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TIOT 8/13/13- Shepherd's Back Carry

Shepherd's Back Carry is a great short wrap carry that acts a bit like a Double Hammock Rebozo, but has straps coming over both shoulders. Super petite wrappers can use a size 2 for this carry, average sized wrappers a 3, and plus sized wrappers, or wrappers with larger babies will probably want a 4. Try it out, and let us know what you think over in the group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/Babywearing102/

Videos:

With cross passes:

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Tapers: A Formal Investigation

Taper refers to the angle of the cut on the tail, or end of a woven wrap. Some tapers are very long, while others are very blunt and are hemmed perpendicular to the rails of the wrap. The longer the length opposite of the hypotenuse of the right triangle o' taper, the deeper the taper will be (where my math enthusiasts at?!).

So what does this mean to you? Well, it's really a personal preference, and generally one that is not developed until a wrapper has tried lots of different wraps. Some people prefer super long tapers so they can tie their knot in them and have a smaller knot. Others like blunt tapers because the full width of the wrap will be included in the knot. Others prefer an in-between taper depth. It's very subjective.

For the beginning wrapper, or one who doesn't plan on churning (or hoarding) a bunch of wraps, it probably won't need to be a driving factor to consider in your wrap purchase(s).

Here is a visual tour of general taper depths of woven wrap brands for your wrap geekery indulgence:

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Robin's Hip Carry

Robin's Hip Carry is a favorite hip carry among many babywearers. It is often done in a short to mid-length wrap (3/4/5), depending on your size. If you have a longer wrap, you could do cross passes, though. There are two videos here that will show you how. Please keep in mind this is just a guide, and you may find you need a longer or shorter wrap.

Photo Instructions:

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Videos:

With long wrap variations:

Breastfeeding:

Variations: 

With cross passes on a longer wrap.

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The Babywearing Glossary

Types of baby carriers and their common abbreviations Full Buckle aka FB:

A custom made carrier (often a wrap conversion, WCFB), with waist and shoulder strap buckles. Pros: Visually stunning and often custom. You can have your dream carrier designed to fit you and your baby if you are lucky enough to score a custom slot with a converter. Easy to use and quick to put on. No dragging tails on the ground. Cons: Usually expensive. Can be difficult to buy, especially if you are looking for a custom slot. They are sized, which means fit will depend both on mama and baby size. You usually have to size up as your baby grows. Difficult to use the same carrier with children of different sizes (ex: a newborn and a 3 year old). Common Brands: Bamberoo, Tula, Ocah. Half Buckle aka HB:

A custom made carrier (often a wrap conversion, WCHB). It adopts the style of the mei tai but with a buckle at the waist instead of ties. A "Reverse Half-Buckle" is a waist that ties like a mei tai but with buckle straps like a soft structured carrier. Pros: The buckle waist provides the support, structure, and ease of use of a soft structured carrier, while the mei tai straps let you tie in a way that is comfortable to you. Cons: Can be expensive and hard to get a custom slot. Some people can find buckle waists diggy or find that it does not cinch tight enough if they are very petite. Common Brands: Dream Carrier, Obimama, Ocah. Mei Tai aka MT:

A mei tai is an Asian-style carrier that is tied. It features a body panel with two long shoulder straps coming from the top right and left-hand corners to tie with two waist straps coming from either base corner. Various sizes available: baby, toddler, preschooler etc. Some have padded waistbands and shoulder straps. Can be used for front or back carries. Pros: Easy to adjust the height of the carry. Fairly easy to nurse in. If the straps are long enough, the carrier can be shared by wearers of very different sizes. Cons: A slight learning curve. Very long straps that drag on the ground. Usually sized and many find they need to size up as their baby grows to maintain a comfortable, ideal seated position.  Common Brands: Babyhawk, Freehand, Infantino Sash, Kozy. Onbuhimo aka Onbu:

An onbu is an Asian-style carrier of Japanese origin. Similar to a Mei Tai, it has a panel with two shoulder straps, but with rings at the waist through which the arm straps are threaded. It is available in various sizes to suit the age/size of the child. Pros: Quick ups and downs due to only having the two straps and no waist belt to secure. Not having a waist strap makes it easy to tie off up high which makes it especially good for pregnant women. Good for toddlers. No back passes necessary.

Cons: Can be difficult to get the hang of threading the rings with a baby on your back. Not appropriate for smaller babies. Not very easy to find.

Common Brands: Two Momma Designs, Freehand

Podaegi aka Pod:

A pod is an Asian-style carrier of Korean origin. The predominant style is similar to a Mei Tai, with a panel and shoulder straps. A pod, however, does not have a waistband. This often makes them a popular choice with pregnant moms who want to continue to carry their older child(ren), as waistband ties are often uncomfortable as they are tied across the bump.

Pros: Can be used with straps or for torso carries. Easy to make a seat. Appropriate for any age baby. Multiple tie off options. Attractive- the baby's weight is held up by the straps so the blanket can be made out of decorative fabric and it will still be safe. On that note, you can use a lightweight fabric for the blanket and keep cool. Only two straps to mess with, allowing for high tie offs.

Cons: Straps are either angled up or straight which can be limiting as straight straps are better for chest passes and torso carries and angled are better for ruck straps.

Common Brands: Freehand, Shiny Star Designs

Pouch Sling aka Pouch:

A pouch is a sling without rings. It is used for one shoulder front and hip carries. Most pouches are sized. Unlike ring slings, buying a pouch in the right size is very important. Most are not adjustable, and even the adjustable ones are not as adjustable as a ring sling. Beware of "just pay shipping" gimmicks done by companies like Seven Slings-- these slings are very flimsy and uncomfortable and usually not worth the shipping price. 

Pros: Easy to put on, usually inexpensive, easy to stuff in a diaper bag.

Cons: Hard to use properly and safely with a newborn. Many use it in a cradle carry which can easily be done unsafely (baby should never be horizontal and the chin should never be pressed into the chest). One shoulder carriers are not comfortable for bigger babies for long term wearing. 

Popular Brands: Hot Slings, The Peanut Shell.

Ring Sling aka RS:

A length of fabric (can be made out of a woven wrap aka WCRS) with a pair of rings sewn into one end. Used for one-shouldered carries on front or hip, good for newborns up to preschooler. Great for quick up-&-down carries of a tired-legged toddler. There are various different shoulder types that you can read more about here.

Pros: Easy to nurse in, great for warm weather, perfect for quick ups and downs.

Cons: One shoulder carries can be uncomfortable for long periods with big kids. You might have to try several shoulder styles before you find one that is comfortable for you. It can take some practice to learn how to thread properly.

Common Brands: Comfy Joey, Maya Wrap, Sleeping Baby Productions

Simple piece of cloth aka SPOC:

Functions like a woven wrap, but is not produced specifically for the purpose of babywearing. Some people have concerns about safety. Use would depend on your confidence about the suitability of the material. These are often homemade (DIY).

Pros: Often inexpensive and easy to find. You can customize it to the best length and width for you.

Cons: Many do not find them to be as comfortable as a typical woven wrap. Safety can be an issue. You can read about what materials are safe here.

Common Brands: Osnaburg fabric (can be purchased at any fabric store), Mahogany brand tablecloths.

Soft Structured Carrier aka SSC:

Similar in principle to a Mei Tai, but instead of having straps to tie, this carrier has buckles. Can be used for front and back carries. Avoids the problem of dangling straps in wet, muddy weather! Pros: Easy to learn how to use, no straps dragging on the ground.

Cons: Sized, so fit depends on baby and mama size. It can be difficult for two people of very different sizes to share the same carrier. Most people have to size up as their child grows. Some people find buckles dig into them.  Common Brands: Beco, Boba, Ergo, Kinderpack, Tula Stretchy wrap:

A length of stretchy knit fabric that is tied. Great for newborns and little babies, but can become less supportive as baby gets heavier (due to stretchy material). It is really only supportive for babies under 15 lbs. It is pre-tied onto the adult and the baby is then popped in and out throughout the day, without the need to re-tie. It is generally advised that this type of carrier is not suitable for back carries! Pros: Great for newborns. Easy to pre-tie and make the carry "poppable".

Cons: Not safe for back carries. Can only do a few carries. Warm and a lot of fabric. Not very comfortable after 15 lbs.  Common Brands: Boba Wrap, Moby Wrap Woven wrap:

A length of woven fabric, sold in a variety of sizes, which is tied into place. Can be used to carry from newborn to preschooler. Is suitable for front, back or hip carries (of which there are a number of different carries). Pros: Extremely versatile. There are countless carries you can do. Fits every mama and baby body type. Easy for wearers of different body types to share. You can use it for kids of different sizes/ages too. Cons: There is a learning curve. Some woven wraps are expensive (but maintain their resale value). Longer wraps can drag on the ground while wrapping. Common Brands: Didymos, Girasol, Kokadi, Natibaby, Storchenwiege Wrap Conversion aka WC:

A carrier custom made out of woven wrap material. These are often done in the style of the Asian carriers mentioned, or a ring sling. Pros: Visually stunning and usually custom orders. Offer the snuggly benefits of a woven wrap plus the convenience of a structured carrier or sling. Cons: Can be expensive and difficult to get conversion slots. Common Brands: Bamberoo, Dream Carrier, Obimama, Sleeping Baby Productions

  Carrier Comparison Chart

    Types of Passes

  1. Torso Pass

A Torso Pass goes over the baby and then under both of the wrapper's arms.

Pros: Binds the baby securely to the wrapper's torso and provides full, closed support along the sides of the wrap

Cons: Limited ability to position the carry – because the wrap goes under both of the wrapper's arms, the baby must be positioned at this level. Requires some effort/finesse to get an ideal knees above bum deep seat. Not ideal for leg straightening babies.

Common Carries: Double Hammock, Simple Torso Carry

  2. Kangaroo/Ruck Pass

A Kangaroo or Ruck Pass goes over the baby and then over both of the wrapper's shoulders.

Pros: Baby can be positioned at any point on the wrapper's torso or back. High pass is good for keeping leaning babies secure. Encourages a deep, knees above bum seat.

Cons: Higher learning curve than a torso pass. Not ideal for leg straightening babies.

Common Carries: RUB, Kangaroo

  3. Cross Pass

A Cross Pass passes over the baby on a diagonal, with one end going under the baby's leg and under the wrapper's arm and the other end going over the baby's shoulder and then over the wrapper's shoulder.

Pros: Good for pre-tieing and then popping the baby in and out of a carry. Also good for securing leg straightening babies.

Cons: Not ideal for leaning babies. Can be more difficult to get snug than other passes and tends not to distribute weight as evenly as other passes since the pass becomes bunched under the baby's leg rather than remaining spread.

Common Carries: Front Wrap Cross Carry, Hip Cross Carry, Back Cross Carry

  4. Rebozo Pass

A Rebozo Pass has one end going over the wrapper's shoulder while the other end goes under the wrapper's arm. Unlike a Cross Pass, a Rebozo Pass goes over both of the baby's legs and stays high on his or her back.

Pros: Hybrid of a Torso and Kangaroo Pass – offers closed support and security but allows more freedom to position the baby where the wrapper is most comfortable.

Cons: Not ideal for leg straightening babies.

Common Carries: Rebozo, RRRR

  All wrap carries, front, back and hip are created from a combination of four types of passes: Torso, Kangaroo/Ruck, Cross, and Rebozo. Passes can be combined based on the needs of the wrapper and baby.

  For example:

* a baby who has a tendency to lean might benefit from a Kangaroo/Ruck based carry.

* baby who tends to lean and leg straighten would need a combination of Cross and Kangaroo, Torso or Rebozo passes

* if a wrapper were looking for a quick, poppable carry, he or she might want to consider a Cross Pass based carry.

~Cross passes and Rebozo Passes can often be substituted for each other within a carry. So, if a wrapper is using a carry such as a Hip Cross Carry or Front Cross Carry the calls for two cross passes, but the baby being wrapped tends to lean, the wrapper could make one of the Cross Passes a Rebozo Pass instead in order to secure the baby.~

  5. Reinforcing Pass

A Reinforcing Pass comes under the wrapper's arm, across the baby diagonally, under the baby's opposite leg and then under the wrapper's opposite arm.

Pros: Adds additional torso support as well as securing against leg straightening.

Cons: Relatively low pass which then moves lower under the baby's legs. Because of this, it is not used as a base pass for any carry, but is added for, as the name suggests, reinforcement.

Common Carries: Reinforced Ruck

6. Bunched Passes

For a Bunched Passes, the wrap is gathered or bunched into a strap which is then passed over the baby. Most commonly, bunched passes are brought over and then under the baby's legs (also known as Safety Crosses)

Types of Knots (some info used from TheBabywearer.com) Square or Reef Knot

The Square or Reef Knot is the most often used knot in tying of wrap carries. It provides security as well as a relatively flat side against the wrapper's body. 

Slip Knot

The Slip Knot most commonly used in wrapping is a Girth Knot. This knot provides a flat side against the wrapper's body and the ability to adjust the carry after wrapping. 

Some find a reverse slip knot to be more adjustable:

Half Knot

A Half Knot is simply the first half of a square of reef knot. Wrapper's will use a Half Knot with a wrap that grips itself well and is unlikely to slip. Often used in chest belts.

Common types of carries and their abbreviations Click on the name of the carry to see a selection of tutorial videos. Back Carries Double Hammock- DH:

Two rebozo passes

Off-centered Rebozo pass over baby on wearer's back

Using the end of the pass going under the wearer's arm, spread Torso Pass across the chest

Second Rebozo Pass over the baby

Bring straps back under arms

Bunched or spread reinforcing passes over then under baby's legs

Tie off in front

Jordan’s Back Carry- JBC:

One rebozo, one cross and one torso pass

Centered rebozo pass over baby on wearer's back

Using the end of the pass going under the wearer's arm, flip back over the shoulder

Cross Pass over baby

With the other end of the wrap, come under the wearer's arm

Torso Pass over the baby

Tie off in front

*There are variations of Jordan's Back Carry with two cross passes or two rebozo passes depending on the leaning and/or leg straightening needs of the baby

Reinforced Rear Rebozo Rucksack- RRRR:

Reinforced Rucksack- RR:

One ruck pass

Ruck Pass over baby on the back

Bring straps back under the arms

Spread reinforcing passes over then under baby's legs

Tie off in front

Ruck Tied in Front- RTIF:

One ruck pass

Ruck Pass over baby on the back

Bring straps back under the arms

Bunched passes over then under baby's legs

Tie off in front

Ruck Tied Under Bum- RUB:

One ruck pass

Ruck Pass over baby on the back

Bring straps back under the arms

Tie under bum

Secure High Back Carry- SHBC:

One rebozo pass and two other passes There are many versions of this carry and none seems to be particularly definitive. The defining characteristic seems to be the initial rebozo pass followed by a chest belt. From there, two passes follow, sometimes both spread, sometimes with one bunched, sometimes cross and reinforced passes, sometimes rebozo and torso passes. One possible version is presented here.

Centered rebozo pass over the baby on the wearer's back

Half-knot chestbelt

Using the end of the wrap coming up from the knot, pass back over the shoulder of the arm that the rebozo pass went under

Cross pass over the baby

Using the other end of the wrap, come under the wearer's opposite arm

Reinforcing Pass over then under baby's leg

Tie off in front

Wiggle Proof Carry- WPC:

Front Carries

Front Cross Carry- FCC:

Two cross passes

Bunched Torso Pass in Back

Cross in Front

Bring wrap over the wearer's shoulders and cross in back

Tie off in front

Spread inside cross and load baby with wrap going over one leg and under the other to create a cross pass

Repeat with outside cross

Front Wrap Cross Carry- FWCC: 

One torso pass and two cross passes.

Torso Pass

Cross in Back

Two Cross Passes, either spread or bunched

Tied in Back

Kangaroo Carry:

One kangaroo pass

Kangaroo Pass

Flip Shoulders

Cross in Back

Cross over baby's legs and tie in front

Common Variation –

Kangaroo Pass

Flip Shoulders

Cross in Back

Reinforcing passes, either spread or bunched

Tied in Back

Hip Carries Poppin’s Hip Carry- PHC:

Rebozo pass and torso pass

Centered rebozo pass over baby at the wearer's front or hip

Loop the end of the wrap coming across the chest under and then over the end of the wrap coming around the back and over the shoulder

Bring the end of the wrap coming over the shoulder down to the waist and under the same arm around to the back

Bring the end of the wrap coming across the chest back across the baby, creating a Torso Pass

Tie off behind back

Robin’s Hip Carry- RHC:

Rebozo pass

Off-centered rebozo pass around baby on wearer's front or hip

Loop the end of the wrap coming across the chest over and then under the end of the wrap coming from behind the back and over the shoulder

Return over the shoulder end of the wrap back around the back and cross over the baby's leg

Bring the end of the wrap coming across the chest back across and cross over the baby's other leg

Tie under the baby

Common Variation 

Off-centered rebozo pass over baby on wearer's front or hip

Loop the end of the wrap coming across the chest over and then under the end of the wrap coming from behind the back and over the shoulder

Return over the shoulder end of the wrap back around the back and cross over the baby's leg

Bring the end of the wrap coming across the chest back across and cross over the baby's other leg

Cross ends of the wrap creating either bunched or spread Reinforcing Passes

Tie off at the opposite hip

  Coolest Hip Cross Carry- CHCC:

Variations You can find tutorial videos of various finishes here. Candy Cane Chest Belt: CCCB

Chest Belt: CB

Lexi Twist

Tied At Shoulder: TAS

Tied Tibetan: TT

Tied Under Bum: TUB

WOVEN WRAP SIZES:

Long wraps:

Size 8: 5.7m

Size 7: 5.2m

Size 6: 4.7m

Mid-length wraps: 

Size 5: 4.2m

Size 4: 3.7m

Shorties:

Size 3: 3.2m

Size 2: 2.7m 

  Popular woven wrap brands:

Artipoppe: Aka Arti. A very high end boutique brand that requires intense stalking to obtain a wrap. Very limited and only a handful of wraps per design/colorway released. They usually hit the secondary market at far above retail prices. See photos of some popular Artipoppe wraps here.

BBslen: Inexpensive, wide and sturdy. Great for toddlers (and for newborns too). Most are on the thinner side. See photos here.

Colimacon + Cie: Aka C+C. Inexpensive and soft straight out of the bag. Thin and great for summers. Comes in solid colors only. 

Didymos: Aka Didys. The classic wrap company. Didymos has something for everyone. They release wraps in a variety of thicknesses, colors, fibers (cotton, linen, hemp, silk, wool, etc), and weaves (indios, stripes, jacquards). They release wraps regularly and have both a standard line and limited edition releases. See photos of some popular Didymos wraps here.

Diva Milano: Aka Divas. Elegant wraps with a high retail price. Soft straight from the bag and thin. They release in limited edition collections a few times a year. See photos of some popular Divas here.

Girasols: Aka Giras. Handwoven wraps with a reasonable price tag. Medium thin and very blankety. Comes in twill weave and diamond weave and solid colors and stripes. Many colorways are exclusive limited editions through one or several retailers. Great for newborns, but many do not find Girasols supportive for toddlers. See photos of some popular Girasols here.

Ellevill: Thin wraps with long tapers. Their main lines are zaras, jades, and paisleys. Some are limited editions. They offer cotton, linen, silk, wool, and bamboo blends. See photos of some popular Ellevill wraps here.

ETLA: A boutique handwoven brand that is quite hard to find. Usually sells for above retail on the secondary market. 

Heartiness: Aka Hearti. A boutique brand offering mostly high-end handwovens, but also some very low cost machine wovens. 

Hoppediz: Aka Hopps. Medium to thick wraps (thickness varies by colorway). Can take time to break in, but they make excellent workhorse wraps. Usually on the inexpensive side. See photos of some popular Hopps here.

Kokadi: Aka KKD. Thin to medium thin wraps that usually feature playful, cute patterns. Most are limited edition and some require stalking. Most are soft straight out of the bag. Cotton and hemp are popular fibers used by Kokadi. Some sell for above retail on the secondary market, but most stay at or around their retail value. See photos of some popular Kokadi wraps here.

Natibaby: Aka Nati. Nati offers a huge variety of patterns and blends. They often release the same pattern in different colors and blends. They offer cotton, linen, hemp, bamboo, silk, and wool blends. Most are limited edition releases but usually do not require stalking. Most Natis are wide and often (but not always) on the medium to thick side. See photos of some popular Natibaby wraps here.

Oscha: Releases limited edition wraps that usually requires "stalking" or entering draws. Offers a variety of fibers, patterns, and colorways. A favorite among wrap collectors. See photos of some popular Oscha wraps here.

Pavo: A completely made in America boutique wrap company. Requires stalking. Wraps are very limited and patterns are only made in a few colorways before retired. Usually sell for above retail on the secondary market. See photos of some popular Pavo wraps here.

Storchenwiege: Aka Storch. An inexpensive workhorse wrap great for newborns through toddlers. They come in stripes and the "Leo" diamond weave. Stripes are harder to break in. Leos are often recommended to those looking for a single wrap to take them through their babywearing days and as the perfect beginner wrap. Most are medium thick. See photos of popular Storchenwiege wraps here.

Uppymama: Aka Uppy. A boutique handwoven company. Their wraps are very hard to get your hands on, especially at retail prices. Their wraps are currently sold through drawings and via auctions. They hit the secondary market at prices far above retail. 

Vatanai: Aka Vat. Thin wraps that are soft, easy to wrap with, and great for beginners and hot weather. Usually have long tapers. Most Vats are machine woven and on the inexpensive side, but Pamirs (a handwoven Vatanai wrap) sell via auction often for $1000+. See photos of popular Vatanai wraps here.

Common babywearing acronyms and terms: ABC: Action Baby Carrier (brand of SSC)

Airy: An attribute given to a woven wrap describing how closely compacted the weave of the wrap is. (Opposite of dense). AP: Angelpack (brand of SSC), Attachment Parenting, or Artipoppe (brand of woven wrap).

ASTM: American Society for Testing and Materials. An international standards organization. All carrier and wrap makers will be required to meet ASTM standards and submit samples for testing starting in 2014.  B’roo: Bamberoo (conversion maker)

BB: Beco Butterfly (name of SSC carrier) BBI: Beco Butterfly I (name of SSC carrier) BB2/BBII: Beco Butterfly II (name of SSC carrier)

BCIA: Baby Carrier Industry Alliance. Helps manufacturers meet industry standards.  BF: Breastfeeding BH: Baby Hawk (Brand/name of MT carrier)

BHOS: Baby Hawk Oh Snap (name of SSC carrier)

BLS: Babywearing Love and Support, a Facebook group dedicated to babywearing BN: Brand New BNIB: Brand New In Box BNIP: Brand New In Package BNWT: Brand New With Tags Bounce: An attribute given to a woven wrap to describe how much ‘give’ it has, or how much the baby ‘bounces’ up and down with walking motion. BR: Birdie’s Room (vendor)

Broken Thread: A thread that has been snagged and broken. Instead of a loop like a pull, it would be a single thread or a collection of single threads. Usually harmless, especially just a single broken thread, but a lot of broken threads in one small area of a wrap can turn into a hole. See this tutorial on fixing a broken thread.

Bump: A common thing to type when trying to push a post to the top of the page.  BW/BWing: Babywear/babywearing B/W: Black and White C&C: Colimacon et Cie (brand of woven wrap)

CCCB: Candy Cane Chest Belt

Chickens: Term used to refer to a series of wraps with peacocks on them made by Didymos.

CISO: Casually In Search Of Conversion: A woven wrap is used (converted) to make a MT, SSC, or RS

CPSC: Consumer Product Safety Commission. The government agency that enforces the CPSIA.

CPSIA: Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act. It is important and legally required for baby carrier makers to be CPSIA compliant. Cush: An attribute given to a woven wrap to describe how cushiony or padded the wrap feels on the wearer’s shoulders. DC: Dream Carrier (conversion maker)

Dense: An attribute given to a woven wrap describing how closely compacted the weave of the wrap is. (Opposite of airy) DH: Double Hammock (type of carry) or Darling Husband. You can find instructional videos for double hammock here.

Didy: Didymos (brand of woven wrap). See photos of popular Didymos wraps here. DISO: Desperately In Search Of ETF: Easy to Find EUC: Excellent Used Condition

Faux Pfau: A nickname for a tablecloth made by the Mahogany brand that has peacocks reminiscent of the Didymos pfauen. A popular DIY material. 

FB: Full Buckle, Facebook, or Feedback Felting: Damage to a wool carrier caused by improper washing practices wherein the fibers are overly agitated and end up drawing together and matted. It can also be caused by water temperatures that are too hot or too cold. Results in a wrap shrinking in width and getting very fuzzy. It usually loses all stretch as well. A felted wrap is not safe to use. The wool fibers become brittle and cannot hold up to the weight of a baby.

Fergo: A nickname for a counterfeit Ergo. Read about why they are bad here.

FFS: Free for Shipping Flannelly: An attribute given to a woven wrap used to describe a soft, fuzzy, warm feeling wrap. FSOT: For Sale Or Trade FS: For Sale FSO: For Sale Only (no trades) FT: For Trade FTO: For Trade Only (not looking to sell) Grad/Grad dye: Gradiation dye style in which the carrier is dyed in an ombre style

GN: Gender Neutral GUC: Good Used Condition Gira: Girasol (brand of woven wrap) GMBB: Gypsy Mama Bali Breeze (brand of woven wrap)

Grippy: An attribute given to a woven wrap used to describe how much it sticks to, or slips easily over itself when trying to slide passes. The more it sticks, the grippier it is. (Opposite of slippery). GSW: German Style Woven Wrap HB: Half Buckle Hopp: Hoppediz (brand of woven wrap). See photos of popular Hopps here. HSA: Highly Sought After HTF: Hard to Find IHA: I have already/available Indio: A woven wrap with a particular weave made by Didymos

ISO: In Search Of ITW: In The Works IVDSO: In Very Desperate Search Of KP: Kinderpack (brand of SSC)

LE: Limited Edition Leg Straightener: Some babies like to lock and straighten their legs, almost as if they are trying to stand up in the wrap. This can cause the baby to ‘pop’ their seat, which means the bottom rail of the wrap comes out from behind their knees and rides up their back leaving them without a hammock to sit in and their bums exposed. Legacy: A term used to refer to a wrap that the wearer plans on passing down to their child for future generations of babywearing. Lexi Twist: Can be used with a woven wrap or mei tai. A twist is created either under the baby’s bum, or low on their back to provide more support.

LL: Lenny Lamb (brand of woven wrap)

LO: Little one (aka child). MM: Marsupial Mamas (vendor); Middle Marker (A tag marking the middle of the wrap). MMAO: Make Me An Offer MMARO: Make Me A Reasonable Offer Moldable: An attribute given to a woven wrap to describe how it feels when wrapped. The more a wrap feels like a second skin, or feels like it forms to you and your baby like shrink wrap, the more moldable it is. Mr. P: Pamir (a woven wrap made by Vatanai)

MT: Mei Tai (pronounced may tie) MV: Market Value. The average price a carrier sells at on the secondary market (can be higher or lower than retail). Nati: Natibaby Natty: Natural (undyed). Refers to the color of the yarn.

NBC: Narrow-based carrier, sometimes called a crotch dangler (though we discourage that term). Many popular mainstream carriers fall under this category, such as the Bjorn and the Snugli. It does not place the baby in the recommended seated ergonomic position. Though not unsafe, they are not ideal.

NIP: Nursing In Public 

NM: Natural Mamas. A UK based babywearing internet forum. Nub: A lump, or thick place in the yarn of a woven wrap that occurs commonly in the weaving process. A common flaw, especially in handwoven and hemp and linen blends. It is purely a cosmetic flaw and does not affect safety. 

O&A: Olives & Applesauce (conversion maker)

Obi: Obimama (conversion maker)

OBO: Or Best Offer Onbu: Onbuhimos OOAK: One of a Kind OP: Original Poster Oscha: A brand of woven wraps. You can find photos of popular Oscha wraps here. OT: Off topic. A poster often puts this in front of a post that is off the main topic of the group. OTW: On the way. Permacrease: A flaw of permanent creasing in a woven wrap. Usually harmless, though it is important to check for further wear in the area.

Permastash: A designation given to a carrier that the owner never plans to sell or trade. PFA: Perfect Fit Adjusters (In reference to Kinderpack straps). PFAs cinch down the straps even more than the regular buckles. Standard sized straps with PFAs cinched down end up being smaller than petite straps, while plus straps with PFAs cinched down are a similar size to standard straps. Perfect for sharing a carrier with two wearers of different body types. 

PM: Private Message PP: PayPal PPD: Postage Paid Domestic PP Tree: A term used to refer to money in PayPal funds. Pod: Podegai Popped Seat: Some babies like to lock and straighten their legs, almost as if they are trying to stand up in the wrap. This can cause the baby to ‘pop’ their seat, which means the bottom rail of the wrap comes out from behind their knees and rides up their back leaving them without a hammock to sit in and their bums exposed. Pull: Short for pulled thread. A loop of yarn that has been pulled up in the fabric due to snagging. A common, harmless cosmetic flaw which can be easily fixed (see this tutorial for fixing a pull).

RS: Ring Sling Reinforced: When the cross passes are spread across the baby’s back as opposed to remaining bunched ‘straps’.

Rebozo: A form of tying a woven wrap which, in contrast to the ruck, takes the wrap over one shoulder (then back under), but, on the opposite side under the armpit and back over the shoulder. It is also another name for a short wrap. 

Ruck Straps: The part of the wrap that goes over your shoulders like backpack straps.

Saggy: An attribute given to a woven wrap meaning that the wrap doesn’t hold its shape when wrapped and the baby changes position. Wrap sagging often becomes uncomfortable quickly for the wearer. (See: Supportive) Slippery: An attribute given to a woven wrap used to describe how much it sticks to, or slips easily over itself when trying to slide passes. The easier the passes slide, the slipperier it is. SB: Sakura Bloom

SBP: Sleeping Baby Productions (Ring Sling conversions) Shorty: A short woven wrap, usually a size 2 or 3. You can find common shorty carries here. Sling Rings: A brand of safe, tested rings made specifically for babywearing. Can be used to turn a short woven wrap into a No Sew Ring Sling. You can purchase them at Slingrings.com

Slub: A lump, or thick place in the yarn of a woven wrap that occurs commonly in the weaving process. There are many slubs in the picture of Caribe below (the black threads poking out of the blue weave). 

SN: Starry Night (a wrap pattern made by Oscha)

SPOC: Simple Piece Of Cloth Squish: A term used to refer to newborn babies. They’re just so squishy and adorable! SS: Screen Shot or Stash Shot (a photo of all of your carriers).

SSC: Soft Structured Carrier 

SSS: Stash Shot Saturday STIH: Soft tape in hand Storch: Storchenwiege (brand of woven wrap). 

Sub: Subscribe. Something a poster writes in the comments when they want to follow the thread. Supportive: An attribute given to a woven wrap used to describe how well it carries the weight of the child and maintains its shape during use. More supportive wraps allow the wearer to to wear a heavier baby for longer without discomfort (The opposite of supportive is: Saggy) TBW: The Baby Wearer, an extensive and comprehensive internet forum dedicated to all things babywearing. http://www.thebabywearer.com/ TAS: Tied At Shoulder. Refers to where the knot is tied in a carry.

TC or TCMT: Tablecloth or Tablecloth Mei Tai if converted. Some woven tablecloths can be used as DIY wraps.

TDF: To Die For TH: ToddlerHawk (name of SSC). A toddler sized Babyhawk.

TIOT: Try It Out Tuesday. A day where we try out a new carry and share pictures. The Swap: A common way to refer to The Babywearing Swap, a Facebook group to buy, sell and trade baby carriers. https://www.facebook.com/groups/thebabywearingswap/?fref=ts Thick/thin: Attributes used to describe a woven wrap. From wovenwrapsdatabase:

Thread Shifting: A flaw where parts of the weave shift or move leaving thin spaces, or gaps in the wrap. More common in loose weaves. Can be caused or worsened by spin cycles. 

TMD: The Mommy Dialogues (vendor) or Two Mommas Designs (conversion maker)

TT: Tied Tibetan. A term used to describe the way wrap tails can be threaded through the front of shoulder straps to create a chest belt. Great for taking some of the weight off the shoulders and for preventing strap slippage for those who have narrow shoulders. Can also refer to Temporary Trade (sometimes a babywearer will temporarily trade a carrier with another babywearer).

TUB: Tied Under Bum. Refers to where the knot is tied in a carry.

TV: Trade Value. The value given to a carrier in a trade transaction. UMC: Ultimate Man Carrier, made by NuzzleMe Creations.

Unicorn: Used to refer to someone’s ultimate dream carrier. Uppy: Uppymama (brand of handwoven wrap)

V.1: the first release (usually more HTF/sought after) V.2: 2nd release Vat: Vatanai (brand of woven wrap) VGUC: Very Good Used Condition W&W: Warped and Wonderful (brand of woven wrap)

WAHM: Work At Home Mom YGPM: You’ve Got a Private Message. Notifies someone to check their messages. Zara: Name of an Ellevill woven wrap

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Counterfeit Carriers

What is a Fergo and why shouldn’t I use one for my baby?

A Fergo is a “faux/fake Ergo,” an illegal, untested, unregulated carrier made to look identical to a legally manufactured, regulated, and thoroughly tested Ergo Baby Carrier. Usually manufactured in China using cheap materials, these counterfeit carriers are being made and sold illegally to unsuspecting (and occasionally suspecting) US consumers. They are not being weight tested, which means they can tear mid use; they are made with cheap materials, which means they buckles can break at any given moment; they are being made and sold illegally, which means you are SOL if something happens to your baby while you’re using the fake carrier.  

But I love my Roflex!

That’s pretty cool, but what is at stake if it breaks after a week of use? You’re out $30 and buy another one. The same cannot be said for a baby carrier breaking mid-use. A counterfeit bag can rip while use and the contents of your purse will spill out all over the ground...the same CAN be said for a counterfeit carrier. 

But I can’t afford an authentic Ergo and those Fergos look the same!

Looks can be deceiving. For all we know, the material may

not even be the same. It could have metal in it, it could have lead in it, it

could be made with silk thread. We don’t know. Authentic Ergos are re-sold all

over the place for similar prices to the Fergo, but you get the added benefit

of having a carrier that passed all US safety testing regulations AND was made

completely legally. Check Craigslist, the babywearing swap on Facebook, the

FSOT (for sale or trade) forum at www.thebabywearer.com,

or your local mom’s group. There are other places to find them, so keep your

eye out, but don’t buy a Fergo just because you think you can’t afford an

authentic Ergo.

But I saw them for sale one a co-op so it must be okay!

Unfortunately, this isn’t the case. Fergo co-ops are beyond

a moral issue, they are a legal issue as well. US co-ops importing these Fergos

are actually breaking the law. They can get in a lot of trouble for importing

and selling these carriers, if you see a co-op leader advertising Fergos make

sure you inform them that what they are doing is illegal and the FBI could

absolutely get involved, and really, do you want to buy from someone who is

willingly putting someone else’s child in danger? Probably not.

I bet this is just a scare tactic and no one has ever had a real issue with Fergos

This is far from the truth. One of our own Administrator’s

of the Babywearing 102 page had her own experience with a Fergo. In her own

words: I bought it at a consignment store and had no idea it was fake or that they even faked Ergos at all. It broke the third time I did a back carry (the waist buckle snapped) and my daughter slid down and out. Thankfully she wasn't seriously injured, but she easily could have been. I called ergo pissed as hell, only to find out it was a fake.

Can I find out just by looking at it if it is fake?

The best way to find out is to contact Ergo directly. It used to be that you could tell by the placement and wording of the safety labels, the dimensions of the carrier, and even the zippers and buckles were unique.

Unfortunately, counterfeit Ergos are getting harder to spot.

They are getting better, they are looking more and more like an authentic Ergo.

Ergo representatives will tell you it can be VERY difficult to spot a fake and

you MUST contact them to verify if you are unsure.

How can I be sure I am not purchasing a Fergo?

www.ergobaby.com is the official website of the Authentic Ergo Baby Carrier (also www.ergobabycarrier.com). If wish to buy from a retailer, make sure you select one from their list of authorized retailers, which you can find at http://store.ergobaby.com/index.php?page=locations

If you are buying used, it is really difficult to know whether it is authentic unless you

contact Ergo directly.

Are counterfeit products limited to just the Ergo?

No. We have seen the Freehand Mei Tei being counterfeited as

well and most recently counterfeit Becos have started popping up. Because this

is considered a very niche, luxury market and not everyone can afford these

products, we become an easy target to prey on. It is an unfortunate truth that

we can be played so badly when all we are trying to do is do the best for our

babies. But these counterfeiters don’t care about that, they care about money.  

What’s the bottom line?

Fergos are illegal, they are potentially dangerous, and they

are not worth it. Just because it didn’t rip the first time you used it, doesn’t

mean it won’t.

Remember, saving yourself $50 could end up costing you a whole lot more.

Helpful links and more posts on Fergos

  http://www.naw.org/govrelations/advisory.php?articleid=563

http://bwichicagoland.wordpress.com/2012/08/07/the-problem-with-counterfeits/

http://www.reallywhatwerewethinking.com/2012/08/

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Kangaroo Carry

The Kangaroo Carry is a fast and straightforward carry that can be done with a shorter wrap. It's usually done with a 2, 3, or 4.  Kangaroo carry is most often tied under bum, so it's important to make sure you have long enough length. If you have extra length, try reinforcing the carry and tying at the back.

Photo Instructions:

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Videos:

Variations:

Reinforced:

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The Economics of Babywearing

Why are woven wraps so expensive? 

Wovens are made using high quality materials. Many wrap companies pride themselves on being able to guarantee fair trade conditions, which tends to up the price. Some companies have already started sending in samples of their wraps to labs to undergo rigorous testing, which will become mandatory by 2014. Testing costs are extremely steep. Another thing to consider is that most wovens are about 5 yards. Buying 5 yards of quality jacquard fabric in your local fabric store will likely have a price total close to $100. Handwoven wraps often retail high due to the amount of time and detail put into weaving them. The yarn itself is quite costly. 

But what about the $500 wraps I see? 

Wovens are part of the luxury textile industry, much like clothes and handbags. Some wraps are considered "high end" and collectible. Very limited releases that require "stalking" to obtain one (if you are lucky) usually results in an item becoming highly sought after (HSA) and hard to find (HTF). Like in any market, market value (MV) increases with demand. 

Why are some handwovens like Uppymamas more expensive than handwovens like Girasols? 

Most boutique handwoven companies use yarn that is a higher quality than Girasol. The thread count per inch is much higher, making the weave denser and more supportive. Many handwoven companies also offer the chance to have a custom wrap made, which can take weeks working with you to design your dream wrap. In general, higher end handwovens usually contain less weaving flaws than Girasols as well.

Why do people spend that much money on a piece of fabric? Are they insane? 

We're all mad here, Alice. Many view wraps as art pieces and collectors items. It's kind of like cars. Some people buy a Porsche. Some people collect Corvettes. Others drive a Corolla, some take the bus or walk. You can babywear on any budget. One isn't better than the other. It's just a hobby for some people. My mom collects things with apples on it. I think that's a little weird, just like I'm sure she thinks collecting wraps are weird. Maybe collecting things period is a bit weird, who knows.

Other industries to compare wrap prices to: wine (box wine versus top shelf), food (you can eat at McDonald's or make a meal from scratch out of all fresh organic ingredients), shoes (most people have more than one pair), handbags, and strollers. 

Another huge benefit is resale value. Woven wraps usually hold close to their retail value, so you can make most, if not all, of your money back. It's more of an investment than frivolous spending. 

It's also something that often gets daily use and can be passed down and used with multiple children, even grandchildren.

It's not much different than any baby item-- car seats, cribs, toys, clothing, strollers. They run the full spectrum of prices. 

So are more expensive wraps better than less expensive wraps? 

Not necessarily. While most would probably find an Uppymama more comfortable than a Girasol with a heavier kid and a Didymos much cushier on the shoulders than a DIY from osnaburg, it's not always true. On a personal level, I can say that I have found a Storchenwiege leo to be more comfortable than some wraps two or three times that price. A lot of it boils down to personal preference. I think in most cases retail price does reflect quality and comfort (plus manufacturing ethics and dedication to fair trade practices). However, when you start looking at the $300+ wraps, I think the price is more a reflection of supply/demand (hard to find/highly sought after, limited releases, collectible, etc) than it being much higher quality than a $150 wrap. 

Why do some people have so many wraps? 

Many people find it useful to build a "stash" of multiple carriers for different occasions. The most common comparison used is shoes-- most people have a pair of sneakers, dress shoes, slippers, sandals, and hiking boots.

Some have 100+ pairs of shoes to match different outfits and because, well, they like them. They are pretty. Many collect wraps as a hobby. 

People with large or expensive stashes must be wealthy!

Not necessarily. Like anything, it is how you budget your money. Some people don't spend money on manicures, cable, soda, eating out, Starbucks, the movies, etc. They cut out other luxuries and save up for wraps, the bonus being that unlike manicures and Starbucks, they can get most or all of their money back when they sell. 

What's up with stash shots? Are people just showing off? Are they just trying to make others jealous? 

No, not really. It's just for fun. A lot of people really enjoy looking at stash shots not only because they are pretty, but because it's a great way to see wraps you might have not known about before. It's also a way to see how wraps of similar colors differ, or how wraps compare in thickness/floofiness. You might find your stash twin who has similar tastes as you really likes __ wrap and decide to give it a try as well since you guys tend to like the same qualities in a wrap. It's important to be respectful on stash shots. There are many people who won't share stash shots anymore on bigger groups due to a handful of people being rude and judgmental. It results in many veteran babywearers retreating to small private groups and we, as a community, lose all the knowledge they have to share (after all, who would know more about comparing different wraps than someone who has tried hundreds or thousands of them?) and that's really disappointing. We truly do welcome you whether you have no carriers, one DIY, or a closet full of Uppys. We understand most people are just asking questions and don't mean any judgment or harm, which is why we've put together this resource. 

Why do people sell things for higher than retail? That's so wrong!

It's important to remember that wraps are luxury items. There are many affordable wraps out there. Believe me, I know it stinks to not be able to afford that wrap on the swap. It is not, however, the equivalent of price jacking water after a natural disaster. Many mamas, unfortunately, are a bit jaded about selling hard to find wraps at retail only to see them immediately listed for twice the price on the swap. "Isn't this supposed to be about wearing our babies and not making money?" Well, yes, it is.. There are many beautiful wraps that you can find at retail (or even below) on the swap to wear your babies in. Put out ISOs (in search ofs) and make friends in the community. It is possible to score hard to find wraps at retail. Most mamas are just hesitant to sell hard to find items at retail to mamas they don't know for fear that the mama will just turn around and flip it. 

Why does it get ugly every time someone asks one of these questions? 

It's usually not the original post that gets people heated. There's almost always someone who comes on the thread and starts throwing out judgments about people who spend that much money on wraps. "It's disgusting to spend $400 on a wrap when there are starving children in the world." "They should donate wraps to mamas in need instead. That's selfish." Many mamas with expensive and/or large stashes are some of the most involved members in the community and work hard to educate mamas on safe, affordable carrier options such as DIYs and frequently donate money and carriers to local lending libraries. It is insulting to throw out statements like that, especially when you do not know their story or circumstances. I doubt most people who own several Pavos kick puppies before making them into coats (maybe some do, I don't know your business).

If this is a support board, it is a support board for mamas of ALL incomes and stash sizes. Sometimes threads don't have rude answers at all, but people come on already defensive. The reason is because these threads happen at least a few times a week, and 9/10 of them will have a rude response like that. So they are just waiting for it, you know? Not that it is right to immediately be defensive. Perhaps linking this doc/blog entry as a response would be the best way to answer the question and keep the thread as undramatic as possible. 

But I still can't afford to drop that kind of money on a wrap. 

That's alright! There are plenty of great inexpensive options. Storchenwiege leos, BBslens, Little Frog, and Colimacon + Cie are all affordable woven wrap brands. You can also make your own wrap or carrier. Please make sure you use safe materials and know what you are doing though. I highly suggest joining the Babywearing DIY Advice group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/334070496681248/

There's also a swap dedicated to carriers under $100 called Babywearing on a Budget: https://www.facebook.com/groups/156002947911287/

At Babywearing 102, every Friday is "Frugal Friday", a day dedicated to sharing budget friendly carriers and DIY tips. 

Final Notes

The bottom line is to just be polite and respectful. Don't judge people and don't jump on people for asking a question-- sticker shock is understandable. Let's just wear our babies and if you collect wraps, that's awesome. Don't be afraid to share stash shots, most of us love 'em.

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How to Catch A Scammer.

Dear Diary, Today I did a lot of thinking about scammers. Those pesky people in our community that sort of, kind of, ruin it. If you are on the babywearing swap, or any swap really, you know the importance of feedback, and we hope you know how to play smart with paypal and the like. (Right??? Please say yes. If the answer is no, just PM me and I will teach you all about how to buy a carrier on a swap.) For now I want to take you on a ride, and help you arm your self in the war against scammers. Its not enough for me to police the internet in your name, dear reader, I am going to need your help. This is our community.  First what does a scammer look like?

I think a scammer looks exactly like a terrorist in that you can not pick them out of a crowd. Thats right-- their profile pic is not clearly labeled as a scammer!

So in order to know your scammer, you need to know your scams. This is where it gets tricky, because we want to protect our community from scams, but most scammers are probably only going to hit you up one time! Then they are going to run, hide, and make a new profile before striking again. And not all people have ill intentions. This is important to know though: IF IT IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, IT PROBABLY IS. You see someone that has a cute water ring sling. You comment, and they PM you, saying they can make you one! Wow! Thats great! You are going to send them $30, and maybe 15 other people are going to do the same. Someone just made a lot of money, and maybe they are never coming back to face book again. 

You know those phishing scams you get in your email. Well guess what-- they are here on the internet too. Here is a cleverly disguised, possible, scam:

"Look at my super cute RS!!!!!"

"I love that!"

"Thanks I made it myself!!!!!!"

"You did!!!??? Thats amazing!"

"I make them all the time! PM me!"

Here is the cold, hard facts: The worst scams I have ever seen, have done by well known members of this community. They are by people we know and like. They can be you, or me. (Smart scammers work the system.)

When I started babywearing, this community had been rocked to the core by She Who Must Not Be Named. She Who Must Not Be Named had taken a lot of money, stolen a lot of wraps, and made and sold a lot of very poorly made wrap conversion carriers. She was very well known, and made friends with all the right people. And no one wants to believe the worst of their friend. Any time that someone started to say something about this person, people jumped to her defense, because she was a FRIEND. 

I once went though a trade that I wasn't very happy with.  The wrap I received was damaged. The person who sent it to me was a very well known (at the time) churner. She played it off to me that she never actually had unfolded the wrap-- so sorry! So I figured, "Alrighty then...Next time remember to ask more Shannon!" Months went by, and I mentioned that trade with that person to some close friends. Surprise! They had the same issues! Bad trades, long shipping time, trades that she flaked out on. Not longer after, she left facebook completely, but not before stealing a lot of money from people for wraps that she probably never even had. What would have happened if I had spoken up? What if we all had?

So gentle reader, what do we do?

This is what I think: I can stop creepers from entering 102. I can help provide docs upon docs on vendors, and safe babywearing. But I cannot speak up for you. If you have issues with something on the swap, contact an admin. If someone tries to PM you behind the scenes on this board, or others to sell you something, talk to an admin. Do not let yourself be taken for a ride. Don't get in a car with strangers. Don't send them money. Get to know your neighbors. And for goodness sake! Never let me take you on a ride again, okay? 

Your Friend,

Shannon Waka Waka

Formerly Known As The Lazy 102 Admin

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Babywearing 102 Presents: Wrapping 360! Check out some of the most common carries from all angles.

***We recommend taking the tails of the wrap over the baby's legs before tying under the bum for the Kangaroo Carry***

Follow this link to a downloadable high quality PDF file with clickable links:

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Bok Bok: A Pfauen Comparison Where Chicken Jokes Abound

And on the fourth day, Didy created the pfau. Okay, so maybe it didn’t happen quite so epically, but if you are a Pfau Pfan, it might seem that way. Known frequently as “the chickens,” these wraps come in several different blends, colors, and weaves. To be clear, they are peacocks, not chickens. But “chickens” is like a term of endearment — it's used to show affection the way the Didymos Nautilus wraps are called “snails”, and the way I occasionally call my husband “tubs” after a large meal. Also, what kind of word is pfau anyway? I’ll tell you what kind — the kind of word that even when you know you are pronouncing correctly, sounds stupid coming out of your mouth. Hence, chickens. Everyone can pronounce chickens.

Much like the famous chicken/egg question, people often want to know what draws someone to the pfauen first — the looks, or the wrapping qualities. Since my first ever wrap purchase was a pfau, I can say that for me it was the aesthetics. That said, the wrapping qualities made me fall in love — not just with the pfauen, but with wrapping in general. The variety of blends and colors leave something for everyone and I hope to compare them well and do them justice in this post.

First Up- The Cotton Chickens

Violet/White Pfau (overdyed lavender)

Release Date:  11-14-2007                                                                                         Blend: 100% Cotton                                                                                                        Weight sz 6: 660 gr                                                                                                      gr/m^2 : 218

In 2007, Didymos turned 35. At that point they were known for their classic wrap designs like the Indios and Ninos. To celebrate their 35 anniversary, Didymos released the “Anniversary Pfau” which was an update of a vintage wrap. There were two colors, black/white and violet/white, and both were 100% cotton. While it is hard to imagine now, these chickens were not received well by most people. Comparisons to table cloths and granny sofas were everywhere, and the wraps sat on the shelves. The wraps had “DIDYMOS 1972-2007 35 jahre limited edition” written along the rails to mark them as anniversary pfaus. Those who did buy the wraps, often experimented with dyes. They were stripped (or, keeping with our chicken theme, “plucked”) and overdyed frequently. Today it is hard to find an undyed anniversary pfau and when you do, they sell for well above retail. The babywearing world is fickle, huh?

These wraps are highly sought after today and for good reason. Partially because they are rare, but mostly because they wrap like a dream. They are medium weight for thickness, have fabulous stretch and are the perfect balance of slippy and grippy. This wrap is great for any carry, practically wraps itself in a double hammock and gives the perfect wrap job every time. In a rebozo, the slipknot adjusts easily and isn’t huge and bulky like with other blends. It is one of the most moldable wraps I have ever tried, and certainly the most moldable of all of the pfauen.

Petrol Pfau

Release Date: 11-01-2010 Blend: 100% cotton Weight sz 6: 829 gr gr/m^2 : 288 Petrol Pfau was the first chicken to join my coop. It is a “new weave” pfau, and the easiest way to tell is the vines throughout the wrap. The peacocks look different too. Their heads are turned backward to face plumage that is more elaborate than that on the “old weave” (Other “new weave” pfau include Tussah, Rose, Violet, Ecru, Garnet, and Burgundy).  This wrap feels like a soft blanket or afghan right out of the box. The weave is dense which makes for a very grippy feel when wrapping. It is the least breathable of all of the chickens, despite being 100% cotton. Please don’t sick PETA on me — all of my chickens ~breathe~ I promise. ;)

The grippy-ness of this wrap makes it a little tricky when first learning to wrap because the passes on multi-pass carries like the Double Hammock don’t glide quite as easily as others.  However, the density of this gives fabulous cush, making this a great wrap for carries with ruck straps once you get the hang of things.

Acqua Pfau

Release Date: 08-29-2012 Blend: 100% cotton Weight sz 6: 670 gr gr/m^2 : 218 This chicken is very thin. It feels completely different from the cotton brothers and sisters in its brood. While Petrol Pfau feels dense and blanket and the Anniversary Pfau feels soft and bouncy, Acqua stands feathers above as a lightweight summer wrap. In hand it feels floppy and almost cool to the touch. The colors shimmer and the contrast between green and turquoise blue is just lovely. Mine is a shorty and it shines in a rebozo and RUB because of the ease with which it knots, but I imagine this as a great wrap to learn more multi-pass carries with, because it just slides over itself so easily. It is the least supportive of all of the chickens I’ve tried, but not necessarily diggy. It is perfect for us as a “car wrap” and we use it more often than not as a wrap for quick trips in a hip carry or ruck, especially in the heat. It breathes like a dream and is ideal for summer wearing.

Black Hemp Pfau (aka BHP)

Release Date: 03-09-2012 and 03-26-2012 Blend: 60% cotton/ 40% hemp Weight sz 6: 699 gr gr/m^2 : 200

Ahh. The one, the only, BHP. In crisp (and very “Daddy Friendly”) black and white, the much loved Black Hemp Pfau is simply stunning. Pictures rarely do it justice. On its own, it is beautiful and understated, but like the Anniversary Pfau many of these have seen their fair share of dyes. The one I am borrowing was dyed to represent the owner’s mother. Her birthstone is the Aquamarine, and the translation of this homage is exceptionally done and simply breathtaking. This wrap is heralded for its softness, its floppy-ness and its breathability. All are true! I have found that, given the thinness, this wrap is surprisingly supportive. That said, it is *very* thin, and it is not one that comes immediately to mind when I think of wearing bigger babies. I think too much is made of the term “toddler-worthy” because any wrap, including BHP, can do the job of carrying any child just fine. But with my 25 pound 8 month old, I can’t imagine this being a wrap I would reach for first long term. It has great grip to it and seems so perfect for a summer squish that it makes me feel downright clucky (har har), and I think if we are ever blessed with another baby, this will be a wrap I have to hunt down for my coop.

Blue Linen Pfau (aka BLP, Ocean Pfau)

Release Date: 01-25-2013 Blend: 50% linen/ 50% cotton Weight sz 6: ?? gr/m^2 : 230 This wrap. Y’all. It is the “be all, end all” wrap for me. The alpha/omega. The peanut butter to my jelly. The chicken to my waffles.

The color is the most perfect blue I have ever seen. It SHIMMERS when the light hits it and is prettier than a calm, clear ocean. You’ll have to excuse the excessive language on this one. I have never been so instantly in love with a wrap as I was when I first touched BLP. I will try to be factual here, but it will be difficult. You know what they say about being blinded by love and all that. In hand BLP feels almost identical to BHP. Floppy and soft and only ~slightly~ thicker than BHP. But the support! Oh, the support. The cush. Divine. I wore my 2.5 year old daughter in this wrap for 2 hours and felt no aches, no digging in my shoulders, nothing. It was the closest I have ever come to that “weightless” feeling with a wrap. With my baby, it was even better. Rock solid, with no sagging and plenty of bounce. In a place that routinely sees temperatures of 100 degrees and up with 100% humidity, I can say without question that this wrap will be good for the heat. It is breathable and airy in the extreme. Just perfect. Everything about this wrap makes me think of a beautiful afternoon by the sea. I feel like there is a "chicken of the sea" joke here, but I will do my best to refrain.

Juno’s Pfau

Release Date: 10-22-2012 Blend: 60% cotton/ 40% wool Weight sz 6: ?? gr/m^2 : 274

Released just in time for Christmas 2012, this pfau is the color of a towering Evergreen and has the feel of a soft wool sweater. It is thick, fluffy, and blankety — inspiring the nickname “Christmas Pfau” from pfans. It does well in multi-pass carries, but really shines in single layer carries like RTIF because of the generous amount of cush it offers. Many think of this pfau as a winter wrap, but I have tried it in the spring and found it to be surprisingly breathable for its weight, perhaps because of wool's natural property to wick away moisture and heat. If you’re anything like me, you might be a little too chicken (har har) to try a wool wrap. The care seems daunting, for one, but is surprisingly simple. Also, flashbacks and nightmares of awful Christmas sweaters from Mrs. Weasley might leave you thinking this wrap would be scratchy. Don't let the blend fool you, though. The wool only serves to make the wrap feel slightly fuzzy in hand, and it is well worth the tradeoff of added support and bounce. This wrap is rock solid and, in my opinion, the most underrated of all the chickens.

I hope my comparison has been more than that of a SuperPfan pfreaking out over pfaus. My conclusion is that there is that pfaus are pfreaking pfawesome, no fowl play involved. The variety is huge, and I have only scratched the surface. I hope to one day own #allthechickens and just from the few I have tried, I know I will love them pforever. Just in the short years since the Anniversary Pfau’s release, they have become known for their beauty, wrapping qualities and are just as “classic” to me as Didymos’ Indios. Whether you have one chicken, or a huge pflock, I think no stash is complete without at least one pfau — and that’s not being cocky. ;)

Note: In the above pictures, the color of the wraps is most accurately represented in the first group picture.

This post was contributed by Amie Cheatham Austin.

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Double Hammock, Double Rings (DH-DR)

This carry is done by using a short to mid-length (2/3/4) wrap and two sling rings. If you only have a longer wrap, try bring the extra fabric around to tie under bum or tie in front if needed! You can buy sling rings from slingrings.com. Please note that they are sold in pairs. 

Photo Instructions:

TheBabywearer.com

Videos:

Variations:

Front Carry:

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The Babywearing Swap 101

A step by step guide to buying and selling on The Babywearing Swap. 

Step 1: Join The Babywearing Swap: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thebabywearingswap/

You will notice a pinned post (see the arrow). This post contains the group rules and how to list docs. These docs are an absolute must read. Any listing breaking swap rules will be deleted. 

Step 2: Before going any further and getting lost in all the pretty fluff, join the Babywearing Swap Feedback page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thebabywearingswapfeedback/ This is necessary whether you are selling or buying on the swap, no exceptions. 

Here you will find a pinned post (see red arrow) with information about the feedback group and troubleshooting common problems. 

Step 3: Create a feedback album. You must create an album even if you have never sold or bought a carrier before. 

Click "Add Photo/Video" (see red circle above). Do not go to the Photos tab to create the album-- it doesn't work (at least most of the time). 

Click "Create Photo Album" (see red circle above). Choose a picture. It can be anything, your profile picture, your favorite babywearing picture, a picture of a sunset, whatever. 

You can change the album name on the top (see red arrow) from the date to "___ (YOUR NAME) Feedback". 

Now you want to add any feedback you may have from other sites. It does NOT have to be babywearing related. Have you bought or sold cloth diapers from a site like Diaperswappers? Add that link. Do you have any eBay feedback (buying or selling)? Add that link. Some common links to feedback include eBay, Diaperswappers, Etsy, Hyenacart/Spots Corner, and TheBabywearer.com. Don't have any feedback to link at all? That's okay. You still need to create an album. Simply write "Feedback for ____ (Your Name)" in the photo description.

Now you should have an album. Bookmark it! The bookmark tool can usually be found in your "tools" option on your browser. You can also email the link to yourself to find it easily. Whatever works for you. The search function on Facebook is really hit or miss, and it can be difficult to find your feedback again-- please save it! 

Another good tip is to copy and paste your feedback description or write "Feedback for ___ (YOUR NAME)" as a comment on the album. Facebook does not search within picture descriptions, but it does search comments. Now when we search "Charles Emerald", the link should pop up if Facebook is working correctly. It's still important to bookmark the link though, as Facebook is quite temperamental. 

You are now set to buy on the swap! 

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How to List on the Swap

Step 1: Click on the Photos Tab (see red circle)

Here you will see a list of albums in categories by carrier type and size. Find the appropriate album for what you want to list. Do not create your own separate album. 

Step 2: Add your photo to the appropriate album.

Charles is listing a size 4 wrap so he found the Woven Wraps Size 4 album. Click "Add Photos" (see red circle above). Make sure you are listing an appropriate photo. Stock photos (photos released by a vendor or the company) are NOT allowed. It must be your own photo. Only upload ONE photo. To show multiple photos (ex: a flat picture and an action shot or pictures of a flaw) either use a program like Picmonkey to create a collage, or upload other photos to a site like Photobucket and link to the pictures in the comments on your listing. Facebook now offers the feature of uploading pictures to the comments, although they are not always visible for mobile users. 

Step 3: Write your listing.

Above you will see a general set up for your listing: Wrap name, brand, size, price (including Paypal fees. You must factor fees into your price), flaws/condition, and feedback link. It's important to disclose any and all flaws and always link to your feedback album. You may want to specify if you are looking to sell only and not trade (FSO- for sale only), to trade only and not sell (FTO- for trade only), or if you are looking to sell or trade (FSOT- for sale or trade). 

Step 4: Post and comment to bump to the wall. 

Copy and paste your listing and post it as a comment to bump your listing to the wall of the swap and to make it easier for mobile users to read. 

Other Notes: 

If you do not have access to a computer, you can post to an album via your mobile web browser (Safari, etc), following these steps:

1. Go to www.facebook.com

2. On the left you will see 3 horizontal lines, click there to expand your sidebar.

3. At the bottom of the sidebar, click "Desktop Version". Once your page reloads, it should look like you are accessing Facebook from a desktop computer.

4. Navigate to the Babywearing Swap Group.

5. Then follow the instructions for creating & posting a listing on your computer, starting at step 1.

If you cannot upload your photos to the correct album via a mobile web browser, you may post your listing on the wall. You are still required to following the listing rules and requirements. Please be aware that all wall listings are deleted after 5 days and inactive listings (no comments or bumps) are deleted after 7 days. 

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Taiwanese Carry

The Taiwanese Carry is a a high back carry. It is usually done with a long wrap one size up from your base size, but with some variations it can also be done using your base size or less. This is just a guideline. You may find you need more or less wrap depending on the wrap used, the size of your baby, and the height and tightness of the wrap job.

Photo Tutorial Links: 

TheBabywearer.com.

Videos:

Variations:

One Shoulder:

Shorty:

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Beginner's Guide to Wraps

Recommended starter carries:

Always master front carries before attempting back carries. Front Wrap Cross Carry (FWCC) is a great first carry, as is kangaroo. For shorter wraps, learning a front or hip rebozo is a great beginner carry. After you get front wrapping down, try out some hip carries such as Poppins Hip Carry and Robin's Hip Carry. If you have a stretchy wrap such as a Moby, you can only do Front Wrap Cross Carry, Pocket Wrap Cross Carry (PWCC), and Hip Wrap Cross Carry (HWCC). Back carries are not safe in a stretchy wrap. Check out our stretchy wrap videos here. 

Back carries:

It is best to practice getting your baby on and off your back first. Practicing over a bed can help ensure safety and give you confidence. Having a spotter there is recommended when you are first starting out.

Safety tips:

Always make sure the wrap comes up at least to baby's armpits.

Make sure you have a deep, secure seat. For tips on making a seat, check out our videos here.

Pin your top rail while making your seat. Some people bite the wrap, others pin it under their chin, and others pin it between their knees if it is long enough. 

Recommended Beginner Back Carries:

Different carries click for different people, so don't give up if these don't work for you. Keep practicing, take breaks so you don't get frustrated, and try different carries.

Ruck Tied in Front: Videos here.

Pros: Easy to get on and off your back. Can be done quickly for squirmy babies. A pretty simple carry with very few steps. It's easy to adjust the height of the carry, so you can do a high ruck for curious babies who like to look over your shoulder.

Cons: It is very dependent on a getting a good deep seat. The seat makes or breaks a ruck. Seats are one of the most important aspect of wrapping, so mastering it is definitely useful.

Secure High Back Carry: Videos here.

Pros: It's a great ergonomic alternative to forward facing out for curious babies because it's a very high back carry. Your baby will easily be able to see over your shoulder. It's a great carry for smaller babies (although you never want to back wrap a baby without head control unless you are an experienced wrapper). It starts with a half knot which makes it feel more secure while you finish wrapping.

Cons: Some people find the shoulder flips tricky to get down.

Reinforced Ruck: Videos here.

Pros: A great carry to learn the hang of reinforced passes, especially after you master ruck tied in front. It often feels more secure and supportive than a ruck tied in front due to the multiple layers. A relatively simple multi-layer back carry.

Cons: Like a ruck tied in front, it also requires a good seat. Some struggle to get the passes high enough on the baby's back.

Back Wrap Cross Carry: Videos here.

Pros: It starts with a half knot from under the arm's which can make things feel secure while you finish wrapping.

Cons: Slightly more steps than a ruck or reinforced ruck. It is a lower back carry which some find uncomfortable.

Wrap Sizes

In general it is best to start with a size 6 if you are petite or average, or a size 7 if you are plus size, extremely tall, or large chested. You may find you need less length as you get more proficient at wrapping, but those are good starting points.

Here is a chart that is a guideline for what carries you can do with each size. Again, it is a guideline. You may find you need more or less fabric depending on the wrap moldability, depth of tapers, size of your baby, or height/tightness of the wrap job. We realize not everyone falls into 3 distinct body type categories-- it is really just a guideline to know where to begin. The chart contains links to tutorial videos for each carry as well as abbreviations for the carries to help you learn the lingo. Please note, just because a section is blank doesn't mean you cannot do any carries. You can wrap any extra length around yourself and tie off, add a chestbelt or finish, or just brave long tails. 

Which Wrap Should I Get?

First and foremost, make sure you love the look of the wrap. Storchenwiege Leos, Colimacon + Cie Miel et Malice, Didymos Waves, and BBslens are recommended beginner wraps that can last you from newborn to toddlerhood. Check out our Great Beginner Wraps Pinterest board for photos and more detailed information.

Breaking in a wrap? What is that and how do I do it?

Wraps are generally more moldable and easier to wrap with when they are broken in. Breaking in means, literally, breaking down the fibers. Think about a brand new shirt and think about your favorite old t-shirt. One is a lot softer, floppier, and cuddly, right? It's the same concept with wraps. Check out our pinterest board on how to break in wraps here.

How do I wash my wrap?

You should always wash your wrap when you get it. New wraps get much softer with a wash. Check out our Washing and Care Guide here.

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Throwdown Thursday: Red, white, and blue-- which wrap is for you? Kokadi Ahoi VS Girasol Diamonds and Stripes.

Cast your vote here on our Facebook group!

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Nursing While Babywearing Series: Nursing in a Wrap

Welcome back to our breastfeeding on the go series! Follow along as we offer videos and tips on nursing in different carriers. We have talked about nursing in a Ring Sling, a Mei Tai, and a Soft Structured Carrier. This post is all about nursing in a wrap.

Nursing in a wrap seems to be one of the more challenging carriers to nurse in. We hope that with these tips, photos, and videos will be helpful in your success to nursing hands free while at home or on the go!

Safety Note:

Baby’s chin should be off his chest, never pressed into it, as this could constrict the airway. You want to be able to see your baby’s face and be checking to ensure the airway is protected. Before you put any material over baby as a nursing cover, put it up to your mouth and nose. If you can’t easily breathe through it, neither can baby.

You can nurse baby upright in many carriers by simply loosening the carrier until baby is at the right height. In some carriers, baby may prefer to recline, so you’ll need to transition to a cradle position. In this case, you need to be very careful to position properly. Baby should be in a checkmark shape with bottom being the point of the check and the back being straight-ish. Baby should never be in a “tight C” shape, as you would find in a bag sling, with chin tightly to chest. This can compromise baby’s breathing. They also should be in a reclined position and not horizontal.

Tips:

Wear clothes that will be easy to nurse in while babywearing, such as a nursing top or tank. If you are large busted, use a rolled up burp cloth or something similar to prop your breast up for easier nursing while babywearing.

Stretchy Wrap Videos:

Nursing in a Moby:

Two Way to Breastfeed in a Moby:

Cradle and Nursing with Pocket Wrap (shown with newborn):

Woven Wraps Video:

Front Cross Carry (shown with infant):

Front Cross Carry (shown with older baby/toddler):

Front Wrap Cross Carry (shown with infant):

Front Wrap Cross Carry (shown with baby and cradle):

Front Wrap Cross Carry (with older baby):

Robin’s Hip Carry

Double Hammock Rebozo (nursing in a back carry)

Inverse Coolest Hip Cross Carry:

Poppin's Hip Carry:

Photo Instructions:

Rebozo:

Lower baby to nursing position.

Latch baby on:

Front Wrap Cross Carry:

Untie the wrap, lower baby to breast level, and retie. 

Latch baby.

When finished, untie to lift and retie baby back in regular position.