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Exercise as sensation-seeking. Fitness as hedonistic pleasure. This is the wave I'm on. This is the wave I should have been on all along. It's only a grim death-march if we make it one. We pay lip service to "having fun", but even that feels like it's at gunpoint half the time. I just finished up, and I can feel my skin again. I'm not just a brain floating in space. My body is not just a thing to modify.
this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it
buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell
leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist
put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.
when that little voice in your head says âi dont need to write that down, ill remember itâ that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!
plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.
if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge
if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.
its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because âthis shouldnât be this hardâ. it is hard, so make it easier.
I'm terrified it's just going to be one thing after another, for the rest of my life, one more financial crisis or burden, one more medical issue, one more thing that I'm obligated to overcome that will keep me stuck and spinning my wheels in the same place forever and ever no matter how much I hate being here. I'll be here cleaning up after the same people, looking at the same four walls, taking the same pills, doing whatever I can to ease the suffering but never being able to truly stop it. I won't this be my end. I can't. I don't have it in me to live life like this anymore.
For all its faults Tumblr has truly ruined all other social media for me because my friends all have Instagram and are all trying to get me on Instagram more but every time I open Instagram there are like fifteen things screaming for my attention and when I get over myself long enough to start scrolling it's like. Where is my chronological dash. Where is the following-only option. Who are these people. Why are there so many videos. Everyone is screaming at me. And then before I know it I'm thirty minutes into scrolling and I haven't seen a single thing that I actually care about. At least on Tumblr when I see stuff I don't care about I know someone I follow has found a new interest.
If you're an eldest daughter, please prioritize escape. Real, tangible escape. Substantial distance. Not daydreams, scrolling, bingeing, sprees at the container store so you can fake momentum by putting all your junk in pretty new boxes. Reclaim the insults, embrace them: you ARE self-centered, you ARE ungrateful, you ARE being "unrealistic". You're all of that and more and that's a GOOD thing. Keep them in your life, cut them loose, or somewhere in the middle where you only see them when YOU want. It's up to you. Guilt is a tool to control you. It's your life, not theirs. How much longer can you stand it? Stop adjusting to your misery. Feel it. Feel it and ask yourself if this is all you deserve. If this is what you want the next 30 years to look like.
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The emphasis on disappearing in glow up content fascinates me. Disappear, pull a vanishing act, go ghost, keep your head down, go stealth mode. It seemed to reach a fever pitch during the initial pandemic wave, when we were trying to treat quarantine like boot camp or something. I don't know, there's just something disquieting and sad about deliberately isolating yourself. Like you're radioactive, like you have to be contained and hidden away before you can emerge all shiny and new. It's so alluring though, too, isn't it? Popping out. Getting back on the radar after being mysteriously absent. Resurfacing after everyone thought you went missing. We all want to be that girl, don't we? The one people remember when they're not around. It's like wish fulfillment.
So many women have internalized the idea that being difficult makes people think less of them, when in my experience the opposite is almost always true. Every single time I have spoken up, voiced what I actually need and refused to shrink the moment in order to be more comfortable for everyone else in the room, I have been approached afterward by people who wanted to know me better. There is no reward waiting for you on the other side of making yourself smaller. People do not love you more for taking up less space, they simply get used to you taking up less space and adjust their expectations accordingly. Every time I have been exactly as audacious as the moment required, it has opened doors rather than closed them and I have made real connections directly because of it rather than in spite of it.
Some is better than none. Some is better than none. Some is better than none. Walking for three minutes, is better than nothing. Drinking a glass of water and eating a snack, is better than nothing. Wiping down the counter, is better than nothing. Small things are not nothing. Small things are not nothing. Small things are not nothing. You donât have to achieve grand things if all youâre capable of right now is the smaller things. They are still achievements. Donât do nothing just because you donât think youâre capable of doing bigger things, just do something youâre capable of today. ďżź
straight men have never let their attraction to women stop them from oppressing women , so why are straight women so weak to let their attraction stop them from any liberation