John Mulaney, a true ADHD icon
I love how he gave this bit at an autism benefit because it is also a heavy Autism Moodâą
This is the most relatable thing Iâve ever seen.
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John Mulaney, a true ADHD icon
I love how he gave this bit at an autism benefit because it is also a heavy Autism Moodâą
This is the most relatable thing Iâve ever seen.
tuafw you realise as an adult you've spent your entire life stimming with rhythms... music, drums, poetry... memorising poems like Spike Milligan's Ning Nang Nong aged 7... Loving rock n roll since you can remember.. it's the rhythms and the beats!! They're so good!!
Can we please please normalize subtitles?Â
Subtitles are:
1. A necessity for deaf people
2. REALLY helpful for those who are partially deaf, have APD (like me and my sister) or any other hearing problem
3. really helpful for those who canât focus well, especially for those with ADD/ADHD (like me)
4. Is incredibly helpful for people learning a second language, or for bilingual people who can read better than they can hearÂ
5. Even if you arenât into learning the language, there are countless amazing foreign movies and songs you really canât enjoy without subtitles!
6. Can help people (like my sister) who have reading comprehensionÂ
7. Can help when youâre having a party and you donât want to pause every time someone wants to make a comment/joke
8. Can help when the characters in the show have a heavy accent (especially in period shows)Â
9. Letâs be honest subtitles can really add to the humor of the show! (âsobs mathematicallyâ, âscreeches loudlyâ, âangrily fixes bowtieâ)
10. Can let people watch content without headphones, or in areas of loud noises.Â
11. Alternatively, If someone has sensitive hearing or is triggered by loud noises, they can turn the volume down low and still be able to enjoy the content
12. The last bit is VERY true for movies where they switch between soft speaking and LOUD BOOMING NOISES (Iâm looking at you hunger games)
13. Very good for helping young kids recognize and associate words and learn to read faster!
14. Really good when youâre eating chips/crunchy candy and canât hear the movie
15. IS A NECESSITY FOR DEAF PEOPLE!!!
I canât even tell you how many of my friends made fun of me for needing subtitles, to the point of where I just donât bother with them anymore. Asking for subtitles at an event is the scariest thing I can imagine. People often complain that it âgets in the wayâ of their movie. Watching shows (especially in loud areas or with people who talk a lot) is incredibly frustrating for me. People often think Iâm stupid for not understanding a show or needing to rewind when someone talks. Most Youtube users donât bother to create subtitles for their videos (and auto-generated subtitles are crap). I just wish people were nicer to people who need subtitles, and that they were more accessible on other platforms.Â
Oh my god you guys last semester some guy in my film history class was whining like a kindergartener about how we opted for subtitles on a film that was in English and I went OFF
I rarely, rarely, reblog things I have already reblogged. But this is SO DAMN important.
I find it baffling when non-autistic people continue to oppose autistic self diagnosis even *after* learning that (1) autistic-led organizations explicitly give resources to aid self diagnosis and (2) that an on-record autism diagnosis means you are overwhelmingly prevented from adopting, you canât immigrate to places like Canada, and you are likely to lose custody of your kids if your custody is ever challenged.
Like? Itâs baffling that there are neurotypicals who hate autistic people so much that theyâd rather we lose our kids than let us say weâre autistic without having a clinical diagnosis.
i would like to add that for autistic trans people, a professional autism diagnosis legally prevents you from transitioning in many places, and in many others it means you must have PARENTAL OR SPOUSAL CONSENT for transition-related care or procedures. i would LOVE people to take my autism seriously but a diagnosis would actually kill me because i would no longer be able to access hormones or trans healthcare.
Dude, if youâre a neurotypical and an autistic person refers to themselves as such, donât try to âcorrectâ us and inform us that the correct term is âperson with autism.â
Like, no, Karen, the vast majority of us neuro-atypicals hate that condescending âperson firstâ language. Maybe you didnât know any better, but once youâve been told, continuing to try to dictate the terms we use for ourselves to suit your own comfort level just reveals that any supposed respect you have for us is purely performative.
"When I asked for help or asked if anyone was still there, nobody would answer," said Alex. "I felt alone. I felt scared."
Nov. 23, 2018
POWHATAN, Virginia â Alex Campbell was just 7 years old when, he says, his principal dragged him down the hall to the schoolâs âcrisis room.â
Administrators reserved the room, a converted storage closet, for children who acted out. He still remembers the black-painted walls. The small window he was too short to reach. The sound of a desk scraping across the floor, as it was pushed in front of the door to make sure he couldnât get out.
Alex, who has autism spectrum disorder, says he was taken there more than a half-dozen times in first grade, for behavior such as ripping up paper or refusing to follow instructions in class. The room was supposed to calm him down. Instead, it terrified him.
âWhen I asked for help or asked if anyone was still there, nobody would answer,â Alex said. âI felt alone. I felt scared.â
According to the latest data collected by the U.S. Department of Education, public school districts reported restraining or secluding over 120,000 students during the 2015-2016 school year, most of them children with disabilities. Families and advocates have documented cases of students being pinned down, strapped to their wheelchairs, handcuffed or restrained in other ways. Both practices, experts say, can traumatize children, and may lead to severe injuries, even death.
Alex is determined to close the seclusion rooms for good. Last week, the 13-year-old told his story to legislators, congressional staff and advocates to mark the introduction of the Keeping All Students Safe Act, a bill that would bar the use of seclusion and significantly curtail the use of restraints in schools that receive federal funds. No federal law currently regulates the use of such practices on students.
âWe believe schools should have a safe environment for students to learn and grow,â said Rep. Bobby Scott of Virginiaâs 3rd Congressional District. Scott sponsored the legislation with fellow Democrat Rep. Don Beyer of Virginiaâs 8th District.
âItâs a civil rights issue,â added Scott, who serves as the ranking member of the House Committee on Education and the Workforce. âChildren should not be subjected to practices that are counterproductive, endangering their safety or health.â
Alex tried to keep the âcrisis roomâ a secret.
No laws required school administrators to tell his parents what was happening. Alex says the principal warned him that if he said anything, he would spend the rest of the year locked in the room.
But Alexâs parents said they could tell something was wrong. They noticed unexplained bruises on his knees. He became increasingly anxious. His father Sean Campbell, who works as a data specialist in a public school system, thought it was especially strange when Alex visited the school where he worked and asked where the children got âlocked up.â He stopped wanting to go to sleep.
âThatâs when it hit me,â Campbell, Alexâs father, said. âHe doesnât want to wake up because he doesnât want to go to school.â
Eventually, Alex broke.
âHe started babbling like crazy,â Campbell said. ââI canât go back to that room. I canât go back.ââ
The idea of the school not notifying them appalled Alexâs mother, Kelly Campbell, who has taught in public schools for 11 years. âIf a child falls on the playground and bumps their head, Iâm obligated to call the parents,â she said. âIâve been told that in every school Iâve worked with. Something like that could happen to Alex, and nobody has to know about it? Like itâs some dark secret?â
While a landmark piece of federal legislation called the Individuals With Disabilities Education Act, or IDEA, mandates that all students with disabilities are provided with a free public education tailored to meet their needs, regulations governing the use of restraint and seclusion in schools vary from state to state. Many states donât require school administrators to notify parents when their child is restrained or secluded. According to a recent analysis published by the Autism National Committee, only 28 states provide âmeaningful protections against restraint and seclusionâ for children, including those with disabilities.
[Image: The cover of the anthology Knowing Why: Adult-Diagnosed Autistic People on Life and Autism, edited by Elizabeth Bartmess and published by The Autistic Press. The cover shows the bright and variously coloured silhouettes of six differently sized autistic people and a service dog waving and looking at the viewer. The group is diverse: one person is using a wheelchair, one is using a cane, one has dwarfism, and two have natural Black hair. The background is a dark grey, the letters in the title Knowing Why are in a rainbow of colours that match the silhouettes, and there is a watercolor-like texture throughout the cover. End of image description.]
Hi friends! Hereâs an excerpt of my essay âAutistic Navigation of Chronic Illness, Mental Illness, and Healthcareâ. You can read it, along with eight other insightful and interesting essays, in the anthology Knowing Why: Adult-Diagnosed Autistic People on Life and Autism.
(Trigger warning on my essay for ableism, medical abuse, and bad doctors.)
Some of the topics covered include recovery from burnout, the intersection of Blackness and neurodivergence, and what autistic use of technology looks like. It is available on Amazon in the US and Canada, in paperback and for Kindle. You can find other places to buy it here: link
Excerpt below the break :)
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Ableists:Â You canât tell me the reason you did that was because you were autistic, Iâll just say youâre using that as an excuse. However, I am going to blame your autism on random things to make myself look like Iâm above you
Masterpost: Autism, Diagnosis, and Identity
Especially when writing in a modern real-world setting, one thing to take into account when thinking about your autistic character is their diagnosis status. Diagnosis might sound straightforward, but there are actually many things to take into account when talking about it. In this masterpost, you will find factual information about diagnoses - how they work, what they look like concretely, what are their shortcomings as well as some words about self-diagnosis - and questions to ask yourself when writing your autistic character.
What is autism, officially?
Autism is a complicated concept and we spend the majority of our time on this blog trying to explain it in a nuanced and multifaceted way. If you havenât read it already, we suggest reading this masterpost about how to write an autistic character. Another post we have helps specify what autism is; this post describes different functioning labels and why they arenât particularly beneficial or useful. The main thing to understand about functioning labels in the context of diagnosis is, generally, a diagnostician is required to specify levels of functioning in an autism diagnosis. The autistic community has a rather large definition of the concept, while the âofficialâ definition of who counts as autistic is somewhat narrower.
Diagnosing autism is often a difficult process. Since we donât know the source(s) of autism on a biological level, we canât do, for example, an easy test like a brain scan to check for autism with absolute certainty. As a consequence, a professional who wants to know whether or not someone should be diagnosed with autism will look at that personâs behavior first and foremost, and, if possible, will ask questions about their subjective experience. As a result, the diagnostic criteria focus exclusively on the personâs behavior.
Here are the DSM-V criteria, and here is a link to a PDF which lists stereotypical examples for each of the criteria. The DSM-V is used in many countries around the world as a reference to diagnose mental illnesses and other conditions, in most cases these are the criteria that will be used during diagnosis. Other classifications with other sets of criteria exist, such as the CIM-10 (which still recognizes Aspergerâs Syndrome and autism as separate diagnoses), are still in use in some countries.
A brief history of the DSM
The DSM is meant to describe all known mental illnesses recognized by the American Psychological Associationâs (APA). There have been five editions to date, and many changes have been made to which disorders and mental illnesses are considered valid and their criteria. These changes were made in response to new research about the mind in general or about specific disorders.
The DSM is written based on research published by mental health professionals (practicing therapists, psychology researchers and students of researchers, psychiatrists, doctors, etc.). To get research findings recognized by the APA, the findings must be replicated enough times across published literature that any reader can be confident in the conclusions made by researchers.
If enough research emerges which prompts the board of the APA to reconsider the way the criteria in the DSM are written, and enough criteria are changed that the current edition stops being clinically useful or relevant to research, the DSM gets rewritten, and a new edition published. There are many debates about what criteria to include and which diagnoses are considered valid. Some diagnoses are added, removed, or changed in new editions of the DSM. The currently accepted edition of the DSM is the DSM-5 (or DSM-V).
In the DSM-5, there were several major changes, including grouping together Aspergerâs Disorder, Autism, Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified, and related disorders into the broader category of Autism Spectrum Disorder. Some people were diagnosed with, for example, Aspergerâs Disorder before this change was made, but would now meet the criteria for Autism Spectrum Disorder. They do not need to get re-diagnosed, and mental health professionals can still take their diagnosis into consideration.
Here are some things to consider :
When and where was your character diagnosed? What was the diagnostic manual used during their diagnosis, and how does that affect their identity? You might find part of our functioning labels masterpost about Aspergerâs Syndrome useful for more detail about this specific diagnosis
Which diagnostic criteria does your character meet? Are there some criteria they donât meet? How did that influence the diagnostic process?
How diagnosis works
Diagnoses are given when someone comes to a professional/clinician with experiences causing them distress or impairment. Depending on the country, there are multiple professionals qualified to give diagnoses - doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, for example - and they have to collect evidence in order to make diagnoses. In order to do so, some researchers develop tests to help check whether someone meets diagnostic criteria, and standardize them to large groups of people to make sure the tests are valid, i.e. truly measure what the researcher wants the test to measure. These tests are then used to determine whether or not someone can be diagnosed, that is, whether or not they meet a sufficient number of criteria.
In general, a diagnosis is given if someone meets a certain number of criteria within the list. For an Autism Spectrum Disorder diagnosis, someone must meet the criteria of âpersistent deficits in social communication and social interaction across multiple contextsâ and ârestricted, repetitive patterns of behavior, interests, or activities.â They can meet these criteria currently or in their history, and the DSM-V mentions symptoms may be masked later in life, but must have shown up during early development. The symptoms must also cause distress or impairment and must not be better explained by a different disorder.
The diagnostic process itself can vary from country to country. Typically, there are two main phases to a diagnosis: first a screening, and then a full evaluation.
If parents, teachers, healthcare professionals or the person themselves suspect a child or adult is autistic, they will go to a professional, usually a pediatrician, psychiatrist or psychologist. Different screening tools can be used, depending on the context and the age of the person to be diagnosed. They include questionnaires filled out by the person or their relatives, guided interviews or short tests in which the person is asked to demonstrate a variety of behaviors. The Autism Quotient is an example of a screening tool for adults, the M-CHAT is a screening tool for children. You can download these tools as well as others on this page. The screening is usually a short process that doesnât last more than one hour. Different tools are used for children and for adults. In some places, children may be systematically screened at a certain age, at daycare, school or at a well child appointment.
If the screening shows that there is a possibility that the person is autistic, they will undergo a full evaluation. This evaluation is usually done by at least one, but up to a team of professionals which can include psychiatrists, psychologists, nurses, speech therapists, occupational therapists, psycho-motor therapists, etc. This is where the standardized tests are used. In most cases, the person will have to take at least a cognitive test (IQ test) and a test more specific to autism, in which their abilities in the domains of communication and social interactions, as well as specific autistic traits, are recorded, such as the ADOS. Here is a video where you can see an example of an ADOS test for a child. Family members might be questioned about the early childhood of the individual as well as their daily life. This phase of diagnosis is a lot more involved and can span several days.
After diagnosis, the professional will meet with the person who was being diagnosed and/or their parents to explain the results in detail. This is also usually the point where treatment/management plans will be discussed, focusing on the areas of need discovered during diagnosis. For example, if the person showed lots of sensory difficulties but no problem with speech, they might be advised to go see an occupational therapist rather than a speech therapist. This is a link which discusses what a diagnosis process can look like for an older child or teenager.Â
This description of how diagnoses are given does not have to match your story, especially if the setting is different. Itâs a guideline, and you can do more research and thinking on what this process may look like in your story. Here are some questions you can consider during this process:
Where does your story take place - a certain country, a different planet, a fantasy setting? Are there mental health professionals there, or some kind of doctor? If the place exists, what diagnostic processes are common there? If it doesnât, what can you imagine a diagnostic process would look like? Is their concept of autism similar to ours? What are the differences and how do they reflect on the diagnostic process?
When is your character diagnosed? If on earth, you may look up what mental health resources were available in the past, or imagine what mental health resources would be available in the future. If somewhere else, how do you imagine diagnostic tools evolved? Are there diagnostic tools at the time of your story? Is someone trying to build a process of diagnosis? Do the clinicians in your story know what autism is?
If you wish to narrate in your story the diagnosis scene itself, here are some resources.This Musings of an Aspie blog post is about getting professionally diagnosed as an adult. Another resource is this ~14 minute youtube video weighing the pros and cons of seeking autism diagnosis as an adult, including some personal anecdotes. This is a video that was made to explain children what will happen to them during an autism assessment.
Here are some things to ask yourself:
If the character being diagnosed is a child, how well do they understand what is going on and happening to them? What have they been told about the testing? How do they feel about it now, if youâre writing from the perspective of an adult reminiscing?
How do they feel during diagnosis? Are they scared? Overwhelmed? Do they find the testing difficult or easy? What do they think of the professionals diagnosing them?
What are they told about their diagnosis after the testing? How do they feel about it? Do their feelings change over time? Is any treatment/intervention/therapy plan started? If so, how does the diagnosed person feel about this process? Does it help them? Does it stigmatize autism?
 The mess of professional diagnosis
Diagnosing autism is very difficult, for several reasons:
Thereâs huge territories of symptom overlap and comorbidity between autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other neurodivergences, which makes differential diagnosis complex and not always successful.
Individual autistic traits, such as atypical social communication, sensory problems, executive dysfunction, etc. may also be seen in an individual without them being autistic.
Autism diagnosis is based on behavior and on external observation of this behavior. Its neurological sources arenât clear and there is no easy, yes-or-no test. A lot will depend on the subjective point of view of the diagnostician, even though standardized tests help make the process more consistent.
Many people have learned to mask and hide their autistic traits, potentially making outside observation of these traits - if necessary to the diagnostic process - more difficult.Â
Autism has been studied more and is more well-known in some subtypes of the population (i.e. white, male children). That stereotype frames the public mentality, and that affects the mentalities of psychologists and neurologists studying and diagnosing autism. People that donât fit this archetype may have a harder time getting diagnosed.
Diagnoses are made to be standardized enough that people halfway across the world will, hopefully, be talking about the same disorder or disease as a different doctor/psychologist/researcher. This is usually a good thing, but it can also mean that some people who have more atypical profiles (because of unusual identities, comorbidities, upbringingsâŠ) can sometimes be missed during the diagnosis process. It is also worth keeping in mind that the criteria evolve very regularly; someone who isnât included now could be in ten years, and vice-versa.
People change. Someone who would have definitely been diagnosed as a child might not fit the criteria as an adult. This doesnât mean theyâve stopped being autistic or been âcuredâ, it just means their traits have evolved as theyâve found better coping tools. Whether thatâs the case or not, getting a diagnosis as an adult is often a lot more difficult. Not a lot of research has been done about what autistic adults are like. There can be fewer groups of mental health professionals open to giving autism diagnoses to adults; these specialists are less knowledgeable about it, and might be reluctant in many cases to give a diagnosis that could be marginalizing for the person.
These are all reasons that make diagnosis difficult and could lead to a misdiagnosis (or even to a refusal of even starting the diagnosis process). Misdiagnosis in very, very common, especially in women and in people who were diagnosed as adults. This is one of the many reasons that could lead someone to self-diagnose.
Something to take into consideration is the history of autism in the DSM, and how mental health professionals may use or misuse it for diagnosis. Originally, autism was thought to be a different form of schizophrenia (sometimes it was called Childhood Schizophrenia) because the children brought to clinicians for evaluations were noticing and being affected by sensory experiences which most people werenât. Eventually clinicians noticed the diagnosed individuals did not truly meet the criteria for schizophrenia, though even today clinicians still confuse these diagnoses. Many autistic people can meet criteria for ADHD, and some people mistake the hyperfixations and sometimes rigid preferences of autistics for obsessions and compulsions of someone with OCD.
Here are some things to think about:
Was your characterâs diagnosis story straightforward, or did they have to undergo misdiagnoses and referrals before finally being diagnosed? (Common misdiagnoses are OCD, ADHD, BPD, or schizophrenia, though these can also be co-morbid)
Did their symptoms look to a diagnostician like they could meet a diagnosis different from autism? Did your character have any other psychological conditions which affected the diagnostic process?
How confident was the professional making the diagnosis? Did any of your characterâs identities, comorbidities or behaviors make diagnosis more difficult?
The process of self-diagnosis
Some people do not have access to a professional diagnosis. Some examples of barriers to diagnosis are:
Doctor/psychologist visits and hours spent evaluating can be a very expensive process, and not everyone has insurance or enough money to pay for this.
Some parts of the world do not have enough medical care available to people because there are not enough doctors for the population. Long waiting lists and overworked doctors may prevent someone from wanting to seek diagnosis. General doctors may not specialize in psychology, and feel under-prepared to properly screen for autism.
Many people have learned to mask their symptoms. There are many pressures from society to fit in, and autistics are often forced to learn to look ânormalâ - by parents or peers. Many who have learned to mask have a hard time relaxing and acting more naturally.
Some clinicians have very conservative screening standards and refuse to evaluate if a client/patient does not meet expected criteria for the screen (i.e. missing social cues, avoiding eye contact, âatypicalâ vocal patterns).
While professional diagnosis can be validating and provide a path to accessing resources and accommodations, some do not want a professional diagnosis at all. Usually the reason someone might avoid receiving a diagnosis is stigma. If a parent or other adult is responsible for and has access to the individualâs healthcare records, they may not trust that person to treat them well. They might be afraid of discrimination or disempowerment by healthcare providers, workplaces and the government (for adoption for instance). They may feel isolated if they receive the diagnosis. Others may not want it because they feel confident in their self-knowledge and want to avoid the expense. Parents may avoid getting their children diagnosed because they donât want them separated into different classrooms in school, or may not have the money for healthcare.
A person seeking self-diagnosis may have an experience which gets them thinking about autism and recognizing themselves in that label and people associated with it. For example, the individual may have met someone autistic and related to them like no-one they had ever met before. Perhaps a caregiver anecdotally mentioned to them it was a possibility. Finding the diagnostic criteria for autism spectrum disorder is relatively easy online, and some start by reading about the criteria. Most people who self-diagnose spend a lot of time researching autism as well as other neurodivergences, reading writing by autistic authors about their experiences, taking tests online, etc. Some self-diagnosed autistic people may end up knowing as much, if not more, about their condition as most professionals.
Self-diagnosis also usually comes with a lot of self-doubt, âimpostor syndromeâ and changes of mind. Lack of recognition by healthcare professionals, lack of access to accommodations and benefits, and gate-keeping are all experiences frequently associated with self-diagnosis.
If your character is self-diagnosed, ask yourself :
Why isnât your character professionally diagnosed? Do they wish to be one day? Have they tried to get a professional diagnosis without success? If so, how do they feel about it?
How confident is your character in their self-diagnosis? Did they do a lot of research? How did that make them feel? Do they have an accepting community, whether locally or online? Do they have to deal with others gate-keeping because they lack an official diagnosis?
Are there some accommodations, therapies or benefits your character needs but canât obtain without diagnosis? How does it impact their life?
Diagnosis & Identity
Think about your characterâs journey with diagnosis, and how it impacts their identity, how they feel about themselves and how they think of themselves.
At what age were they diagnosed?
Did they have an active role in the diagnostic process; did they seek it out? Did they accept it or resist it?
How did their diagnosis or lack thereof affect their education/work experience? Did they receive accommodations? Were they kept from doing certain things because others believed they couldnât?
How did their diagnosis or lack thereof affect the development of coping skills?
How did they learn about autism? If diagnosed as a child, were they told about their diagnosis? In what terms? If not, how did they find out? How did it make them feel? What impact did this have on their choice to identify as autistic (another way to think about this was, were they in denial because of shame or some other reason, or did they rejoice in finally having an explanation for their experiences? Or something in between)? How did they react to their diagnosis or lack thereof?
Who, if anyone, are they comfortable telling? Did anyone find out who the character didnât want to know? Did their parents tell someone, if applicable? Does anyone know about their diagnosis/identity, officially confirmed or otherwise?
Do they interact with other autistics - online or in person? Do they have autistic friends? Do they feel part of a community, autistic/neurodivergent or otherwise?
What makes them feel included or not? What makes them feel similar or dissimilar to other autistics, or to the stereotype of how autism is perceived by the public and/or their community?
Are there moments of doubt about their diagnosis?
If officially diagnosed, how long did that process take? Are they currently seeking diagnosis?
Does your character encounter stigma as a result of their diagnosis or lack thereof?
These questions can help you think about your characterâs experience. Diagnosis is tricky business. I hope this provides some nuanced ideas on diagnosis of autism and autistic identity.
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how can you have autism and have a disability?
*stares into the camera*
I donât even know what this question is. I'm baffled. Is it some subtle ableism, like, âautism isnât a disabilityâ? âCause it totally is. Are they doubting that itâs possible to be more than one kind of disabled at once? In which case, googling âcomorbidityâ would blow anonâs mind. In all my travels I have never known an autistic person who is otherwise completely typical. Anxiety, PTSD, Depression, IBS, ME/CFS, EDS⊠There are so many common co-occurring conditions in the autistic community.
Hhhhh autism isnât a disability
Hi. Autism is most certainly a disability.
Itâs interesting to me that you say in your tags âitâs a disorder, not a disabilityâ when so many autistic people have long identified more as disabled then disordered.
I think itâd be helpful for you to read up on the medical and social models of disability. The social model of disability isnât wholly applicable to every disabled experience out there, but itâs very applicable to autistic experience. The world is built by and for non-autistic people. This disables autistic people. In this way, many autistic people consider themselves disabled (by neuronormative society, by ableism) but not inherently disorderedâ that is, wrong, defective, non-functioning.Â
And I mean, identify how you want! But donât go telling people stuff that isnât true any way you cut it, and actually doesnât make sense when applied to the entire autistic community and its history.Â
Autism is Not a disorder. It's a neurodevelopmental disability. The social model of disability says that we're disabled by society which refuses to accommodate us. People who need glasses technically have a disability. They get accommodated though. Imagine if we accommodated autism like we do vision impairment (not to erase folks whose vision cannot be corrected with glasses, they deserve accommodation too)
[Image Description: two tweets. Daniel Lawson writes, âDisabled parking should only be valid during business hours 9 to 5 Monday to Friday. I cannot see any reason why people with genuine disabilities would be out beyond these times.â Jennifer Lee Rossman responds, âWeâre disabled, Daniel, weâre not werewolves.â]
Being an autistic person with an autistic kid be like:
1. âHoney, stop chewing the straws, get your chew dinosaur instead.â
*kid points at my face. I realize Iâm chewing a straw too*
âOh, oops. Iâll go get my chew too.â
2. Hopping and flapping in the kitchen together
3. âMom, this song makes my teeth hurt!â
âOkay, Iâll change it.â
4. âGood Fuzzy! Try it!â (Sharing Good Textures)
5. âDo you feel like giving nana a hug?â
âNoâ
âWill you wave to her then?â
âOkay!â
Parents hashtagging or tagging a post #autismsucks are basically saying their kids suck.
You know what sucks as much as the people who tag / hashtag their posts #autismsucks?Â
Realizing that, as an autistic person, I live in a world that for the most part wants me to stop being autistic because my needs are an inconvenience.
Existing in a world that largely refuses to accommodate my needs in even the smallest ways, then tells me Iâm being disruptive when I stim or have a meltdown due to the lack of accommodations.
Having neurotypical / allistic parents dictate autism to me and tell me I donât know what Iâm talking about when I talk about being autistic because my internal experiences donât match their tragedy narrative.
Seeing neurotypical / allistic parents make their childâs autism all about themselves to the point of putting autism first in their identityâŠand then they turn around with a sickly sweet smile and tell me I should use person first language.
Hearing nonverbal autistic people who need extensive daily help and canât make their communications understood being talked about using the most dehumanizing language possible by their caregiversâ usually in attempt to shut down autistic self-advocates who can communicate understandably in any form.
Reading posts by a person who thinks autistic / disabled people who need extensive daily help donât deserve a better quality of life via organ transplants or any kind of treatment for comorbid issues that often trigger difficult behaviors, such as pain, tingling, seizures, itchiness, swelling, nausea, hallucinations, changes in sensory perception, digestive issues, acid reflux, etc.
Getting dismissed when I call out the harm parents are causing to autistic people (especially their autistic child) by posting videos or writing detailed blog entries about meltdowns / behavior emergencies without getting the autistic personâs consent.
Being disgusted by parents who subject their autistic children to abusive âtreatmentsâ because when youâre autistic abuse is therapy.
Watching people support Autism Speaks despite numerous autistic people speaking out about the harm that organization has caused us.
Knowing that nothing I say about autism will ever hold as much weight or be taken as seriously as what a neurotypical / allistic person says about autism.
Thatâs what sucks.
#ActuallyAutistic
PLEASE READ, THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT
Allism is a terrible condition that afflicts billions of people around the world, and impacts us all daily. As many as 67 out of 68 people may have some form of allism!
Some common symptoms of allism include:
Insistence on following a rigid set of social rules. People with allism may become agitated or angry when others do not conform to their limited understanding of how social interactions should work.
Manipulating others for no reason. People with allism see trust as a weakness, and will cruelly take advantage of highly trusting people for their own amusement.
Inability to develop relationships with people they view as âdifferentâ from themselves. People with allism have very limited ego development, and thus will protect their ego by viewing people who are different from them as âlesserâ. This can also lead them to treat others unfairly.
Inability to understand thought processes that differ from their own. People with allism assume that everyone thinks exactly the same as them, and when it becomes clear that this is not the case, they will label other people as âcrazyâ, âstupidâ, âr*tardedâ, âidiotâ, âdelusionalâ, and other offensive terms. They may even come to believe that people who think differently, do not think at all!
Of course, not every person with allism will have all these symptoms; allism is a spectrum! With the right help, higher functioning individuals can learn to overcome these symptoms and become truly helpful members of society. The low functioning ones, however, need our help even more. Allism charities around the world are raising money for allism research. Scientists are working hard to discover causes and treatments for the disorder. But they canât do it without our financial support!
Tell your friends and family that allism awareness month is February, and make sure to find out what allism awareness events will be happening near you. Join us on our annual #march4allism fundraiser on allism awareness day. Allism awareness day is February 14th, to draw attention to the difficult people with allism have forming truly loving bonds.
Help us solve the allism puzzle!
To other autistic people, how do you feel when/if people tell others youâre autistic without your permission?
I am in the position of what amounts to being a professional autistic self-advocate and autistic community and autism community advocate and educator.
My life is an open book.
I tell people I'm Autistic. All the time. And then I give brief primers on why I might do certain things that allistics probably think are weird. Like avoid eye contact, or move my fingers really fast while they're talking. Or perseverate on a subject.