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ladyhawke

Raúl Esparza as David Alvarez – A MURDER AT THE END OF THE WORLD

kuntsuragi

happy anniversary to the greatest thing that ever came out of this fucking website

melosprout-deactivated20230318

Ghosts of the Valley

quietparanoiac

I'm okay, actually.

The Witcher (2019–), 3x04

wav48k

i hate dogs with blue eyes. why is fucking jeff the killer at my back door

wav48k

Do you need something.

wav48k

before this starts getting notes i have to add that this is not my dog. i dont know how he got in my backyard

in case there are still any barmaro stans alive Raúl Esparza and Danny Pino play boyfriends in a fiction podcast telenovela called Princess of South Beach that is going to be adapted into a Netflix show

#barmaro #raúl esparza #danny pino #princess of south beach

thehmn

I’m not a fan of soap operas/telenovelas/KDrama but I do like comedy/parody versions of them so Princess of South Beach has become my favorite podcast to listen to while walking my dogs.

I love how all the characters are bastards (some more than others) but the writers still manage to make you feel sorry for them.

Like the married couple Luisa and Esteban. They’re by far the worst people but they also suffer from the worst trauma. Luisa because her father was extremely abusive and Esteban because he was put through torturous gay conversion therapy as a teen. Now they’re trying to keep up appearances as a perfect, Catholic family while Luisa is chasing after young men (including her daughter’s love interests) and Esteban has a secret affair with their future son-in-law’s father, Nacho. Nacho only started the affair to get money from Esteban but has started falling in love with him which could ruin everything because Esteban will get rid of him if it becomes anything other than physical.

That of course doesn’t even scratch the surface of the intrigue and drama and I smile like an idiot every time a new twist is revealed.

hefellfordean

I don’t care who you prefer and what are you doing in your bed.

One of Martin's sex scenes you wrote looks like a scene from a book. So I asked you, did you come up with all the scenes, or did draw inspiration/copied it from somewhere? And you didn't have to act like an asshole.

that’s not what you asked tho… you sent a weird ask about what i fantasise about - you need to understand that even if you have good intentions they don’t always come across. if you had said “hey x scene you wrote reminds me of one in a book” that would be a clear question. the way you phrased your first ask came off creepy and i’m not obligated to be nice to every stranger on the internet who send me asks involving sex

hefellfordean

in case you don’t remember, this is what your original ask said… tell me how that is even close to what you’re now claiming to have asked

awallflowerstuff

learn how to write questions before making them, what you said and you you now claim you mean are two VERY different things so quit being an asshole and get out of Ellen's asks

sallywinters14

* Benson picking some files from Amanda’s desk *

Amanda : Thanks, Mom … Why is everyone staring at me ?

Kat : You just called Captain Benson Mom; you said thanks, mom.

Amanda : What? No, I didn’t. I said thanks, Man.

Olivia : Do you see me as a mother figure, Rollins?

Amanda : No, if anything, I see you as a bother figure, ‘cause you’re always bothering me.

Finn : Hey! You show your mom some respect!

Amanda : I didn’t call her mom!

Olivia : No, no. Amanda, I take it as a compliment.

Sonny : It’s not a big deal. I called Barba dad once and he’s my boyfriend.

Amanda : Guys, jump on that. Carsi has psycho-sexual issues.

Kat : Old news. But you calling Benson Mommy.

Amanda : Hey, mommy is not on the table.

Suspect : Well, you did call her mom, girl.

Amanda : You shut up. You’ve done nothing but lie since you got here.

another-exclus

Everything is like “QUEER history” and “List of QUEER young adult books” or “Top 10 QUEER movies” and queer this and queer that and for the love of god please just say LGBT.

But queer is more inclusive

a-tired-humanist

And faster to pronounce if you are talking instead of writing.

another-exclus

It’s not more inclusive, and if your excuse of using a slur as a blanket term is “it’s faster to say”, GENUINELY what is wrong with you

a-tired-humanist

It’s called economía del lenguaje.

It’s also the respected academic term?? The acronym isn’t static and it’s usage is varied by things like generational difference, location, and knowledge of the community. Even just in the U.S. in the last few decades the common usage gone from GLBT to LGBT to LGBTQ, to LGBTQA/LGBTQIA/LGBTQIAP/etc (Which, let me tell you as someone who has given presentations in the past using these updated acronyms, are all real mouthfulls), to LGBT+.

Also yes, queer is more inclusive! Especially coming at it from an academic standpoint, people didn’t always use or identify with the terms we use now and you can’t always try to cram them into our modern perceptions of sexuality. We can argue for years about whether a famous historical figure was gay or bisexual or straight and trans or whatever, but if we can all agree that they were somehow queer then using that term allows us to move past the debate and into productive discussion. And not everybody everywhere shares the same terms for sexual and gender identity, or even the same concepts of those things, so queer really is a more inclusive term in a lot of cases.

Like yeah if you’re talking specifically about gay or trans people you can just say gay or transgender, but if you’re talking about more than one identity or someone who doesn’t conform to our perceptions of ‘LGBT,’ or a person or people whose identity you don’t know, queer is just the better word.

jabberwockypie

“That’s SO gay”, “Oh my god, you’re not a LESBIAN, are you?”

Your words are slurs, too. Why do you get your words, but I don’t get mine? What makes you so special?

I’m here, I’m queer, go fuck yourself.

levynite

queer is not a slur, stop drinking the TERF koolaid

darthsuki

matronofthevoid

every time one of you fools spout about ‘queer is a slur’ a terf laughs because their fucking plan to make that word ‘taboo’ is fucking working you dipshit.

letmetellyouaboutmyfeels

I did not get my degree in queer literature for you all to keep pulling this bullshit.

moki-dokie

baby gays,,,, i beg of you to learn your queer history and stop listening to terf bullshit

every single one of our labels has been used as a slur against us.

terfs and -phobes are always going to try and hurt us with what we identify as. but the fact remains these are OUR labels and always have been.

we’re here, we’re queer, get used to it.

hyperactivehedgehog

I don’t know if this is just because I’m not American but I’ve never heard queer used as a slur. Ever. Meanwhile gay was the insult in the 2000s here. Everything you didn’t like was ‘soo gay’. Queer wasn’t even a word most of us knew back then.

It just baffled me that people would think an identifier is automatically a slur just because someone uses it to mock someone. If we did that gay would be a slur. Stupid would be a slur. Autistic would be a slur.

The reason people are upset about the word queer is that it’s a unifying term. You can say you’re queer and all people will know is that you’re part of the community. But you can’t say you’re LGBT, you have to say you’re gay or trans or ace. They don’t want you to be ambiguously queer. They want you to say which kind of queer you are so they can decide whether you’re undesirable.

tapacamino

yeah in the 90s and early 2000s kids would call each other “gay” as an insult. But no one ties themselves in knots over whether “gay” is a slur. So yeah, please ffs learn your history.