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living life | 18 | lesbian and proud | Virgo | you will get my honest opinion even if you didn't ask | libfems and kin if you interact with me i will bash your head in with a sledgehammer

[radlissa]

liberals will scream “fuck gender roles” then call themselves non-binary for not conforming to them.

[hstrq]

liberals be like “abolish gender” and then invent another one

[blossoming-witness]

liberals are like “stop gender stereotypes” and then go and define a woman based on feminity

[crazyshitisay]

Liberals will say “gender is a construct” and then claim sexuality is based on attraction to gender

[atasteofwaffles]

I would never wish dead upon someone, but I hope you get a bad sunburn and I hope you realize one day that your beliefs are toxic and wrong

You would never wish... dead... upon someone.

Alrighty then.

Let’s agree to disagree. I fully believe some people, kinnies included, should have a bullet put between their eyes so damn fast it ricochets in their empty little skulls for days.  Also, I hope one day you realize what a dumbass you sound like. 

[stars-bean]

“It must have been very hard for you. Putting on trousers, I mean.” “No, it was entirely natural.”

Colette (2018) dir. Wash Westmoreland

[hey-yes-hi-hello]

T-trans man?? Yes???

[justmascthirsting]

Gnc woman, we exist. It tells a lot that a dialogue from a masculine woman in the early 20th - because this is a film about famous bisexual french writer Colette - is assumed to be about trans identity when nothing except fashion preference is talked about here. This is a reminder that you’re not immune to sexism.

[pusheen-the-radfem]

@hey-yes-hi-hello tell me again how being transgender ‘has nothing to do with gender stereotypes!!!!’

smh wearing fucking trousers is now enough to be forcefully transed by the brainrot lot

[katradford-deactivated20210710]

Posthumously transing gnc and lesbian/bi women is so disheartening. I’ve always only worn pants and trousers, nothing about that makes me a man. It’s proposterous to even suggest that. Since the conception of feminism and even before, women have fought for the right to wear trousers because they’re comfortable and practicle. @hey-yes-hi-hello you are so deep in gender ideology that you forgot most women in their natural state don’t desire to wear uncomfortable frilly clothes. It IS sexist for you to assume she is a “trans man”, because you think every woman liked her gender roles and assigned clothes.

[hey-yes-hi-hello]

Oh my god y’all need to calm down I stg. The person in the gifs was talking about not feeling comfortable in typical girl’s clothes, and they looked pretty masculine to me, so I genuinely thought that they were a trans man because I’ve been seeing more similar trans posts lately, and I’m an AFAB trans person who looks for idols and positive media representation. I’m sorry for making a mistake, but don’t you fucking dare say I think every woman likes to conform to gender norms, because you do not fucking know me.

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

so being masculine and not liking “girl” clothes makes them a man?

[hey-yes-hi-hello]

Omfg no that is clearly not what I fucking said, stop cherry picking my defence to suit your own pettiness- I’m surrounded my lots of trans-positive media, so it’s usually trans people I see, and they looked trans, so I assumed, I’m fucking sorry.

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

so you’d faster assume that a woman wanted to be a man instead of just not conforming to gender roles? meaning you admit that you see gender non-conformity as a sign that someone is trans

[pusheen-the-radfem]

look @hey-yes-hi-hello you gotta understand one thing- the problem isn’t that you ‘misgendered’ (to use a word y'all love) one individual woman in this context. the problem, as opabinia pointed out, is that due to the brainwashing cultish gender ideology you surround yourself with, your first thought one seeing a gnc woman is 'this must not be a woman’. and that is bad; not just for women and the feminist cause but for you and your own self, body and mind. unlike the group you run with, we’re not here to nail you to the fucking cross for accidentally calling a woman a man (again, in the real world where the rest of us live, 'misgendering’ is a non-issue, certainly not something punishable by excommunication and rape or death threats). we want to challenge why its becoming increasingly normal and expected that at the first sight of a woman who’s not a kardashian-esque pornified plastic 'bimbo’ so many people assume that means she’s not a woman at all. surely you must see how this is toxic ideology and the antithesis of womens rights and freedoms.

[sweetoothgirl]

Strawberry Lemonade Layer Cake

[atasteofwaffles]

making a post that says "long post under the cut" about otherkin and not even making it long? damn at least stick to that, i want to see 50 copy pasted lines of "Get help" or something. doesnt matter either way im just lowkey disappointed i wasn't bombarded and it was like. a couple lines long :(

i’m way confused about this. like. did... did you want to be harassed? did you want to be bullied? if you’re the kind of person who actually wants to be verbally abused then... i legitimately don’t know what to tell you. 

ngl you strike me as the kind to have a humiliation kink or smthn XD

also that was a long time ago so... finding an old-ish post and bringing it up again seems pretty redundant. 

i mean, if you were trying to start shit, well done ig. you did it, but all you did was make me confused. don’t get me wrong, i was super tempted to put pictures of gore or smthn, but i decided not to and you’re not gonna get that from me. 

so... yeah. that’s a you problem.

[pansapphicpositivity]

No one:

Literally no one:

TERFs:Use terms made by literal nazis to describe cis people, not only making trans people, especially trans women, out to be dirty, but out right using a racist and antisemitic term. They don't care and never have, and should never EVER be taken seriously as feminist.

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

what term?

[latenightsinpemberley]

Uh oh the males are mad about being told to wash their asses again 😂

[greenwire]

so it’s nazi rhetoric to make jokes about men not washing their bodies? is this nazi rhetoric?

how about this? is this nazi rhetoric?

or this?

or this?

or this?

is this nazi rhetoric to you?

Interesting how actual self-proclaimed nazis seem to agree with your stance on radical feminists. Interesting how jokes about TERFs and their hygiene are acceptable to you, but jokes about how men statistically do not wash their hands after going to the bathroom and will make posts about not washing their asses and/or not wearing underwear are a sign that feminists are evil. Interesting how your hypocrisy and selective blindness serves to protect men and male interests. Interesting how you are okay with saying feminists are the same as fascists yet you have zero standalone posts on your blog denouncing fascism.

Interesting how feminists are supposedly oppressing transwomen, yet misogynistic men are not. Almost like this is just a men’s rights movement in lipstick.

[illalwaysbehere]

@paran-isnt-real here's your fascist rhetoric, you ugly little fucking FREAK

[mrspankhurstsraspberryjam]

Does op think male and female were terms created by Nazis?

Also OP having been raised by Holocaust survivors I need you to shut the fuck up. You know fuck all about actual Nazis. And incidentally there are some things that are not acceptable joke fodder. Mass murder that has occured is never one of them. And have you ever considered that you are an antisemitic piece of shit. You're happy to trivialize victims of the Holocaust but I never see you guys talking about other genocides. You don't seem to make jokes about the millions starved and outright murdered under Stalin. I don't see you make jokes about the Armenian genocide committed by Turkey or the continued violence against Kurdish people. I don't see you trivializing victims of Darfur, Rwanda, or Bosnia. What about victims of Mao, Pol Pot, or Idi Amin. So why do you feel so fucking comfortable making light of suffering endured by Jews, Romani, disabled, homosexuals, and non-standard types of Christians.

[atasteofwaffles]

op, sincerely from the bottom of my heart, please use your brain. 

[ixnova]

me: Don’t bully someone for being lgbt tumblr: YEAH, DONT BULLY FOR SOMEONE’S SEXUALITY me: right, so therefore don’t bully someone for being cis/het either. tumblr: WOAH HOLD ON THERE STRAIGHTY- Literally logic and reason are dead and resting peacefully next to critical thinking on this website.

[paulinekael]

people are allowed to complain about anything they want on their blog and people are allowed to complain about the people that are complaining. ideally, this website should function like a matryoshka doll of kvetching

[disgruntledseagull]

Exactly

[succubarbie-deactivated20190205]

the new modern tumblr queer lgbtqia+++* community isn’t even an activist movement anymore it’s just a cult of spoiled brats with a fetish for false moral purity who could care less about actually helping people because they’re busy sitting around jacking off their own egos for some woke points like there’s some girl scout badge system for who’s read communist theory and who bought the most rainbow enamel pins this year and who could invite the most people to the cult

[venasaurr]

no one was prepared for how scalding this take is

[lotrlocked]

It’s really embarrassing and frankly dangerous tbh. - The misinformation that is being spread just for woke points - The polarization/black and white thinking - The blanket terms that mean nothing - The obsession with ‘validity’  - The graphic violence written to everyone who doesn’t agree with absolutely everything they say - The micro identities and carving out a space for each one and the exact perfect language surrounding this outweighing actual activism in an effort to be morally superior -The idea that the more micro identities you associate with the higher woke you are  -The glorification of mental illness and the excuses made for and by people with a mental illness for their shitty behavior - Self diagnosis of mental illness to excuse shitty behavior - That sarcastic, condescending tone vloggers use (you know what I mean) - The lack of space for discussion, questioning, research  - The blatant ignorance of the meaning and misuse of words like: abuse, toxic, trauma, gaslighting It’s beyond being respectful, understanding and kind, to people it’s unchecked malicious narcissism.

[atasteofwaffles]

i swear to god, when it comes to visibility days this site becomes an echo chamber of “ x identity is valid! if you’re x you’re valid! remember you’re valid!” without actually acknowledging what those groups are going through.

[atasteofwaffles]

tumblr user: i’m trans. i’m not cis. i have different experiences than cis people because i’m trans.

terfs: ok, so because they’re not the same, trans people should be treated differently than cis people in some respects.

tumblr user: THAT’S TRANSPHOBIC

[atasteofwaffles]

i love how often i see the phrase “you’re spouting terf rhetoric!” on this site. it seems like their apparent “””””terf rhetoric””””” is anything that makes them uncomfortable. they don’t even bother doing their research. like, do some reading of your own. who knows? you might even learn something from us.

[uterusapussybleeder]

the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings but it's still not as sensitive as they/thems on tumblr.com

[pusheen-the-radfem]

girl did you really just go there

[blisterswuornos]

Why does the TRA rhetoric say “trans women are exactly the same as ci woman and if you say otherwise you are a bigot” instead of “trans women have their own unique experiences that are valid and different from those of cis women and deserve to be addressed” 

like instead of 2 categories why can’t we just have 4 (transwoman, female woman, transman, male man) and then the genderists can have their gender in their own categories and it doesnt erase the safe space of or existence of female women.  Instead of two there can just be four.  Problem literally solved right there.  Have your cake and eat it too.  Sports teams, locker rooms, bathrooms, prisons, hospitals, just have 4 categories instead of 2 and everybody can just be happy with that.  Bonus for everybody, it will create construction jobs for the extra spaces.  People can be comfortable and safe among those with similar experiences.  Its literally the most easy and obvious solution.  

[pusheen-the-radfem]

yeah, or it would be if the aim was to provide trans people with housing or any of the other things you mentioned. that’s not the goal of this nonsense movement- the goal is to dominate, oppress and subdue women. to put us in our place and make us renounce our own lived realities and soothe the egos of delusional men. it’s a misogynist power trip, it’s not about any kind of ‘rights’.

[radicalrin]

They say "block and stay safe" like I'm gonna physically walk to the house of some literal child or hulking lolicon pervert and legit beat the shit out of them lmao. I do my best to not even interact with TRAs posts unless I see some absolutely over the top misogyny on my dash or in my recommended. Y'all are the ones threatening rape and violence left and right.

[radicalrin]

TRA: *blatantly posts their violent misogynistic death threat filled rants in terf tags because they obviously want us to see it and be upset by it* *brags about triggering terfs in their bio and posts about harassing terfs for fun* *says things to actual living breathing women over the internet that would get them punched in the face irl*

Radfems: *respond to said violent and misogynistic posts, obviously upset as the OP intended*

TRA: WAAAAHHHHHHH OH MY GODDDDD THE BIG SCARY TERFS ARE HAWASSING ME I LITERALLY DID NOTHING OMG THEY'RE GOING OUT OF THEIR WAY TO HUNT DOWN MY BLOG AND HAWASS ME FOR NO WEASON!!?! ;W; THEY ARE SO FuwuCKING EVIL!!1! THIS IS A T-T-TWANSPHOBIC HATE CRIME!! D: WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO, TERFS?? HUH?? K*LL MYSELF?? OKAY I'LL K*LL MYSELF!! GUYS THE TERFS LITERALLY TOLD ME TO GO K*LL MYSELF!!

[aripiprazol-deactivated20210502]

A radfem: makes a heartfelt post on how women can find themselves through their unique soul and feel empowered by their own definition of femininity and what it means to be a woman in a time when being a woman is defined by patriarchy and the male gaze; they can find their own reflection in the mirror they built themselves and with no external societal help, creating what they can finally call the authentic self

Some misogynist loser on tumblr: op is a terf :/

[atasteofwaffles]

Finally another antikin TERF! I was afraid I was the only sane one on this site.

omg come off anon or message me!