getting a diagnosis should not have to be an actual fight and yet a majority of the time it is

tannertan36
Monterey Bay Aquarium
The Stonewall Inn

PR's Tumblrdome

izzy's playlists!
Jules of Nature

Origami Around
2025 on Tumblr: Trends That Defined the Year
official daine visual archive
noise dept.
trying on a metaphor

blake kathryn

ellievsbear
No title available
TVSTRANGERTHINGS
🪼
Noah Kahan
Mike Driver

❣ Chile in a Photography ❣
EXPECTATIONS

seen from Germany

seen from Malaysia
seen from Colombia

seen from Türkiye

seen from Malaysia
seen from Belgium
seen from India

seen from Türkiye
seen from Saudi Arabia

seen from Italy
seen from Russia

seen from Algeria
seen from Netherlands

seen from Poland
seen from Argentina
seen from Malaysia
seen from Netherlands
seen from Israel
seen from United Kingdom

seen from Netherlands
@avotica
getting a diagnosis should not have to be an actual fight and yet a majority of the time it is
does anybody know how to get out of bed. or be a better person
wow
Galaxies are yurinating...
don't say it like that
He's enjoying Wednesday night
He's enjoying Wednesday night
He's enjoying Wednesday night
literally a cartoon bad guy
Disclosure Day (2026)
I'm still thinking about the guy who saw me realize my wheelchair wouldn't fit in the elevator because he (also a wheelchair user) was already inside it and immediately quipped, "This elevator ain't accessible enough for the both of us."
if they're gonna remake The Princess Bride, it should open with a kid sick in bed scrolling on his phone. his grandpa arrives with a gift--it's a DVD player with a disc already inside. grandpa hooks it up to the TV and presses play. and we all just watch the original 1987 film again.
then & now ♡
What is that
idk man I'm thinking a lot about the discourse being reported in this post and my own post about crushes, which has garnered a lot of responses like this one
and I don't know exactly what to do with this yet but I'm fascinated, in a really upsetting way, by the way some of these people seem to conceptualize romantic and/or sexual attraction as an act of violation that no one should do to people they like and care about. if nothing else it raises some really compelling questions about what they think actually goes on between people who have sex and/or romantic bonds with each other if that's not supposed to be something that happens between friends.
normal stuff happening in the replies
oh my god I'm doing patriarchy now
This just in, "having feelings, regardless of how or whether you act upon them, is an aggressive, patriarchal act." 🙄
Saying this as gently as possible: if you have any of the above reactions to finding out that someone has romantic feelings for you, that's on you, not on them, and your reactions are both evidence of trauma and not something you should encourage in yourself. Please seek help and healing.
I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.
tags by nothorses
Jenny Slate, Stage Fright (2019)
Ugly, Bitter, and True by Suzanne Rivecca
John Mulaney on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert (2020)
“Robin Williams and Why Funny People Kill Themselves” by David Wong
letters from Medea, salma deera
Pigeon Purse, a free crochet pattern designed by Emma Manos on Ravelry.
it kills me because in anti-piracy discourse people will so often be like "okay yeah people in the global south can't afford books but i'm talking about people in rich countries who CAN afford them obviouslyyyy" well those people in the global south are getting arrested by the companies and policies you're caping for so i'm afraid you can't just wave away such a big chunk of the picture
if you'd like to share, what is your favorite piece of queer literature of all time? no matter what genre, fiction or non fiction, whatever, just your subjective personal all time favorite. or a top three if you can't pick one? i love this blog so much, and you do such a wonderful job of giving a platform to such diverse queer perspectives. i've come to trust your taste and would love to hear what you personally really love. ♥️
Thank you so much for saying that! It means a lot to me to hear that. I was also able to immediately figure out my list as soon as I saw this question today, so I am excited to share! In no particular order:
The Bone People
Keri Hulme
This book really moved me in it's depictions of restorative justice, queer chosen family, asexual identity, and spirals are now a part of my own spiritual practice because of this book.
Beyond the Pale
Elana Dykewomon
The best queer historical fiction that I have ever read. It has an earthy and intense understanding of queer history that most books can't comprehend.
Dear Senthuran
Akwaeke Emezi
This book understood something about me that I still have yet to comprehend. Cannot sing its' praises enough.
Also I know no one asked, but as a bonus, my favourite non-queer book that I have ever read:
Right Story, Wrong Story
Tyson Yunkaporta
This book challenged my understandings of truth and storytelling. I would recommend it to anyone who prioritizes stories and storytelling in their own lives.
*Affiliate links above*
this sucks so bad i need to [remembers suicide jokes only worsen my mental health] put on the best talent show this towns ever seen
guys this post is a big hit on the adolescent psych ward