whatever. literally all of the things. and more.

thirties / she/her / INFJ / this is a side blog

[kindnotestoself]

I’m so sorry it hurts. It wasn’t fair, what happened to you, and you don’t deserve to feel like that. But you’re not always going to be in pain. Better days are coming dear. You will Heal and be okay one day.

[daddystinygirll]

The fear of abandonment isn’t just about people leaving, it’s the gut-wrenching belief that you aren’t worth staying for.

[noodles-07]

"it's all in your head" correct! unfortunately I am also in there

[m4nicpsych0]

abandonment issues slayyyy

[blooooom]

there’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. this is not true. we can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. in fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. the version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.

[mosscaller]

I exist & that is something I'm going to have to deal with for the rest of my life.

[hyumjim]

Starting a collection

[hyumjim]

[hellallamerican]

❌ "i miss grad school"

✅ "i miss seeing close friends every day and not having any real responsibilities"

[paper-wounds]

[becherdireinen]

my ultimate fantasy is having a brain that lets me enjoy life instead of making me feel like i’m at gunpoint over every tiny inconvenience.

[and-fishing-equipment]

you need to do a little dance in the kitchen. it is vitally important for your health that you do a little dance in the kitchen. you understand

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

little things that exist:

warm blankets and snowy mornings

stars that glow from millions of lightyears away

fruits, bread and tea

cities for you to explore

poetry, art, books and cozy libraries

places with breathtaking sceneries

knowledge, languages and art museums

people who understand what you’re going through

a lovely future waiting for you

flowers that grow in cracks in the sidewalk

people who love and appreciate you

[depsidase]

[chu0855-deactivated20200118]

[animentality]

[fairycosmos]

the issue with growing up in the 2000s and 2010s was like there was this really big push toward "accepting your weirdness" overall but they meant like idk wearing mismatched socks or something not being tangibly beyond the norm in any way shape or form

[charlottan]

i just feel strongly that work shouldnt be the Main Activity of five days out of the week