat to the public.

To be clear: I do not HAVE to do this, I want to do this and I want to be a person to reach out to. I'm not law enforcement, I'm not the opps like you may think, and I am not out to ruin or take away the community. I understand the function, purpose, and sense of purpose it gives you all.

Like it or not, the media, courts and researchers are monitoring the community and viewing it inherently dangerous as a whole. The pubic attention and scrutiny is not going anywhere but neither is the community. It has been around since the early 2000s.

I wanted to create a space for people to message me for 3 reasons:

To help give insight, feedback or clarifying information about the TCC, what you think the media, adults, researchers or general public get wrong about it. I want to give the community the opportunity to have their voices heard. I am sure you all are tired of having people speak FOR you - this is your opportunity to speak for YOUR community,

If you are planning or in the past considered carrying out violence and do NOT want to do it, I can help support you making a change so you do not act on it - without judgement. My work is with this exact population, I work with VIOLENT or VIOLENCE-focused individuals. I do not care if you think a perp is hot, I am not trying to change that about you.

To be a person, touchpoint that understands more than you may ever expect. I, too, was raised on Tumblr.

To be clear, I WILL NOT read or reply to hateful messages. That is not why I made this profile nor is that productive conversation.

Hope to hear from you.

Introducing my TCC Stoplight Model

I have created a tool to be used by BTAM teams when doing a threat assessment on a member of the TCC.

[askingalli]

Seeking feedback

Hey y'all

Hope everyone in the community has been doing good and taking care of themselves.

Over the next few months I will be making a docuseries type thing about the Columbine effect/inspired attacks. The style is gonna be a lot like Dire Trips videos where I am telling the story but I am also going to point out opportunities that people could have intervened to help the perps, where the adults failed, and how adults can do better in the future. I'll have some interviews with researchers in the field and stuff but I'd also like to hear from yall.

The intention about making this is to demystify and help the general public understand the nuances of what led them to their attack. Hopefully, this can help the general public to intervene and prevent future attacks.

I'd like to get some people from the community to give me feedback on some of the stuff I am going to be discussing, especially any of you who love to info post. This is an opportunity to have some voices from the community share their takes on what you feel happened.

Also, anyone with hella knowledge about Sol please reach out. She is basically wiped from the internet in a lot of ways and I want to discuss her in one of the eps.

If you're interested - message me!

[askingalli]

If no one has told you today - your life is worth living and I am sorry if anyone has ever made you feel otherwise.

There's a list of resources on my page if you're feeling suicidal or homicidal here

[askingalli]

I made this last year because April has the most attacks out of all the months. I will have to update it even more by the end of the year I am sure.. :/

[askingalli]

If you are feeling suicidal, you are not alone and there is support available. You deserve to feel supported.

I received a message that said it was important for me to share resources with this community regarding crisis support resources. I wanted to make a list of resources for people to refer back to that can be helpful in times of crisis and for recovery. I apologize for not doing this sooner.

CRISIS LINES

Violence Prevention Hotline

Call 888-664-6652

If you or someone you know needs support, call now. The hotline is free, confidential, and available to you or anyone you know that is contemplating violent acts towards others."

Warmline - Peer Phoneline Staffed by others in recovery for mental health issues directory for your state

The Trevor Project

Crisis line specifically for LGBTQIA+ young people

Call us at 1-866-488-7386

Text ‘START’ to 678-678

Trans Lifeline Hotline

877-565-8860 (US)

877-330-6366 (CAN)

Refine Search: Topics: Additional Resources: ID Change LibraryDirectories & Finder ToolsSupporting a Trans Loved OneCommunity-Based Crisis

National Alliance of Mental Illness Helpline

1-800-950-NAMI (6264)

Text NAMI to 62640 

Available Monday Through Friday, 10:00 AM – 10:00 PM ET

Teen Line through DiDi Hirsch

Call [phone] Nationwide or txt TEEN 839863

Available every night from 6–10 PM PT for people up to the age of 19

Suicide Hotline

988

Crisis Text Line

Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 confidential crisis support in English & Spanish. Suicide hotline for anxiety, depression, bullying.

Steve Fund

If you or someone you know is feeling stressed, depressed, or anxious, please know that you can always text STEVE to 741741 to connect with a trained crisis counselor 24/7

Dontcallthepolice.com

UK Crisis

Call 116 123 to talk to Samaritans, or email: [email protected] for a reply within 24 hours

Shout Crisis Text Line text "SHOUT" to 85258

Call 0800 585 858 to talk to Calm (if you're 15 years old or over) or use CALM webchat, both available from 5pm to midnight every day

Call 0800 068 4141, text 07860 039967 or email [email protected] to contact HOPELINE247, available 24 hours a day

Childline If you're under 19, you can also call 0800 1111 

Find International Crisis Information

International Association for Suicide Prevention

Directory to find suicide prevention resources across the world through their search bar to find support in your area

RECOVERY RESOURCES

National Alliance on Mental Illness - Teen Support

Find support groups in your area, access to their crisis lines, and guides on how to navigate challenging times in your life

To Write Love on Her Arms

Directory to find local resources using your zip code

Peer Support Alliance

"At Peer Support Alliance, our mission is to empower individuals living with mental health challenges to speak openly, heal collectively, and thrive together. " For 18+

Eating Disorders

National Alliance for Eating Disorders Helpline

866-662-1235

National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders

ANAD Hotline

888-375-7677

Sexual Abuse Resources

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN)

800-656-4673

Rape Crisis England and Wales

call 0808 500 2222  or message online here

The Survivors Trust (UK)

Call 0808 801 0818 or text: 07860 022 956

Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence Hotline

800-799-7233 or text "Start" to 88788

Respect Phoneline for DV perpetrators

0808-802440

Victim Advocacy Resources

Victim Connect: Resource Center

1-855-4VICTIM (855-484-2846) or chat on their website

Mental Health Resource Guides and Information

8 Tips on How to Deal with Anger

Understanding Violent Intrusive Thoughts

Warning Signs and Bystander Guidance Guide to Prevent Violence

Managing Anger and Abusive Behaviors

What is Complex Trauma? A Resource Guide for Youth and Those Who Care About Them

Getting Through A Tough Time

Understanding the Complexities of Bullying

Talking About Suicide with Friends and Peers

Words to Use When Talking About Suicide

Childhood Traumatic Grief: Youth Info Sheet

Coping in Hard Times: Face Sheet for Youth High School and College Age

Tips and Techniques for Preventing Self-Harm

Coping with Self Harm Urges

Self-Harm and Recovery Resources

How to Tell Someone You Are Self Injuring and Ask for Help

How to Help Someone Who is Violent

Sexual Assault and Abuse Guides and Information

Teen Sexual Assault: Information for Teens

It's Never Your Fault: The Truth About Sexual Abuse

"But Who Should I Tell?" Questions and Answers About Seeking Help After Sexual Abuse

What Do I Do Now? A Survival Guide For Victims of Acquaintance Rape

Tips to Help a Friend Who Has Been Sexually Assaulted

[askingalli]

something is very wrong with you and you should leave these literal kids alone. we do not want you here and will get you out of our space. please just leave by yourself. go “help” irl- as if you can change the root of the problem. doesn’t help making people delusional for a short while to try to prevent violence. but I think it’s preferable you go help without being here in our community. I’m pissed lol

Hey, good morning to you, too!

I completely respect your opinion and hear your concerns. You are well within your right to be pissed and express that however you see fit. I am happy to speak with you about your concerns but it appears you have not read anything I have written, not spoken with me or looked at my work. So, I am going to guess you are /not/ willing to hear me out and have your mind made up on what you believe I am.

I will say based on the significant amount of messages from members I have received, this is not everyone's opinion. Many people have expressed appreciation feeling they have an advocate who is willing to share in a way that allows you to give feedback and have a voice.

My one question is what does: "go 'help' irl- as if you can change the root of the problem. doesn't help making people delusional for a short while to try to prevent violence" mean? I have an idea of what I think you are trying to convey but I don't want to misrepresent what you are trying to tell me.

I will continue to advocate for the kids in the TCC even if some of you do not like me. That is okay. Just as you ask anti's DNI, then you are free to do the same.

[askingalli]

I wrote an article today about the differences between TCC and 764

The True Crime Community(TCC) is Not The Same as 764

Mixing up the two could cause more harm to the kids in these groups, let's talk about it.

I have seen a lot of people getting it wrong, lumping them as the same thing together and I just want people to get it right. Let me know your thoughts and if you feel I am missing anything on here.

[askingalli]

Looking for feedback on something I've observed

Since studying the community, I have seen numerous comments over the years where TCC members have stated they have reported other users who are deemed to be a threat or are saying they're going to do a shooting.

So, how it appears to me is that a lot of TCC members actually have helped prevent more violence in the community. This furthers my analysis that most members do not want more attacks to occur. Let me know if I am missing anything.

If you have had to report someone before because you were worried they will carry an attack out and want to share that experience feel free to reach out.

If my analysis is correct, I would like to use the experiences shared with me as proof in my trainings that the TCC does help counter violence, too.

[askingalli]

hello, im apart of the tcc and im writing an essay for school that will have a heavy focus on it and has a similar message to the one youre apparently trying to send. i wanted to message you to talk about it for some more input, but your dms are closed

Hi! I will send you a message now.

[askingalli]

A message from a TCC member

A long term member of the TCC wanted to share their experience in the community with those who may not understand

Here is a link to my substack where a TCC member shared their experience in the TCC and gave a message to the public. Let me know if this is ever something you are interested in doing. I am happy to speak with you.

[depechemodekilledme]

omg what an idiot, "my UndERCovEr experience in the teacece"

This is so harmful wtf. thx anticentrist for bringing this person to our attention

[joeysmackedmyass]

helllll no we do not like this mf 🫩🥀🥀

[depechemodekilledme]

fr and she didn't even respond to my messages which I made super professional, she instead wrote another long-ass excuse post quietly addressing it on linkedin lmao

[askingalli]

Found the post where it all started! I read all the comments on this and appreciate the feedback again. I'm open to hear more about this particular perp if you want to message me your opinion.

[joeysmackedmyass]

SONNN WHO MADE THAT CUTE BUT PSYCHO PIC 😭🙏🙏

[klebeian]

what 😭😭

[depechemodekilledme]

what is she even doing bro

[askingalli]

There's my first episode of the TCC, I've read your comments and appreciate the feedback.