EVERY MAN WE KNOW IS NOT BISEXUAL!!
So let's be discrete and cautious so as not to give way to our panic
and
imagination. We have to be as shrewd and undetectable as they are
because the
signs are very very subtle, very slight, and very low key. Some of he
signs to
look for and observe are:
1) Men are very territorial, if another man enters their space or
violates their square, he'll move away or take a step back, if he
doesn't move this might be a sing that he's open for getting closer.
Notice if they brush shoulders or lean over across each other
touching ever so slightly – like lovers do.
2) Is he effeminate? Some men slowly move into a more feminine stand,
or pose. They might start wearing their belts tighter to show their
shape, or it might just be the flinging up of a finger or how they
place their feet when standing. Or they may start wearing footies
around the house and walking on their toes. It's doubtful they'll
slip and do any of this.
3) If he holds eye contact too long with a man, or if he holds on to
his hand after shaking it, or if he prolongs hugging a man past the
greeting stage.
4) If you notice him watching other men just a little bit too much,
or if he raises his voice a bit too loud when he's with you and other
men are present to get their attention. Does he seem to follow a man
to the restroom at a restaurant or club?
5) Check out his friends, how do they act with each other, are they
masculine or working hard to appear so, do they talk on the phone a
bit too much for two adult men?
6) How does he sleep at night, what position does he sleep in? Does
he sleep like a woman, or like a man? What does he talk about in his
sleep?
7) Has he been single just a bit too long? What is his history with
women? Why did they break up, Does he go on long drives alone? Is he
cruising?
8) Discuss homosexuality with him, see how he reacts. If he reacts
too strongly on the negative or too violently – perhaps he's
protesting so strongly to throw you off track so he isn't suspect
himself.
9) Discuss child molestation with him and see how he feels about it,
ask him was he ever molested, does he know any men who were, and how
does he think it affects a man's sexuality.
10) You can touch his rectum to see if he has those tale-tale humps
on his anus from having it stretched open with a penis. Then later on
ask him if he's ever had hemorrhoids really bad.
11) Check his underwear for tiny streaks of bloodstains, or clear
stains which may be semen. There may not be any because men on the DL
are usually `Tops' so they can justify themselves as not being Gay.
12) Chart your sex life. Note how often you and he are intimate and
if you're always the one who has to start the process rolling. Is he
in a hurry? Is it a problem for him getting an maintaining an
erection, when it never used to be that difficult?
13) If he has a lot of unexcused absences, and if he's out later than
he usually is a couple of times a week. He might be cruising or
stopping by a Gay after-hour joint after his regular activities.
14) If he likes anal stimulation, or likes to have his prostrate
massaged – and asks/begs for it.
15) If he wants to have anal sex more than vaginal sex, or skips your
vagina altogether.
16) If he asks you to "toss his salad" and you agree, and his legs go
up too quickly, he's probably used to doing it.
17) Some women get their Gay friend to "hit" on their man to see if
he goes for it (Not good).
18) If he asks you to strap on a dildo and do him in the rear this
may be a hint of what he's used to.
Don't starts accusing until you know you've seen several signs,
discussed it with a counselor or some other trained professional.
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