Veganism /ˈviːɡənɪzəm/ is the practice of abstaining from the use of animal products, particularly in diet, as well as following an associated philosophy that rejects the commodity status of sentient animals. A follower of veganism is known as a vegan. — Wikipedia
While Wikipedia puts it perfectly, I'm still astounded how there is so much confusion...
The thing is. Vegan is a black and white thing. You are a vegan, or you are a carnist. It really is that simple. You are a vegan if you believe non-human animals are not ours to own - if you are not sure on that, or you believe otherwise, then you are a carnist. It really is that simple. Carnism
The thing is from that political/ethical/ideological stance, lifestyle changes follow - such as adopting strict-vegetarian consumer choices.
If you believe animals aren't ours to own. You are vegan.
If you live a plant based lifestyle. You are strict-vegetarian.
If you believe animals aren't ours to own, and live a plant based lifestyle, you are a vegan and strict-vegetarian.
If you are not sure or believe otherwise that animals aren't ours to own, and live a plant based lifestyle, you are a carnist and a strict-vegetarian.
If you believe animals aren't ours to own, and hey, even if you consume animal products every day, kill thousands of fish for a single cat, go to sea world, whatever. You're still vegan (albeit you would probably have an amount of cognitive dissonance eating away at you.)
Yes. There is a journey aspect to it. But veganism is a point on that journey, a very well defined point on that journey. It takes germinations of things to make us realise animals are people, and with enough, we realise that hey, as animals are people, they should have rights. That takes time yes. That is a journey yes. And yes, once you realise non-human animals are also people, and have rights, and that oppression of those rights is unethical, you are now vegan, and yes there is a journey from there too - what to do when there is no other food but animal products? what to do about my pets? etc etc. However as a ethical stance, one can come to objective ethical answers to those. It's a journey, but it is a clear cut journey with clear points along the line of progression from each step.
The "I don't care why you're vegan" isn't accurate. More correctly, it is "I don't care why you are plant based". There is only one way to be vegan, and that is to understand the ethical principle of it.
It's so painful to see how this is such a huge problem. Originally the word vegetarian did mean strict-vegetarian, but over time the term got confused and polluted to now mean anything but red meat. There needs to be really strict education on what veganism is. Every vegan group and event should have the wikipedia definition in their description so there is absolutely no confusion about it.
As Gary Yourosky puts it in this video, the best way to spread veganism is to be upfront about the definition and what it means to be vegan and what it means to not be vegan...
The thing is "vegan" is now a word the mainstream knows, therefore it is now a word that people want in on. It's cool to be on the in-crowd, even if you are incorrect.