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The Feminine Hostess’ Guide to Fragrance
When I started my femininity journey, I had no idea where to start. I remember watching all these videos that talked about femininity and external part femininity and they all mentioned one common point: fragrance.
I started studying fragrances and getting familiar with different notes that are in some of my favorite fragrances, and the most popular fragrances around the world. I learned that not every fragrance is going to match your body chemistry, so it really is a trial and error process, but it is so worth it.
Men literally become intoxicated by the smell of a woman. There is so much power in a fragrance that in my opinion, it is something that cannot be skipped.
I discovered that warm notes agree with my body chemistry more than anything so ambers, pink peppers, vanillas, and other woody, natural, sweet notes.
I’m the type of woman who loves smelling good all day, and I love for my scent to stay with a person even after I’ve left a room. Pre-quarantine, I loved giving hugs (I still do, but I’m cautious and respectful of people’s space) and I was always complimented on how amazing I smelled.
I want to share some of my favorite fragrances I have in my collection, as well as the videos I watched to learn about fragrances. I’m not going to lie, I do not mind investing in my fragrances at all! But I do have some more budget friendly scents if you’re just starting in your fragrance journey.
Before we begin: Ladies, let me know what some of your favorite fragrances are. I’m always open to adding to my collection.
Some tips to smell good all day:
- Layer your scents. If you can find a fragrance that comes in a balm, lotion, or skin creme, you increase the longevity of that fragrance on your skin. It also makes it easier to reapply as needed through out the day.
- Go for Eau De Parfums (EDPs) over Eau De Toilettes (EDTs). EDPs have a high scent concentration than EDTs, so if you’ve ever wondered why it seems your EDT fragrances seem to just disappear off your skin as soon as you put it on, that might be a reason. Make the switch, you’ll get so much more out of your scent.
- Refresh your scent every 5-6 hours. The only perfume I have ever worn that lasted through a whole gala, and a shower was L’Heure Mysterieuse by Cartier. (Seriously, that perfume is no joke. I’ve only ever worn it once.) Now, most other perfumes won’t be as strong and will need reapplication throughout the day. I made a point in my first tip to get your fragrances in lotions, but I also recommend getting your fragrances in smaller sizes if available. If your desired perfume doesn’t already come in a smaller size for purchase, just purchase an atomizer and you’ll be able to fill it with your desired fragrance.
My favorite fragrances in my collection (over $100):
- Si Passione by Giorgio Armani
- Black Opium by YSL (I know it’s pretty common, but it is still a favorite)
- Good Girl by Carolina Herrera
- Angel by Thierry Mugler
- By the Fireplace by Maison Margiela
- Jasmine Musk by Tom Ford
- Santal Blush by Tom Ford
My favorite fragrances in my collection (under $100):
- Hypnotic Poison by Dior
- Bronze Goddess by Estee Lauder (my favorite fragrance for the summer time, it’s mouth watering)
- Secret Genius by Pinrose
- Gilded Fox by Pinrose
- Very Sexy by Victoria’s Secret
-Tease EDP by Victoria’s Secret
My favorite fragrance YouTubers to watch:
- Eva Monoroe
- Cheraye C Lewis
- Edwige A La Mode (not a fragrance YouTuber, but I love her collection)
- Karina Waldron
- Mila Le Blanc
Ladies you are single until you're married. Men expect husband priviliges during the dating stage while providing next to nothing. You don't share his income, his house etc because he's not obligated to give that to you. He'll give that and more to his wife. Furthermore don't move in with any man until you're married. If you live together he has to marry you first otherwise he won't bother proposing, ever. Why would he? He gets all the benefits of a "wife" except he can leave her out of the blue and leave her with nothing. A girlfriend isn't a wife. Living together without being married =/= commitment.
Don’t be stupid.
All men know that they need money to have quality women.
They reference it in rap songs. They discuss it over beers after a 12 hour day at their financial investing jobs. They whine on the internet about gold diggers. They fantasize about someday flashing their wealth to girls who previously rejected them. They over-compliment women who stay with broke dudes. They envy men who can spoil women and call it an “unfair advantage.” They suggest dinner dates to girls they find high quality and “Netflix and chill?” to girls they don’t. They complain about women only liking them for money. They complain about women only liking other men for their money. They entice women into conversations and dates with drinks, gifts, and experiences. They reference their job and/or salary when flirting.
Every man has a different relationship with the fact.
But all men know it to be a fact.
Date Ideas
Hell Yes: Day spa Lunch or dinner followed by shopping Luxury hotel stay Vineyard tour Pottery/painting class Casino to gamble his money Really anywhere bets are placed Gallery that has a great shop and restaurant (I love art books as gifts) Yacht sailing Dinner on a yacht Country Club Custom fragrance shopping Gala Film Festival / exclusive screening Networking or charity event Art tours / open houses Ski / snow trip The theatre Jet/small plane/helicopter ride Exclusive tasing menu with a popular chef
Hell No: Coffee date Anywhere he won’t pay for an uber/cab to Road trip Any sports/exercise classes Hikes Your place His place Netflix and chill Movie Comedy show / stand up Home cooked meal Less than $$$ restaurant or bar
Hypergamy rules
A man’s words mean nothing. His actions mean everything.
Don’t nag, find another better man to do the job, competition breeds perfection.
You’re not competing with other women, your competing with yourself.
No man will live in your head rent free, have a roster of at least 3 guys.
Never give up your hobbies, plans or ambitions for a man. Ever.
Never stop improving-physically (gym, procedures, surgery) mentally (school, tutors, learning languages, reading), emotionally (reading, therapy, medication), and financially (paying down debt, investments, real estate, savings, stocks, bonds, etc)
A stingy men are just as bad as broke men.
Closed mouths don’t get fed.
Restaurant first dates only.
You’re single until married.
Goes without saying but
No sex until a relationship and commitment has been established.
(No broke men. Duh.)
If you haven’t already, I urge you to read this book! And again... and again and take notes! Implement it into your life! Ginnie Sayles is a genius and knows what she is talking about, she managed to do it and knows allll the tips and tricks!
Got some updates and some more posts coming soon my dolls!
Okay I’m finally getting back into the bowl properly, since it’s been awhile I was wondering which sites if any are any good? I used to use Seeking. I want to use tinder and bumble too I think! Need to do some more research lol I feel like a newbie again 😂 I know and I’m confident in how to act and what to do once I meet and start up with these men, I just don’t know how best to find them!
Trusting an SD and Oversharing..
Do not...
I repeat... Do not share personal things with an SD who is emotionally into you...
Most of them imagine they want to know and push to know more... But freak out or get too damn emotional
And when I say personal, I don't mean. Your name or address etc...
I mean personal things going on in your life. Or past... Etc..
POT First Date Attire
When being a SB your hair, makeup, and outfit must always be on point. The 1st date is extremely important. The 1st date determines if he wants to see you again.
Hair
I highly recommend having a hairstylist friend. This friend can not only help you with styling, coloring, and maintaining your hair but also with getting salon quality products at a fraction of the price. I’m a hairstylist and buy all my product and tools at CosmoProf (a store for licensed cosmetologist). I get products and tools at about at least 50% off. So make friends with your hairstylist!
My hair is naturally curly (3b). When going out on a date I either leave my hair naturally curly and style it in a pigtail half up half down style. Or I give myself a blowout and curl my hair with a wand. You can style your hair whatever way you think looks best. If your not sure what to do loose curls/waves is my favorite style. It doesn’t take much effort and looks put together.
Outfit
Your outfit choice depends on where you are going. I always go to restaurants that are a $$$-$$$$ on yelp. So I dress up for a date. Dress for the occasion. If you’re going on a coffee date go for cute/casual. I recommend always wearing heels or heeled booties. You can wear jeans a a black tee, when you add heels to the look it instantly elevates your outfit.
Dress based on your body shape! I am pear shaped and like to accentuate my hips and legs. I typically wear a fitted miniskirt and a long sleeve nylon/spandex material bodysuit. Or slim fit black/dark wash jeans with a nylon long sleeve bodysuit. I either show leg or chest never both.
Websites I shop at:
Koi Footwear: UK based shoe website affordable, good quality, and VEGAN
Princess Polly
F21
Revolve
Prettylittlething
OOTD Fash
Laura’s Boutique
Makeup
Pick a feature or two to accentuate and play up that feature. Can be eyes, lips, nose, cheeks, jaw, etc. I pick my eyes and lips and focus on eyeshadow and lipstick.
In my opinion, soft glam look is the way to go. Avoid anything heavy and full coverage. I mostly buy high end makeup but tried to include some drugstore products
Below are some of my favorite product that I use to achieve a airbrushed, flawless soft glam look.
Foundation: light to medium coverage
Nars Natural Radiant
Nars Sheer Glow
L’Oreal Pro Glow
Concealer: depending on under eye darkness light to medium or medium coverage, 1-2 shades lighter
Bare Minerals Bareskin
Nars Radiant Creamy
Too Faces Born This Way
Colourpop No Filter
Maybelline Fit Me
Powder: loose powder to set face, foundation powder too heavy, Laura Mercier Loose Powder is SO overrated
Maybelline Fit Me Loose Powder (by far the best loose powder(I’ve tried dozens) leaves skin airbrushed
Fenty PRO FILT’R (only if you’re extremely oily it’s very mattitying)
Hourglass Veil Translucent Powder (If you have the money to spend)
Bronzer: one cool toned (to contour) one warm toned (too bronze)
L’Oreal True Match Foundation Powder (one cool toned one warm toned)
Kevin Aucoin The Sculpting Contour Powder
Mac Give Me Sun Bronzer
KKW Beauty Creme Contour Stick (cream contour)
Nars Laguna Bronzer
Blush: nothing too bright or vibrant, flesh/flush toned
Mac Melba
Mac Peaches
Milano Luminoso
Nars Orgasm
Glossier Cloud Paint (any shade)
Mascara/False Lashes: False Lashes take any look to another Level
Baddie B any style but especially IG and Baddie
Lilly Lashes Miami and Mykonos are my favorites
Any Maybelline mascara
L’Oreal Lash Paradise
Eyeshadow: nude tones. You can also use bronzer and blush to have a more cohesive look
Morphe x Jaclyn Hill palette
Anastasia Beverly Hills Modern Renaissance and Soft Glam
Colourpop Palettes (they have a ton of nude palettes great quality)
Pat McGrath Mothership V palette (super expensive but the quality is UNREAL)
Lips: ombré nude or red, I love a brown lipliner and a lighter beige nude lipstick
KKW Beauty Nude 2.5 Lipliner
Kylie Cosmetic Iced Latte and Dolce K lipliner
Mac Cork liner
Morphe Sweet Tea lip liner
KKW Beauty Nude 2 or 2.5 lipstick
Morphe Bare It All lipstick
Mac Honeylove lipstick
Dose of Colors Supernatural lipstick
March 10th 2020
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Hey guys!
First update of the new year here!
It’s been too long again, but even when I’m not posting I’m still on here seeing all your guys’s messages and posts- happy it seems like everyone is doing well! ❤️
Just returned to my home state after having been in New York this past week! Spent majority of the time finishing putting up decorations in my new apartment. (Had it leased in October of ‘19, and it was only my third time staying there. Man when I say I’ve been busy, I’m not even playing 🤪).
Didn’t do anything too fun while up there, truthfully been avoiding the general population as this corona health scare continues. Now I’m not one for perpetuating hysteria, but there have been confirmed cases in the state so better safe than sorry was my thinking.
Besides, my HW kept me otherwise busy safely indoors pouring hours into research and typing. Yay, lol.
Found out stagecoach and coachella might be getting postponed now too because of the virus??? (Do any of y’all also go to these music festivals as well?) Apparently within the next 48 hours a decision is to be made, but talks of rescheduling until October are on the table. It’ll be a bummer for sure, but for the public’s health I get it 🤷🏼♀️
In light of all this going on, I wanted to make a master post for the cleanest way to travel! Compiling tips and reminders for a safer way to use public spaces like an airport or train station, as well as the hotel rooms you stay in!
MUST HAVES for general travel:
-Hand sanitizer
-disinfectant wipes/ disposable plastic bag to place these items once used in.
-travel size lysol
Additional items during times of mass sickness:
-disposable gloves
-disposable masks
Airport/Plane Sanitation Tips:
1.) Always, always, always carry travel size hand sanitizer. This should be on your person, attached to your carry on or purse is a good spot.
2.) Sanitize your hands often. Especially after using one of the touch screen ticket kiosks, handling the bins you push your belongings through security in, as well if you touch the handle rail on the stairs/escalators.
3.) Disposable gloves are not a bad option to have on hand either. Are these a necessity? Certainly not, but in times of mass virus spreading, ensuring your own health through any measures available is the right thing to do.
4.) Use the aforementioned disinfectant wipes to wipe down the handles of your airplane seat and tray.
5.) Also use the disinfectant wipes if your seat has a touch screen TV option in front of you.
6.) Those magazines in the seat pocket have been touched by everyone and their mom, don’t even think about it 😂 bring your own to look through!
7.) Disposable masks. Secure a box and hang on to them! Did I wear a mask the entire time I was at the airports this past week? YES. Even while on the plane. (Now do I normally do this? No. This tip is for times like now with Corona being on the rise, not necessary in events of normal travel.)
- if you don’t want to wear a mask the entire time you’re in the airport, consider wearing one at least in times of being stagnant near large groups of people. Like in lines at security, baggage claim, and while boarding on the ramp. (You could keep your mask on while sitting on the plane until you confirm you don’t hear people in the vicinity coughing or sneezing too.)
Hotel Sanitization:
1.) Now, obviously you should only stay at a hotel or Airbnb that you feel comfortable in, one in which you trust that their cleanliness is up to par- you can confirm this by researching and reading their reviews before booking!
2.) Upon arrival, wipe down any common surfaces with Lysol and/or disinfectant wipes.
- Places to consider: door knobs, tv remotes, light switches, ac/heat control panel, faucet knobs, coffee machine buttons, and room telephone.
3.) Inspect the bed sheets for any damage or stains. Bringing your own linens is always a good clean option as well! If I have the space for a change of sheets I’ll pack them, but at the very least I bring my own pillow cases every single time!
4.) Peel back the fitted sheet and examine the mattress for bedbugs or signs of them. Alert management right away if you spot dried blood stains, or anything suspect, which will almost never be the case in a reputable hotel- but worth a check nonetheless!
5.) Before using the shower, squirt shampoo in the tub and run the water on hot for a minute to decrease the number of germs where you’ll be standing, even if the bottom of the tub looks clean- DO IT ANYWAY. Laying an spare bath towel on the shower floor and standing on it for the duration of your wash is always a good way to eliminate likeliness of contact with any biofilm or fungus.
6.) Never touch the drapes. Forever haunted after reading a whole article about how statistically they’re one of the most likely yet overlooked place to trap a lot of debris and allergens, subsequently allowing germ build up over time.
7.) It’s best to limit direct skin contact with the carpet and furniture. Wear socks or slippers while walking around, and be fully clothed when sitting on chairs or the sofa.
8.) Don’t forget to show your hotel bathroom some love. Disinfecting the toilet seat and flusher should always be priority!
A lot of these may be common sense, but I’m sharing the reminders because I care, and being sick is absolutely no fun. If sounding like a broken record keeps even just a little bit healthier, than I’m cool with being that guy 😂
It’s important to remember that your chances of contracting the Corona virus, or any viral infections are very slim. This is statistically proven of course. But your chances are even lower when practicing good cleaning habits. It’s not “doing too much” when your health is on the line 💁🏼♀️
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I’ll be making a new post very very soon! So stay tuned for a more interesting update babydolls!
In the meantime, I hope you all of you have had an amazing start of the year thus far. Here’s to 2020 bringing all of you an outpouring of wealth, love, health and happiness throughout all of its remaining days.
Talk soon!
xo
lex
The secret to improving your life is improving your day.
The secret to improving your day is improving this moment.
Ask yourself: “What can I do to naturally feel better now?” And remember to focus on the good.