Femininity Chosen

Traditional Gender Roles | Housewife | Vintage Lifestyle This blog represents what is right for my husband and I and doesn’t mean this is how we believe everyone should live. As long as people are kind and respectful they should have the freedom to live their life and their truth.

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[aspengrovehome]

Me, trying to figure out if I am forgetting something to make sure I don’t have to go upstairs twice 😅

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If you’re trad that means you’re regressive. And nobody buys the gig, you’re a gold digger in a sweater, looking to leech off a man for food and shelter while you shit out kids and laze about in his home.

Lol righto. I’m sure you’re the expert given you’re almost certainly unmarried, not wealthy, and definitely know nothing about homemaking and the time consumed in housekeeping, cooking, and childrearing

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Anon will see someone living their best life happily engaged and go "I HAVE to ruin this persons day and shit on them"

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“Nobody’s buying the gig”? My fiancé wants me to stay home

[navyismycolour]

I would happily let my girl be home and look after the family. Someone else's definition of happiness can look different than yours. That doesn't give you the right to hate.

[aspengrovehome]

The value of women's unpaid labor is estimated at 10.9 trillion dollars globally. That number is 1.5 trillion in the United Sates. With those numbers I'm not sure how much gold digging and lazing about is happening.

[aspengrovehome]

Over the weekend I finished my first project for the little man. 💙

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[flawlesslyfeminine]

She’ll respect you more if you discipline her whenever she steps out of line.

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Stepfordization Not Feminism

i am So Frustrated As A Stepford wife With Feminists

Growing up, i knew i was submissive, and i knew that my purpose in life was to please and serve a Man. i want to feel free to embrace the natural order and traditional gender roles. my place in life is to be married, in my Husband's service, and follow His leadership through my femininity, submission, obedience, and service. If i fight against the natural order, it only leads me to anxiety, depression, misery, and less fulfilling life.

Feminists, however, have tried to make me feel so ashamed of my submissive nature and need to please my Man. It is really frustrating for me that Feminists cannot see life for what life really is. Why do Feminists want to waste E/everyones's time and energy trying to be something They are not? Why do Feminists insist on making feminine girls into what They believe is the Ideal Woman? i do not want to be an inferior man. Men are in charge for a reason. my Husband is in charge for a reason.

So many girls that i know, who are Feminists, would be so much happier if They were in traditional gender role, male-led relationships. They work and labor for corporations to pursue money and complain that They are so unhappy with Their lives. my “friends” try to get me to join Them, to share in Their misery, knowing that i am happy in the life that i live with the Man that i love.

Feminists simply drive me insane seeing Them wasting Their lives, being unhappy, and antagonizing the Men and girls around Them for Their Feminist misfortunes.

girls and wives should stay with what they are good at and let Men do what They are good at. Men are in charge for a reason. The Man’s role is to provide for girls, protect girls, and lead girls. A girl’s role is to please Men, serve Men, and make Men’s lives less stressful.

Stepfordization, not Feminism, is what i need. If girls do not fight her feminine nature, she will find the most profound bliss comes from submitting to a good Dominant Man and embracing her natural submissive place as a girl.

[lillibethrose]

I understand her so well. The ironie is , that feminists are fighting for the right of women, to become what ever they want to be , until a woman decides to become a housewife and to be submissive to her husband

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found an abandoned treehouse on my walk in the woods today. the log that used to be a ladder into it has fallen over. couldn't see a way to get up.

[aspengrovehome]

My family jokes that I was born both 6 years old and simultaneously 60 years old. Those two sides of me seriously clash when I see this. 6 year old part of me would do EVERYTHING in my power to get in while 60 year old part of me just KNOWS the floor is rotted and I'd fall through, break my leg and probably get tetanus from a rusty nail. 😂

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[aspengrovehome]

Okay that bunny is creepy. I mean if you are going to lean into the bunny thing over the Christ is Risen thing that's your own life choice. I mean I live with a Jew over here so it's a balance for us. But if you are going bunny heavy can't it be a sweet little cottagecore bunny rather than a drug trip bunny? Please?

[aspengrovehome]

Unpopular Opinion:

People are using very real and serious things such as PTSD and Boundaries as buzzwords allowing them to be entitled and simply get their way far too often.

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Yep. I was young tho

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Oh yeah. Grew up with her. She died when I was in high school

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No. 3 of my grandparents died before I was 17. The only one I have left doesn’t want anything to do with us

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I still speak to my Great Grandma regularly. My Great Great Grandma passed a few years ago but I remember playing in her house and talking to her before she got sick. I’m eternally grateful that the older generations of my family were so prevalent in my life growing up.

[aspengrovehome]

I met two of my great grandmothers. One of them died when I was a toddler after meeting her once. The other I saw often throughout my childhood. She passed on September 15, 2001. She told my grandma (her daughter) after the terrorist attacks on the 11th that she had seen enough and she noped out a couple days later.

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The "sensory play" shit annoys me. And not because kids don't need it but because so much shit is already sensory play

Y'all put y'all's kids on iPads and then forgot what normal play is.

You don't need a sensory bin if you take your kid outside and let them play with toys in the bath and let them color and fingerpaint and y'know all the shit kids have been fuckin doing before y'all popped on cocomelon to not have to watch them

[ladydeepred]

Every time I see a "sensory play" post I see a picture of my baby cousin lying on a blanket surrounded by colourful fancy toys and 100% focused on one amazing thing he found - a stick.

And also think about how easily I could entertain any given child by sitting them next to a small conifer so they could touch it and watch it shake when they grabbed a twig.

Does it work in the same way an ipad does? Yes, go read a book while the kid sits there for two hours admiring a tree.

Additionally you can avoid frying your baby's brain with screen lights.

Win-win.

[aspengrovehome]

I feel this so hard. You know what we plan on doing for "sensory play" when the little man gets here? We are going to go outside.

I'm not buying a plastic laden "sensory bin" when there is grass, leaves, sand, dirt ect. for free right outside the door.

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[aspengrovehome]

Posts like this make me so eager for our little dude!

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I had the most beautiful feminine mentorship moment last weekend.

My husband and I were visiting his parents for the weekend (they live about six hours away from us) and when I was spending some time with my mother in law she picked up some crocheting to do. To which I said, "I didn't know you could crochet."

And she said, "Would you like to learn?"

So she taught me :) she gave me some of her yarn and one of her crochet hooks and taught me to crochet. Now I'm making a scarf! It was such a touching and heartwarming moment for me, to learn a crafting skill from the generation before me-- especially from someone in my new family ^-^

[aspengrovehome]

That's such a sweet bonding moment. I'm going to visit my sister for a week this summer and I'm thinking about teaching her nine year old to crochet if she's interested.

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Honey Bee Cupcakes

[aspengrovehome]

Life is full of trade offs and seasons and now that we are in the travel the country exploring the united states season I have had to trade off baking that much.

However we are spending a couple nights at my mother in laws next week and I might just have to take advantage of her large glorious kitchen.

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Spring frock