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Sorry I haven't been here I'm just so tired of the state of the world lately
I'm tired of religion, of patriarchy, of capitalism, of AI, of neurotypicals, everything really
Is it just me or Cyberpunk 2077 and that movie Get Out have basically the same premise
Maybe this is a hot take, but I'm saying this as autistic woman. I'm saying this bc I know people will call me ableist but idgaf
I question THE HELL out of rich men being diagnosed with autism or even any psychiatric disorders at all.
They're rich, if they think a diagnosis will excuse their actions or even make them look more special, they'll get it. They're surrounded by yes men. Doctors are no exception. Yes I am looking at you, Elon.
Major Father Custody Myths 👨👧👦⚖️
There is a major MRA/redpill/manopshere talking point that needs to be confronted and debunked. Many redpillers argue that the family courts are unfair to fathers in custody disputes and always let the mother have the children.
It's important for women thinking about having children to realize that this isn't true. You could absolutely lose your kids.
First, the great majority (over 90%) of the time, the father doesn't ask for custody. It is a sad fact that when a male loses sexual access to the mother of his children (whether she breaks up with/divorces him or vice versa), he doesn't care about his children anymore. Of course, this is not always the case, but a large percentage of the time, possibly most of the time. This data point belies males' assertion that they care about and love their kids and the big, bad woman is keeping them away.
Second, the majority (about 70%) of the time when males request at least half custody, they receive it. Horrifyingly, abusive fathers are more likely to want full custody, and they often receive it. In fact, in multiple states, a rapist can get custody of the resulting baby. Remember that not long ago domestic violence and child sexual assault were considered "family matters."
Third, many males who have custody aren't even raising their own kids. Their own mother or sister or the new girlfriend is actually watching the kids. This is largely due to the fact that 75% of childcare is done by the mother, not the father, so many males do not know how to take care of their children, what their routines are, what their allergies are and the ins-and-outs of their medical conditions, etc. Most of the time these women are not getting paid to watch the kids, and the only reason he even asked for custody is so he doesn't have to pay child support as well as to spite the mother. We have all seen fathers go viral and get treated like superheroes for doing something simple such as brushing their kid's hair.
I have a couple anecdotes related to the above. I was once friends with someone who was dating a cop who was not in his 4-year-old daughter's life. When I asked why, she regurgitated to me what he had told her, that the evil woman wouldn't let him see his child. I told her that getting the other parent considered "unfit" by the court was actually a pretty high bar to meet and that especially with him being a cop, all he would have to do if he actually cared was to go to court and request joint custody, that he would surely get it. We all know of cases where CPS even gave kids back to drug-addicted, negligent, or violent parents. I informed her she was dating someone who didn't care about his kid. Her face was priceless.
In another situation, when my sister was a teen, she was friends with someone whose father had done prison time for raping a 16-year-old-girl and a 14-year-old boy. He was a house painter, which is how he had access to them. My sister's friend was a 16-year-old girl and her brother was a 14-year-old boy, the exact demographics of those their father had raped. Their mother allowed him back in the house when he got out of prison, which, shockingly, the law also allowed him to do. In fact, my mother didn't find out he was a convicted child sex offender until my sister had slept over at their house multiple times.
This is an important manopshere talking point to rebut and about which to set the story straight because it's one of those myths even women calling themselves "feminists" have largely fallen for. Please do not make children with males. There are a lot of great reasons not to do so, but this is definitely one of them. Do not go into parenthood with a false sense of security and wearing rose-colored glasses believing that if things go downhill, the children will stay with you.
Sex is why women are opressed
Gender is how
gyns I am deeply ashamed of you, and exceedingly disappointed
why did none of you tell me that India Willyboy said he was ABDUCTED BY ALIENS AND EXPERIMENTED ON
I guess if you believe a man can become a woman you can believe anything
why do men want to be gynecologists? why? why. gynecology is for females and should be practiced solely by women imo
I don’t think a fuckboy is gonna go through years of college education with the mindset of “I’m doing this so I can put metal and cotton swabs in vaginas”…. (more)
lets talk about the arkansas gyno, paul becton jr. who took nude pictures of his female patients
lets talk about dr. john black (gyno) who sprayed a chemical found in drain cleaner into his female patients’ genitalia
or dr. robert hadden, a gyno who performed unwilling oral sex on his patients and staff member
or dr. bruce sylvester smith, the gyno who raped (at least) one patient and sexually harassed many others.
and while we’re at it, lets talk about male gyno, dr. john marshall who tricked, drugged, and raped his patient.
or dr. paul kelly, an indiana ob-gyn who sexually abused his patients and over-prescribed dangerous drugs.
and dr. kevin pezeshki, who abused several patients and the list goes on and on.
so actually tons of male doctors abuse their patients, and the cases of female doctors abusing their patients is almost non-existent. so thanks for your comment, but next time, try doing a bit of research.
let’s talk about my patient yesterday who complained that every male ultrasound tech that has performed a vaginal ultrasound on her pushed the probe way too far and clearly had no concept of vaginal comfort during penetrative procedures
let’s talk about how not once have i hurt any of my patients during vaginal ultrasounds, and if they have issues with penetration such as vulvodynia or a history of endometriosis, i take a long, slow time to do the ultrasound and check in frequently, and will attempt to do an abdominal ultrasound instead if warranted
let’s talk about how it is most certainly because i am a woman and therefore i understand my female patients and their comfort levels much more than any dude could.
^^^ all of this. Not to mention the one time I had a male doctor do my exam, he took one look at my sexual history and immediately refused to do any more tests or exams because he was “positive” I was just had a bunch of STIs. He didn’t listen once to me telling him that I didn’t think that was right and I wanted to be sure. Three days later I’m getting rolled into emergency surgery because my ovary had ruptured and had become infected. Yeah, gynos should always be female.
I wouldn’t feel comfortable at all with a male doctor being anywhere near my vagina, sorry not sorry.
A male physician tried to pressure me into letting him put my IUD in! He was so adamant about it, and had this sick smile plastered on his face during the consultation. Eventually I just got up and left. Sick fuck. My current physician is a female, she’s very professional and does her job without associating vaginas as sexual attraction. MALES SHOULD NOT BE OBGYNS! I’d even go so far as to say that males shouldn’t be doctors at all. As some of you know, my childhood family doctor (a male of course) was convicted of possessing and distributing child pornography. Even more evidence that most men are incompetent sick freaks.
hell, there was a recent story about a podiatrist (‘foot doctor’) whos only reason for entering the career was due to his extreme fetish for feet. It was discovered by his wife when she found thousands of photos of patents feet, stored WITH other porn, on his laptop. This was not “staying in the bedroom”, and he had never even mentioned it to his wife (actually denying having any out-of-the-usual desires whenever she asked).
A former friend of mine (a male) worked as a nurse and was charged with looking after a woman about our age. This included helping her dress, so yes of course he saw her naked. After a few days caring for her, he comes to me for advice about asking her out.
“But I don’t want it to be awkward because I’ve seen her naked?”
I explained to him, it’s GOING to be VERY awkward. It seems like you were just checking her out.
Of course he’s all, ‘no no no of course not I compartmenalize. I’ve just enjoyed talking with her/getting to know her while I’ve been caring for her.’
Like he thought he was so romantic. Instead of opportunistic. It’s literally your JOB to care, you asshole.
I said to him, She’s been talking to you because she’s a captive audience, she’s hospitalized.
He says, okay well I’ll wait to ask her out until she’s discharged then.
He asked her out.
She turned him down.
I was like, what did you fucking expect?
Men shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near women when it comes to healthcare, period. Our bodies are different than theirs. And men don’t see women as human. They see us as objects at worst, opportunities at best.
An ex-girlfriend of mine used to see a neurologist as a teenager until he was arrested for child pornography. Just to add to the ever growing list of revolting offenses by men.
Like, men thrive on having positions of power. Fuckboys DO go to college. They drug and rape girls at their fraternity parties, then go on to become all sorts of professionals.
One time i needed to get a heart ultrasound and the male doctor had a fucking boner because his hand was around my boobs and he started to touch me with his other hand WHILE A FEMALE NURSE AND MY MOM WERE IN THE SAME ROOM NEXT TO US and then he was so out of focus after the scan was done i was just waiting for it to be over and he couldn’t even talk properly and he was constantly scratching his dick in front of me and after we left i was constantly looking over my shoulder and then he went to the staff bathroom to fucking jerk off.
I still feel extremely violated to this day, i want to kill him, smash his head and gouge his eyes out, paint the floor with the blood of his intestines.
Ask any woman…
also its suspect for a man to even want to do that if you ask me…out of all the jobs in the world….
When my girlfriend was hospitalized with severe Guillian-Barre syndrome (she was essentially paralyzed from her neck down), she would literally beg me to shower her instead of her MALE nurse because he refused to lift her breast to clean the skin underneath, or clean her thighs between her legs because it gave him a fucking hard-on. As if it wasn’t literally his fucking JOB. She’s my girlfriend and I wasn’t so overwhelmed with sexual desire while I gave her a shower that I couldn’t even touch her breasts with going into a lust-filled satyriastic craze.
I’ve worked in the medical education sector and the amount of male medical students who enter medicine knowing NOTHING about female anatomy and who leave it with the same knowledge should horrify every woman reading this.
After over a decade working in the sector, over 90% of the male medical students I’ve encountered either objectify women, are embarrassed by them, or do not care about female medicine at all.
The women on the other hand were uniformly fine with male medical examination et al.
this is why i won’t even take my shirt off in front of my male doctor, even back when i wore bras. he already looked at me sexually once when i was 13, and my mom blamed me for wearing a low-cut jumpsuit in 38°C heat. not letting something like that happen again.
I just don’t understand what people expect. the same men (basically all of them) who watch violent degrading pornography go on to become doctors. the same men who think of women as things for their pleasure only, as objects, as usable, abusable and discardable, go on to become doctors. it’s not like getting on the pathway to medicine means you are sent into monk-like service as a toddler and shielded from the perversions of the patriarchy. these doctors are men raised in our porn-sick misogynist society first and foremost, in and out of the white coat. I never get what makes libs think that there’s some magic button that these men can press in their heads to be able to go from misogynist porn-user man to professional doctor. brains don’t work like that. pleasure and addiction drives don’t work like that. we have explicit neurological studies showing that this sort of compartmentalisation is not possible. and yet the same lib women who will have had sex with violent men and experienced first hand their desire to get off on women’s pain will enter twilight zone levels of cognitive dissonance to argue that this doesn’t matter the second that man enters a workplace. and the men themselves who get off on abusing women won’t ever think any of this is a problem, in a professional context or not.
https://www.science.org/content/article/female-doctors-save-more-lives
“If male doctors were more like female doctors, 32,000 fewer deaths would occur annually, new research suggests. The exact reason why, however, remains unclear, The Wall Street Journal reports. The study, published in the journal JAMA International Medicine, included more than 58,000 physicians who treat Medicare enrollees. They found that even when female doctors treated sicker patients, like those with sepsis, pneumonia, acute renal failure, and arrhythmia, mortality rates were lower than those of male physicians.”
Men cannot be trusted
Let’s also add onto the list the male fertility doctors who have used their own sperm to fertilize patients‘ eggs and, in the case of Pedro Pascal’s father, stolen and implanted embryos in a human trafficking scheme. The violations don’t even stop at our bodies.
That sex has no affect on personality whatsoever and as such does not need to be changed* if one’s personality does not match sexist stereotypes.
*Changed here refers to altering one’s sexual organs/secondary sexual characteristics to have the appearance of those of the opposite sex. Sex, as in which role a human plays in sexual reproduction, cannot be changed, even if the person is sterilized.
The core values "trans" people are forcing me to change? Allow me to elaborate:
Nobody is "born in the wrong body"
Women and girls have historically been and still are violently oppressed on the basis of sex
Homosexuality is normal and apolitical
Privilege and oppression are not something you can identify in and out of at will
Facts should be prioritized over subjective feelings
Pornography is a disgusting, misogynistic, exploitative, and abusive industry, and the men who watch porn are more likely to be violent and vocal in their hatred of women.
Everyone has the right to free speech, no matter what
Threatening those who don't think like you with rape, assault, job loss, and/or ostracism is wrong
Forcing people to say things we don't believe in is compelled speech
Humans are a sexually dimorphic species for no other reason than evolutionary reproduction
Men having more upper body strength does not make them superior to women nor does it make women weak
Men and women's biological differences are extremely important to understand because the ignorance continues to make women's healthcare across the globe subpar
Human sexuality is fixed and innate and only comes in 3 flavors (hetero, homo, and bisexuality)
Disorders of sexual development (a.k.a "intersex" conditions) are medical issues that cause a small amount of the population serious health problems, not "identities"
Gay men and lesbian women are the reason for gay rights
Women are the reason for women's rights
Gender nonconformity is normal because gender roles were artificially created to oppress women
Baby girls are not born with an innate interest in high heels or makeup.
Baby boys are not born loving Tonka trucks and fixing stuff.
Girls can wear pants. Boys can wear dresses. Clothes are just fabric
Being gay, lesbian, or bisexual is an innate fact of life, not something you can "identify" as, not a club to join, nor an aesthetic for you to try out
Women are adult human females, not an idea in someone's head, not someone who wears a dress, nor a person with long hair
History is not your fanfic that you can revise and embellish at will
Black women are not "masculine" and have never been "mistaken as or compared to" men
Bathrooms and locker rooms are not validation spaces
Cosmetic surgery is a scam and the professionals who promote and perform the surgeries are butchers
Men injecting themselves with estrogen and women injecting themselves with testosterone is extremely dangerous to your health and should be treated like shooting yourself up with heroin or cocaine
Prostitution is human trafficking and women's and children's bodies are not objects for men to purchase
Women fought tooth and nail for our own spaces and resources because sex segregation in sports, schools, and private spaces benefits women and girls of every race, ethnicity, religion, ability, and belief
"Transitioning" has been gay conversion therapy since day one
Feminism is for women only
"Intersectionality" as a concept was created for women only
"Inclusive" language serves no purpose but to hide the truth and dehumanize women
Forcing the unwilling public to indulge in your sexual fetishes makes you a sex offender; it is not a human right
Forcing female prisoners to be housed with men is a violation of the Geneva Convention and a massive human rights violation
And since we're on human rights, getting cosmetic surgery you don't need, hormones you don't need, and changing your legal documents to state that you are something you're not do NOT count as human rights. They are privileges nobody else gets.
You should actually give a shit about other people and think about how your actions effect them
Honesty should be the gold standard, not "being kind"
I could go on. "Trans" people and their equally shitty allies have been demanding I adhere to your twisted beliefs or else suffer terrible consequences for at least ten years now.
You can eat my freshly bloodied pad, OP. I'll never adhere to your insane cult-like dogma.
Man I wish it wasn't classified as transphobic to bring up that a lot of trans women still sort of see trans men as less than. Talking bad about our music, putting down our accomplishments, even saying our jobs are transphobic for hiring us and not them. Transandrophobia is real and i experience is most often from the transfemmes I know personally.
@honoraryterfposts
Take a look in the notes. The incredible hostility, aggression, suspicion, and hatred that other trans people respond with, even to brief vents written as carefully walking-on-eggshells as possible like the OP here, is what makes us give the fuck up on the trans community.
TRAs often complain about how blunt and direct radfems are. But that is because most of us learned the hard way that trying to sugarcoat things in order to communicate with them is pointless. They are going to react with hostility to even the most polite and minor of disagreements. So there's no point in trying not to provoke their hostility.
They don't really have a sense of proportionality, they go for the throat over even the most minor of grievances. Ironically, the group this reminds me of the most is Christian fundamentalists in the 2000s. They were left baffled as the culture wars turned against them. But they were so hostile to others that it alienated people who had been their allies. I unironically do think that a big reason that gendies are the way they are is because a lot of their culture comes from former religious fundamentalists who unlearned religion but never unlearned the black and white us vs them religious morality they grew up with.
stop using the “this will only stop safe abortions” argument against conservatives. they know and are fine with women dying a bloody death for trying to get an abortion. for them it’s not a bug, it’s a feature.
I feel like so many activists really need to change the narrative from simply, “these right-wingers aren’t actually pro-life. They don’t care about children, if they did they would fund public schooling, maternal care, strengthen gun laws etc.”
To, “Right-wingers actively seek to destroy the female class by trapping them in endless cycles of pregnancy, childbirth, and resulting financial destitution. They do not want women holding important positions in society including, doctors, lawyers, government roles, and other civil society positions which take years to obtain the needed degrees for, and further time to secure job roles which pregnancy and motherhood often interrupts for long periods of time (sometimes forever). They want to punish women for daring to organise for their rights from the second wave of feminism and beyond, by forcing them to undergo bodily harm via pregnancy and childbirth. They are glad that the childbirth mortality rate is high (especially among Black women) because they fundamentally consider childbirth an act that should be forced on women because they are simply are women, predestined to be punished by the Patriarchy. ‘Pro-lifers’ are anti-abortionists who fundamentally want women and girls suffer.”
#I feel like certain people won’t be okay with us saying “ Right-wingers actively seek to destroy the female class by…” because it acknowledges females as a distinct class. They will derail it every time with “acktuallyyy anyone can get pregnant, abortion rights aren’t just for women, you’re erasing ——” Just like they do every single time women want to talk about our own issues.
Still can’t believe they canceled to catch a predator bc one of the predators killed himself. That should’ve been like the goal of the whole program from the jump this world I swear
I can't begin to tell you how freeing it is to learn how to use power tools and fix stuff in your own home.
Especially if you grew up like me and it was expected that the men would do this stuff. (Which they will procrastinate and postpone doing indefinitely).
Ever since buying my own place I've been learning to do stuff, and I installed my dishwasher, a shower bidet, assembled a lot of furniture and hung all kinds of shit on my walls and it feels GREAT!
Also, one thing I've learned from observing men doing this stuff is that they don't really know what they're doing either. If you look for a tutorial on YouTube you have just as big of a chance of getting everything right, maybe more. So don't let fear stop you and grab that power drill.
This this this
Believe me, you can find a tutorial on YouTube for everything these days, take it slow and easy and things will turn out alright in the end!
Always have a tool kit at home, you don't need to have too many things for basic repairs and even for big things you always end up using the same three tools lol
And don't be afraid to do these things. There's always a solution.
Don't know how to do it? Most things come with instructions, or there's a tutorial online
You need to change a part of something but you don't even know the name? Use Google lens or take that part to the hardware store! I know it sounds funny, but I'm serious, If you need to change a screw, tube or something like that, take that part to the hardware store and ask them to give you the same one, it's not stupid, they know about the products and they will give you the same one :)
Don't panic! There's always a solution, and you shouldn't be afraid to do things. Little by little, you'll learn (maybe with a few mistakes along the way). No one is born knowing everything ;)
Men absolutely do not know what they're doing. They'll make it up as they go, say your concerns for standards are silly and the way they do it is "how everyone does it and it always works" and criticise how other men do it (also wrong).
I've heard this countless times from men "fixing" things in our house, including professional handymen.
The amount of times we had shower heads burn 'cause some Y ridden genius insisted on connecting the ground to neutral 'cause "it works fine everybody does it don't sweat it". One of the shower heads melted and another just blew up into the ceiling.
I had to install a grounding rod myself, break the wall and redo all the wiring, and refinish the bathroom (I did take classes in electrical maintenance before though, absolutely don't fuck with that unless you know exactly what you're doing).
@sossegato >shower
> electricity
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That sounds very relaxing, thanks youtube recommendations
