aesthetic and shit

Hi I like girls and pretty things. this is a positive space where I can express those likes freely. [Bambi is a term for ace lesbian]

[nora-yoko]

[redlipstickresurrected]

Angi Lvŷu aka Alai Ganuza aka Angi Lvyu (Spanish, based Leioa, Spain) - Berry Blast, Paintings: Oil

[rainydaydecaf]

I never saw people say stuff like this enough when I was a teenager, so I’m saying it now.

I’m in my mid-thirties and I have never had sex. I’ve thought about it and could have had one or two opportunities if I put in more effort, but I always decided against it because I just wasn’t into it at the time.

I can safely say that I do not feel I have missed out on anything. I was perfectly capable, by myself, of learning about my own body and boundaries without anyone else there to muddy the waters. The immense pressure that was there in my teens/twenties to Have Sex Just Do It is basically gone. I’m vibing. I’ve got my routine by myself in bed that I enjoy, and that’s enough for me.

And in the unlikely event that I ever decide to have sex with someone in the future, I don’t feel at all like I’m lacking some essential Knowledge or Skill that would “make it good” for someone else. I fully expect to ask my partner out loud what they like and to receive an answer clearly communicated and to relax and have fun. And if it’s a disappointing experience, I’m fine with that too. It is what it is.

Sex is just not that big of a deal. I suspected it as a teen, and I’m more sure of it now. It’s fine to have it or not have it. It’s whatever.

[chaioverdose]

The forbidden treats

[pinkfairiesteaparty]

[panga3ic]

collection of needle-felted ducks july 2025 - april 2026

[rennerei]

always 🙏

[tolkien-witch]

A Hafling’s Life Bookmark by Fablewood Goods

[pinkfairiesteaparty]

[makovietz]

Dawn

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[codes-and-stuffs]

i do think we should normalise being like. platonically enamoured with someone. perhaps i love and admire you dearly and there's nothing romantic about it

[artbylittlebug]

[expressions-of-nature]

by Look Up Look Down Photography

[kaitlynillustrations]

This piece will be displayed at Boji Gallery in Shibuya, Japan starting July 18 in their summer themed exhibition! I’m so excited to have my work displayed in an area that shaped the fashion that inspires so much of my art!

This watercolor piece was inspired by my childhood summer vacations and the colorful souvenirs I would collect! 🐠🩷

The original painting is available at my Etsy shop, kaitlynillustrations.etsy.com 🎀

[passionpeachy]

sapphic flag gijinka 🌸

[meganroseruiz]

Figurines are here! Created by @indiaboeckh and designed by me! India likes to call these guys Hot Dog Mouths lol

Available here: indiaboeckh.com/store

[kaliune]

🌺🌻summer🌻🌺