the stelliums based on my experiences w them š©āā¤ļøāšāš©
feeling like they need financial security so badly they might die if they dont have it, but then the next moment think to themselves that ābeing a hobo isnāt that badā before thinking about how tf theyre supposed to ration their money if they have like 5 pence per week.
being inflexible as hell when someone tells them to do shit but being surprisingly open-minded about everything else.
being sure of who they are deep down at their core but having so much difficulty expressing it. struggled so deeply with their identity when they were younger. feeling a lot of guilt because they internalise a lot of the mistakes theyve made. secretly thinks theyāre a bad person deep down. they need to forgive themselves more.
constantly thinking of crisis scenarios like being trapped in an earthquake or a jungle or someone attacking them and how they would respond.
the possessive stereotype is so so true like if these mfers see their partner speaking with another person of the gender theyāre attracted to theyāll literally feel a wave of irritation BUTTTT what usually isnāt written is that these people are actually so rational about it. like they know what they feel is irrational and they actually do trust their partner so they squash that feeling deep down. this will be a constant struggle for them throughout their lives but over time they do learn to manage it especially through healthy communication <3
getting dirt on everyone in their school just in case people bully them so they can blackmail them back (jk!!! unlessā¦ā¦..). but fr knowing all the gossip in school but being sooo lowkey about it.
actually so loyal if they decide to trust youā¦.. but dont break their hearts by leaving them because these people will still push you out of the way from an oncoming car even if youāve had serious beef with them. theyāll never look at u the same way tho, if you betray their trust.
hating when people touch their stuff without their permission, have VERY specific brands for certain items that they need to use or theyāll feel physically incomplete (e.g. a pen or shoes).
they hate it even more when people touch their money and are extremely anal about people who borrow money from them. will chase their friends literally every minute for their money back until they actually get it back. the type to count their savings every week so they can make sure no money has been stolen LOL.
yearning for a stable relationship but also being so touch-starved/ horny that they constantly debate between going on tinder to find someone to f*ck or to wait 2000 years for someone who has the patience to peel back all their layers.
āi took pictures on PhotoBooth over the past year and i noticed whenever i stress eat my face gets noticeably fatter.ā ā> my 6th house stellium friend said that to me PLS
they arenāt obsessed with staying healthy like stereotypes say but rather being healthy/ exercising is second nature to them. itās as natural as breathing air. possibly have been involved in multiple sports and excelled at all of them. have noticed they tend to suffer from sinus issues quite a bit/ particularly sensitive to colds or flus.
nervous energy is noticeable but ive noticed they usually calm down a lot when working on something that requires a lot of meticulousness. i think the routine/ repetition + focus helps a lot.
either icy cold or cries every 2 seconds. thereās no in between really.
theyre so observant though, they notice a lot of things most people wonāt notice, like minute body reactions or tone inflections in a conversation. for this reason they are usually in tune with what the other person is truly thinking.
soo mature and kind. empathetic to a fault. literally their bestfriend could date their crush and they would understand their perspective (they might not forgive them tho). ive noticed they like talking through their feelings (makes sense tbh, virgo 6h - mercury - communication) even tho theyāre bad at articulating them.
these people tend to fall for those who seem more free-spirited than them - those who arenāt afraid to say what they think and express themselves honestly. but ive noticed that because of their soft-spoken nature they tend to be overlooked when crushing on someone.
works at a rather slow but detailed pace. hates it so much when people rush them, its one of their pet peeves. oscillates between burning out super quickly and being able to work relentless for months on end.
sides with the underdog. hard for them to get along with people who are unempathetic/ has rigid opinions.
reserved. soft-spoken but actually so opinionated. such skilled liars though, they can lie to your face without blinking an eye but most would prefer not to. they tend to speak in half-truths if they dont trust you. if they trust you, youāll notice a change in their body demeanour - the tension literally goes out of their shoulders.
usually so cautious but will not hesitate to take risks in projects they are incredibly passionate in. thereās a fire that burns bright within them that they very selectively let out only when its something very important to them.
incredibly blessed with the ability to articulate their thought process. generally all-rounders in school but will have a huge preference for either STEM or the humanities. genuinely curious with learning new things and as a result sometimes has really niche hobbies (e.g. writing film reviews or something LOL).
im sorry this is such a stereotype but actually so freaking smart and they know it. they might not know how to harness it properly though unless they have more grounded placements but they have the ability to look at something once and break it down. on that note, vv analytical people but they hide it so well.
exudes good vibes and people find it exceptional difficult to stay mad at them. they could literally straight up slap someone and other people would still find excuses to justify their behavior lmaoo.
values honesty and integrity a lot. prefers speakers that speak bluntly and directly. people who speak in subtext a lot reallllyyyy stress them out because theyre not sure if theyve offended them or theyve misinterpretated what the other person was trying to say. which then leads them to overthink a lot. if theyve managed to come to the conclusion that u dont like them theyll be so stiff towards you.
their minds are straight up filthy. if ure their close friend youll wake up at 3am with like 50 texts describing how they were cooking with chilli and touched their d*** after and now when they piss their thing burns LMAOOOO.
therell always be one aspect of them that goes against the majority (e.g. being part of the LGBT community, being a minority race in a country). v big and proud of this identity and they tend to embody it wherever they go.
their bodies are naturally lean/ skinny without exercising
actually okay with being given orders/ controlled but only on their own terms. values their independence highly and is not afraid to go against the beat of the drum. they are extremely open when it comes to receiving ideas and opinions which is why when theyve arrived at a decision they donāt easily change their minds because theyve already thought through most of them.
possess an incredibly ability for self-reflection. first and foremost these people pride themselves on their ability to justā¦. think. when they feel disappointment from anyone these people really internalise it simply to think through their actions and improve from them.
fiery fiery people - when they decide on a goal they throw themselves into it and no matter how many obstacles they face these people will still obstinately plow through it. their resilience is no joke.
most would have had an idea about what they want their future careers to be from a really early age.
uh contrary to popular belief this placement doesnt indicate natural workaholics??? itās more so that from the people ive interacted with that have a 10th house stellium, they are just incredibly consistent when it comes to working towards their career (like doing extracurriculars/ internships to get experience) and they pride themselves on that.
epitome of no pain no gain??? like most people with 10h stelliums are masochists ngl. would insist on doing something their way even if its more difficult/ less efficient just to go through the lessons that those hardships would bring. they like the experience, it gives them some semblance of control. on that note, this trait of theirs also gives them an insane amount of inner strength.
this is a given but these people are vv ambitious although not as cutthroat as many would expect. the stellium gives this placement a more grounded energy and in a way imbues them with more conscience??? LOL
can come across looking very intimidating, radiating BDE HAHAHAHA. these people can make strangers think they hate them even though theyve done nothing. but fr 10h stelliums are SO FRIENDLY!!! and surprisingly spontaneous at times
touching on their softer side, these people are actually so self-sacrificing and giving to the people they love. will buy their bestfriend a whole ass car for their birthday and then blink when the other person gapes at them and TAKE IT AS IF ITS SOMETHING NATURAL TO DO????? really, they will put their own needs aside just to accommodate to you if u mean a lot to them. highkey spoils their loved ones w food and gifts.
when theyāre in one of their moods they tend to clam up and isolate themselves. they dont like confiding in people immediately if itās something really serious and instead prefer to resolve it by themselves but if its something that just annoys them they rant in such a hilarious manner.
find themselves pushed into positions of authority even if they dont particularly feel an inclination to lead. its as if the opportunity of leadership is always gifted to them. the image they present to public will always be perceived as responsible even if theyre an alcoholic or a druggie or sumn.
caring a lot about what people think of them to almost an unhealthy degree and letting other peopleās perceived judgements affect their behavior and actions in real life. overthinking like shit when they think a person of authority dislikes them and sucking up to said person so that theyll give them more attention.
usually placed in a disadvantageous position in their childhood, which is why theyre so passionate about certain causes when they grow up. they dont want to let other children experience the same trauma as they did.
very very charming people but not in a typical libra way. instead, their charming is more endearing. something about them gets people to see their appeal quickly. they might not be immensely popular but they are definitely well-known in the community.
im sorry but ive noticed this trend among 11th house stelliums - although they really care about large-scale, macro world issues, when it comes to acts of everyday kindness or suffering these folks arenāt the most empathetic? in real life, they process everything (including their emotions) through their own experiences, meaning if they havenāt gone through them, it can be difficult for them to relate to the person crying in front of them and offer any sort of constructive comfort.
prefers to talk about their friendsā lives in conversation, dont usually steer the conversation towards themselves unless asked. they also tend to hold their friends at arms length, despite having quite a number of them. its not a personal thing and their friends probably dont take offence, but 11h stelliums just highly value their own independence and privacy. in a paradoxical way, these people only feel like they are truly themselves when they are completely alone.
which brings me to the next point, their wariness of intimacy and the fear of letting people see their ātrueā selves? these people know in their hearts they are kinda different from the rest of the population, but they also deeply want to belong, so theyve kinda adapted their personality to be more palatable. and it works, these people are v personable as u know. so when somebody starts spending a lot of time with them these people get scared and they start closing themselves off or ghosting or in the worst case, bolting. theyre terrified that once people see their authentic selves those people will leave and then theyāll be stuck knowing that they were right about being a misfit and having to deal with rejection and alienation again.
these people might struggle with elevated anxiety or even have problems with low moods for a persistent period of time. i think their sense of rationality is so strong that they tend to think they theyve processed their emotions when they actually havenāt, which is why it builds up and causes such tumultuous feelings. itās a constant head vs heart battle for them and it leaves them so mentally drained sometimes.
also vv sharp instincts. they can smell blood fr and are extremely good lie detectors. they can usually predict the outcome of something and tell if a person is of good character or not by simply looking at them. this provides them the gift of foresight which honestly is also why they can be very good entrepreneurs.
no but these people are actually so private. they have practically no social media presence (think jaehyun of nct LOL). they like the idea of staying mysterious but at the same time desire so deeply for soul-to-soul connection and for people to see their true selves. attracted to people who know where they want their lives to go and tend to ground themselves by interacting w them. also the type to have secret hobbies that theyre proficient at and one day they might be like āoh actually i know how to speak 10 languages oops sorry for not telling u hahah my bad!!ā
they have such a light-hearted side to them tho and they love to tease. they wonāt do it outright but rather in a subtle manner. Their sense of humor is suggestive and wry which to me adds on to their charisma.
the type that needs to be alone to process their emotions. their feelings are intense and they are so hard on themselves. may react impulsively if said feeling is too overwhelming.
stubborn stubborn people. can be surprisingly set about their opinions and they hate being in uncertain situations/ indecisive environments it literally makes their anxiety ššš.
on that note, they can be such closeted control freaks. they hate this part of themselves and it feels so irritating because oftentimes theyre not sure what is causing the reaction? if something feels off they will be physically uncomfortable.
such good fashion sense!! the type of people who can pick out a snazzy outfit with their eyes closed. theyre so lowkey about this but compliment them about their taste in clothing and theyāll be so happy.
extremely empathetic people but bad at expressing it outright. theyāll give it like an hour before expressing their concern for you and making sure youre okay. very intuitive too, if youre distressed all they want to do is soothe.
their personality during childhood might have been completely different than their current one? tend to grow into their ātrueā personalities and tend to project what they think is their picture of themselves into the external world. although, the side of them from their childhood is still in there deep down, its reserved only for their closest relationships tho.
despite feeling uncertain about their self-image, in the eyes of the public they maintain a remarkably consistent energy and personality. might have a distinct stereotype attached to them in school settings (e.g. smart one, quiet one).
they possess incredible creative energy but might have subconsciously rejected it for more practical hobbies or careers. ive often noticed that 12th house stelliums are influenced by their sun sign more than most people - such that they embody the qualities of their sun sign in a more tangible manner.
